Sugar Husband??? :)

Sugar Husband??? :)

Hello dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #32

Freshen up your look.  A picture can be worth a thousand words and mean the difference between a POT returning your message or ignoring you.  Get a model mayhem page and meet up with local photographers willing to do TF work.  TF stands for "trade for"…ie. your time for free pics.  Get creative, look alluring, and stand out from the competition!

How have yall been?  Let me know in your comments!  I love hearing from you girls :)  So I'm out of the sugar baby business, but maybe not out of the lifestyle.  I want true love and longevity.  Not temporary sugar that's like a drug that gives an amazing high but leaves you quickly feeling low and needing more.  I've always tried to date men who are well off and can afford the lifestyle I want to live. That's not being a gold digger, that's evolution.  Survival of the fittest.  If you're smart enough, driven enough, and resourceful enough to find your way in life to riches, then those are the genes I want to pass onto my kids :)  And of course I am quite the catch myself…highly educated, prestigious job…I deserve someone like that too.

So the last few months I've been in a relationship with an investment banker.  There's a bit of an age gap between us that's more than I normally would allow, but he's quite handsome and definitely doesn't look his age ;)  He travels so much lately, I rarely see him, but we talk daily.  I love our connection.  I haven't asked for anything from him, but he makes sure he sends me sweet gifts and surprises.  Nothing too too extravagant on some hardcore sugar daddy status, but very thoughtful.  I'm sure he's being cautious as not to be taken advantage of, which is fine.  I want his heart, not his wallet.  We could make such a power couple!

Anyone else rather have a sugar husband instead of a sugar daddy?  I wonder if I'll ever have to worry about sugar babies if we get married.  I WISH he would!!! Hahaha  Comes with the territory I suppose…my friends married her sugar hubby, but he's always cheated on her.  Nothing has changed, except her getting frustrated now that they're married.  Chime in on the comments and let me know what you think, or if you're in a similar situation!

Until Next Time,
Dream SB

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Phoning in After a Hiatus

Phoning in After a Hiatus

Hello dolls!

It's been quite some time since I've last written to you all.  Not much sugar activity on my end, but no less sugar gossip!  Sometimes its better to keep the business under wraps and not tell anyone.  I made the mistake of telling my roommate who went and hyped up the sugar bowl to one of her friends.  Well this friend of hers started prowling the sugar dating sites and sleeping with daddies for as little as $100, sometimes nothing at all.  Such an outrage that she calls herself a sugar baby.  She should just admit that she's a sex addict and not try to glamourize it.

But anyway, what another girl does with her twat concerns me very little.  So I started meeting up with a past POT again.  He told me about his latest flame which sounded a lot like my roommate's friend.  Then he showed me nude photos of her and I'd recognize her cheeks anywhere.  He had little interest in anything I had to offer since she put out like a porn star for him for $100 a week.  That was a bit irritating…but what really got my nerves on edge was that he seemed like he was investigating who I really was.  We were on the phone chatting before meeting up for a date and my coworker asked me a question in the background.  I only called my coworker out by his first name…but this POT asked me what my coworker wanted, only he called my coworker by his last name.  Coincidence?  I know better…what are the chances he could guess it?  Also I'm sure I've never said this guy's last name because I never say it anyways.

So I got scared that he knew exactly where I work and where to find me whenever he found it convenient.  I always have Lifetime movie nightmares about when sugar daddies go bad….so I have to go under the radar for a while.  He knew his latest flame knew me personally…and she's a dimwit so I can't trust for her to not reveal where I live or my real name if she ever got drunk.  Also he's been sleeping with her without protection…if he found out that she's HIV positive, no tell what he'd might do.  Should I have told him?  I didn't think it was my place.  Once I found out that she was his sugar baby, I wasn't interested in him in the least bit.  I was content keeping him around as a safety net, someone to call in an emergency…but he became too dangerous for that.

How important is is it to keep your identity a secret.  So many girls carelessly walk around giving out all of their personal information to these people who have more money and potentially more power than they do.  I'm all about zero drama.  Keep my personal life and my sugar life separate.  My best friend gave her new daddy her social security number because he claimed he was giving her a job.  I've worked for a daddy before, but I gave my social to his HR lady…he could access it if he really wanted to, but at least I knew the job was legit.  I'm not going to write my social on a napkin during a date and trust you're not going to steal my identity or try to black mail me somehow later.

I have more to tell…but I'll have to save it for another post.

Tata for now loves!
♥ Dream SB

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Sugar Desert :(

Sugar Desert :(

Hello Dolls!

I've been quiet on here.  The sugar hunt is still just disappointing.  I need to get out of this sugar desert.  I get plenty of responses from local POTS and out-of-town POTS, but they are either flakin' or fakin'.  One POT asked me what my last SD spoiled me with.  I told him that my last SD gave me $750 a week regardless of whether I saw him or not, but I only really need $500 a week now since I get a small stipend from my internship.  This loser replies:

"$750 per week for 50 weeks would be $37,500!!    What would your new daddy get for $500 per week - 50 weeks or $25,000?"

Hmmm that's a good indication that you're BROKE.  Please get off of SA.com and sign up for Match.com.  There is no way I am flying out to Texas to see you for less than 2k a month.  I like POTS who have a "What can I do for you?" attitude, not a "Can I get a coupon with that" attitude.  What I wanted to respond to his question was: "You'd get less than what the last daddy got you damn downgrade."  LOL But of course I didn't burn my bridge right away.  I asked him what he was looking for and what he was comfortable spoiling me with.  He completely IGNORED my question and asked me how soon I could fly out to Texas.  Do you ladies ever get the POTS that ignore direct questions like you never spoke?  I hate that.  So I keep asking my fucking question till you answer me.  My next email just repeated my original question.  Crickets.  He probably knows I won't hop on a plane for $500 a month…bum.

I got back in touch with Mr. Baltimore even though I think he's a pompous asshole.  He excitedly started texting me, but almost as quickly just started fakin' on me.  I don't want to talk, I want to make plans, go out, have fun, & make it rain sugar candy drops.  I quickly started ignoring him.  If all you want to do is talk and text…you can at least pay my phone bill and get me an iphone.

So that's where I've been at with the sugar bowl over the last month.  Luckily I am far from broke.  I got money in the bank, and a nice steady healthy income coming in.  I'm definitely not desperate like some of these girls out here hooking up for a couple hundred bucks.  Sorry I'm not desperate for HIV.  Oh you made him wear a condom, but it broke…now what, you're HIV positive.  Yeah definitely not a good look when all you have to show for it was a few dollars.  Now go spend it on your anti-viral medication.

Valentine's Day is just around the corner!  I think I'm going to spice up my love life and give the sugar  business a bit of a break for now.  I want hugs and kisses from someone young, sexy, and strong ;)

Until Next Time,
♥ Dream SB

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