Showing posts with label Potentials. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Potentials. Show all posts

Sugar Desert :(

Hello Dolls!

I've been quiet on here.  The sugar hunt is still just disappointing.  I need to get out of this sugar desert.  I get plenty of responses from local POTS and out-of-town POTS, but they are either flakin' or fakin'.  One POT asked me what my last SD spoiled me with.  I told him that my last SD gave me $750 a week regardless of whether I saw him or not, but I only really need $500 a week now since I get a small stipend from my internship.  This loser replies:

"$750 per week for 50 weeks would be $37,500!!    What would your new daddy get for $500 per week - 50 weeks or $25,000?"

Hmmm that's a good indication that you're BROKE.  Please get off of SA.com and sign up for Match.com.  There is no way I am flying out to Texas to see you for less than 2k a month.  I like POTS who have a "What can I do for you?" attitude, not a "Can I get a coupon with that" attitude.  What I wanted to respond to his question was: "You'd get less than what the last daddy got you damn downgrade."  LOL But of course I didn't burn my bridge right away.  I asked him what he was looking for and what he was comfortable spoiling me with.  He completely IGNORED my question and asked me how soon I could fly out to Texas.  Do you ladies ever get the POTS that ignore direct questions like you never spoke?  I hate that.  So I keep asking my fucking question till you answer me.  My next email just repeated my original question.  Crickets.  He probably knows I won't hop on a plane for $500 a month…bum.


I got back in touch with Mr. Baltimore even though I think he's a pompous asshole.  He excitedly started texting me, but almost as quickly just started fakin' on me.  I don't want to talk, I want to make plans, go out, have fun, & make it rain sugar candy drops.  I quickly started ignoring him.  If all you want to do is talk and text…you can at least pay my phone bill and get me an iphone.


So that's where I've been at with the sugar bowl over the last month.  Luckily I am far from broke.  I got money in the bank, and a nice steady healthy income coming in.  I'm definitely not desperate like some of these girls out here hooking up for a couple hundred bucks.  Sorry I'm not desperate for HIV.  Oh you made him wear a condom, but it broke…now what, you're HIV positive.  Yeah definitely not a good look when all you have to show for it was a few dollars.  Now go spend it on your anti-viral medication.


Valentine's Day is just around the corner!  I think I'm going to spice up my love life and give the sugar  business a bit of a break for now.  I want hugs and kisses from someone young, sexy, and strong ;)

Until Next Time,
♥ Dream SB

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Island Sugar Baby

Hello Dolls!

I am bubbling over with joy!  Guess where I'm flying next week?  I'm taking a vacay to the Virgin Islands.  My homegirl just came home from living overseas with her SD and he's treating us to some girl-time in the VI! :)  The sugar world is oooh soo sweet.


Sugar Baby Tip #029

Step outside of your comfort zone...experience a slice of the good life!  This is mainly for the newbies.  Is Olive Garden your favorite restaurant?  Ok I need you to get on google and find some 5 star restaurants with celebrity status dining experiences and suggest your SD or POT take you there.  Never had a spa day?  Ask your SD to send you to get your hair and nails done along with a facial, a massage, and some time in the sauna.  Have fun with this, get creative, get imaginative!  This is your time to shine!


Sugary Updates

I've got 3 POTs who have strong potential for crossing over into Sugar Daddy land.  Hopefully at least 2 of them are man enough to take on the challenger ::grins::.  If they don't work out, oh well, on to the next one.  I'm not investing a great deal of energy into POTs anymore.  A man knows within 30 seconds of meeting me if I'm desireable enough to be kept.  So all this going on multiple dates without an arrangement...not gonna happen.  Show me the money!  I'm excited because I like all three of them fairly well enough to tolerate their company.  I really like my SD and I think our relationship is unique to what people think of SB/SD relationships, so I am greatly pleased with it.  I just need some extra cash for security and mainly savings so I can buy a house in a year or so once I'm done with grad school.


Now I gotta do a little shopping for my VI trip.  Hmmm perhaps I should call a gift daddy.  If you don't have one, get one!  I need island inspired dresses....a wide brimmed floppy straw hat...some new precious stoned sandals...and new bikini wouldn't hurt either.  I'm definitely going to schedule my spa trip I talked about in my last post before I fly out.  I wish the trip was a cruise, but my friend gets terribly seasick.  I won't complain about a resort too much ;-*  If you could take a trip anywhere right now, all expenses paid...where would you go?

♥ Dream SB

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Be Prepared If You Have A Sweet Tooth! My Sugar Explosion!

Hello Dolls!

I can't believe I haven't blogged in the last couple of days?! Miss me?? :)

Sugary Updates

I had dinner with Mr. Artist at a beautiful ethnic restaurant.  I loooved the food so much!  It was my recommendation, and he always goes along with my suggestions.  We had some time before dinner to walk and talk.  It was nice hearing him talk more than me for once.  Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't talk so much so I don't reveal too much on accident.  I definitely got some more insight into who he is, his personality, and his history.  Surprisingly I felt a closeness to him in a deep friendship sort of way.  He has decided to increase my allowance to $3000 a month.  This time some expectation came with the increase, so I look at it more like a job than anything else.  On top of our 4 dates a month, I will be making myself available for advice, inspiration, and encouragement…simply more conversational centered interactions.  That is cake to me :)  This is perfect since I really need to get on my feet.


I also had breakfast with Mr. Shades too.  He's definitely not my type, but he is certainly more attractive than I thought he was and seems like a complete sweetheart.  He took me to breakfast at a beautiful restaurant that was originally built in the early 1900s as a private restaurant to serve presidents, congressmen, elite businessmen, and celebrities.  Mr. Shades seems a little shy, which in turn made me feel a bit shy.  I guess I feed off of others energy, but I tried my best to overcome it and be as natural and charming as possible.  He agreed that a $2000/mo allowance would be appropriate prior to meeting if we decided to start a sugar relationship.  After breakfast I suggested we walk around the shopping district and get to know each other more.  We drove around looking for parking for a while, and finally he told me he had to go take care of some tenants that just called.  He offered to pay for my parking, but definitely didn't give me any shopping money.  I wonder if the prospect of shopping scared him off?  He didn't respond to my text that I sent afterwards thanking him for the date, so I thought that wasn't interested.  Yeah right, I don't know why I doubt myself.  He shot me a text back the next day raving about how smitten he is with me ;)


I also had the opportunity to see Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow in concert.  Mr. Yacht paid for the tickets and travel arrangements.  He even took care of two of my girlfriends as well.  He bought us all the drinks that we wanted and food too.  I invited my SB bestie and then she brought one of her friends.  Her friend was an utter embarrassment!  She asked Mr. Yacht about his wife around his other lady friends.  She got so drunk and was saying stupid things about penises and kept doing inappropriate things like grabbing my bestie's titties.  I wanted to bury her so far under the ground…lol!  The concert was amazing!  Kid Rock hopped around stage like a grasshopper.  Sheryl was as beautiful and inspiring as ever.


I had a date set up with a guy I met on wealthymen.com.  He lives in the DC area and is a notorious young businessman.  I researched his company and everything.  He's legit.  I will call him Mr. Tokyo because he's half Japanese and extremely sexy.  He promised he'd be in my area for the day on business so we'd be able to go out for sushi.  I guess there was a massive earthquake across the region causing railroad tracks getting crumpled and disabling trains…lots of big problems delaying traffic and disrupting business.  Did any of you all feel it?  Well anyways he canceled because of it, so who knows when I will see him?  It'd be nice to get a millionaire boyfriend :)


Tomorrow I have a date set up with Mr. Jet, who has his own private jet and is offering me $4,000/mo.  His offer is not as innocent as some the offers I have accepted already.  I try not to be sensitive about the whole sex issue.  I don't know why sleeping with someone who gives you money has to have the thorny association with prostitution…so it'd be so much better if I slept with him for free?  Get the fuck out of here!  Men should have been paying every woman for sex since the beginning of time.  I don't know what sexist fuck started the idea that we should give that shit up for empty promises and hollow "I love you's".  Mr. Jet said that if everything goes well, he's prepared to start my allowance next week.  We'll see.  He offered to take me shopping on our first date, so if he buys me some high ticket items then I'll know he's serious.


I started talking to a new POT from SA called Mr. Aussie.  He's handsome and athletic and has the sexiest mixture of a Scottish and Australian accent!  I love it!  He's new to the sugar world.  I've noticed that many of these guys join sugar sites without knowing what to expect because of a "friend's" recommendation.  I would've thought these so called friends would give them an idea of what to offer a girl they were interested and how to approach things.  Apparently not.  My desired allowance is posted articulately on my profile and he brought it up.  I told him we didn't need to negotiate an arrangement just yet and I'd like to meet and see if there was any chemistry first.  I thought that was the right thing to say…I'm not sure now.  After our first conversation he emailed me and said that he could tell by our communication that he couldn't be involved with me on the regular.  So he offered me a non-sexual couples massage and shopping on occasion instead.  WTF??  I mean I love massages and shopping, but if you're not interested…then why even that?  I don't see the benefit other than him trying to let me down nicely.  Oh well its probably just talk cuz he's scared of real sugar.


I've also had a rendezvous with Mr. Price! If you don't know who he is, he's this fine young and wealthy guy I've been casually dating on and off over the last year.  It was late and I had just finished up a date in his area so I decided to give him a call before I started my journey home.  He answered! I wasn't sure because he travels at least 4 days a week.  He sounded sooo sleepy but still offered for me to come over for a little bit to catch up while he was still in town…and catch up we did ;-*! He knows about my sugar exploits, which I describe to him as compensated dating.  I love how he's not immediately repulsed by it and is intrigued.  I coyly joked that what I was about to do would cost anyone else $5k :P  As I was cuddled up with him chatting about different he things, he mentioned how he really liked how I give head.  Usually that's just a cue, but then he described in detail what he liked about it and how it was different than how any other girl has ever given him head.  I love that about him…he pays attention to details and is so appreciative of things that other guys don't really care about.


I teased him with kisses up and down his torso and then preceded to give him some of the head that he liked so much.  I loved how he closed his eyes and looked like a kid in a candy shop.  Then I jokingly stopped, yawned and rolled over.  He pounced on me, flipped me over, lifted my dress and just slid my thong over.  I love how he gets naked in 0.9 seconds and I take forever.  I guess he didn't feel like waiting so he fucked me with all of my clothes still on.  I love his gentle strength and dominance in bed.  I moved and he slipped out on accident.  He just smacked my ass and pulled me back to him telling me to stop fighting it. ::Melts just thinking about it!:: The more I squirm or try to push him away, the more he restrains me and purposely pleasures me more.  Afterwards we showered together and he asked me if I'll be able to go back to dating regular guys once I get what I need.  I looked up at him and sensed a tinge of longing and disappointment in his deep golden brown eyes.  I didn't say anything because I knew the next thing that was going to come out of my mouth was going to be a lie.  The sugar world is addictive…will it be all that easy to give up?

♥ Dream SB

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One SBs POT Trash Is Another's Jack POT!

Hello Dolls!

Sugary Updates

So my SB bestfriend got flaked on by a POT that she was going out with for a while and trying to get him to be her official SD.  When she pushed for an agreement he went POOF!  Well I found his punk ass on SA.com  I messaged him and he responded >;-P Now I'm no expert in the sugar world, but I do have a way with people.  My SB bestie made some key mistakes with this guy, so maybe learning from those mistakes I can capture his interest and get an allowance and some gifts out of him.  He seems like a nice guy.  I mean he wasn't an asshole to her in the least.  I'm going to try to charm him for the present that he was supposed to give her, and then see if he'll make a good SD.  His allowance budget matches what I've asked for on my profile.  Just because things didn't work out with the two of them doesn't mean he's a bad guy or have sucky SD potential…it just means it didn't work out between the two of them.  Not everyone is for everyone.  I openly discussed my plans with her so there won't be any bruised pride or hard feelings.  If I can get the present that was meant for her, I'll gladly give it to her as a gift.


So things are really getting fun at the office.  Mr. Yacht is really easy going with me and generous…almost as if he's trying to entice me into being his SB subconsciously.  Here are some of the cool things that I'm excited about:


Office Pet
I asked Mr. Yacht if I could get an office pet and he said yes!  I brought in a gorgeous Japanese style fish tank for my desk today.  I want to put saltwater fish in it and Mr. Yacht offered to buy all of the supplies and the fish.  That can be costly!  He even said he'll buy me a stand just for my fish tank.  I want to get a little clownfish like nemo, a starfish, and a yellow and purple dotty back.  The tank is only 5 gallons, but that is all I would want to clean.


Mr. Yacht says that fish don't count as the office pet because you can't pet them.  So he suggested that I go out and get a puppy on him.  I thought long and hard about what kind of puppy I want to get.  The guys at the job would have less appreciation for a teacup pooch than something they can wrestle with.  I think I'm going to get a yellow lab puppy.  What should I name him?


Interior Design
So the office is a bit…rough looking.  The walls have tons of marks on them.  I told Mr. Yacht that I want to paint the office turquoise.  Again, he said yes and even told me that I could hire contractors to come in and do the painting.  What are some other good colors for an office?  I'm the only woman in this company…so pink might not be fair to the boys.  Although Mr. Yacht said I can paint the walls whatever color I please.


Assistant
I was a bit shocked when Mr. Yacht told me that I could hire my own personal assistant if I thought I could use one.  The job really is a lot of work for one person.  My workload is never ending, but I am a manager so I should be able to hire whoever I need to get the job done.  This new sense of power is exciting.  I wonder why the last office manager didn't hire a helping hand…maybe she didn't get the option :)


A POT turned employer isn't a bad deal at all.  I'm looking forward to my paycheck and at least a job has little bit more security.  He actually needs me not just wants me.  Trying to dip out on me now can be costly and a headache.  Besides I'm catching on pretty quick and am a load of fun to be around.

♥ Dream SB

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A Phone Snooping POT & A Woman's Scorn

Hello Dolls!

I had such an amusing day :)  So I was woken up by my phone at like 1 AM and had gotten 8 or 9 text messages from my ex boyfriend.  I'm thinking to myself…WTF!  Then I read the messages and this is what it said:

"Malachai is a lying piece of shit…a cheater that plots on bitches online…ladies beware! He lives with a bitch…left his phone in my care and is straight busted…Dates a different POF girl everyday…yall can have his trifflin bitch ass! At least I got free drinks off of his ass.  He has no fuckin game.  Lame ass."


I burst out into laughter because whoever his pissed off date was…she sent that message from his phone to everyone in his contacts…all the women…his aunt…his mama…his boss…even his pastor!  Let me give you some background on this asshole.  I dated him for 4 months…and he is a pathological liar.  Lied about who he lives with…the works.  This dude had nerve to start taking other female "friends" out because I couldn't afford to travel into the city to go on dates with him (and he refused to come see me or give me gas money).   I called his phone and the girl picks up with a real ghetto intonation when she said "Hel-luh".  Apparently he told her that he broke up with me because I'm bulimic and that we just broke up last week….bahahaha that's such a load of bull…(1) I'd like a bigger ass, so I won't be vomiting my meals anytime soon, and (2) We broke up over a month ago.  So I kindly informed her that he lives with his mom…has severe erectile disfunction…doesn't have a car (yet will borrow cars to hide that fact)…and only takes girls out to free events for dates.  That tickled me :)  She kindly informed the rest of his phone book about that too LOL.

Sugar Updates

I had a first date with Mr. Flavor right after work today. Ok…epic fail on my part…a tall white man in a business suit walks through the door and I flash him a greeting smile and wave…yeah…not my date!  I'm so terrible! I really do think all white people look alike! (No offense to my caucasian sugars lol, but I'm half white too so imagine me at family reunions lol) Mr. Flavor arrived a half hour late.  My Sex on the Beach was just ice cubes then.  He's a humorous and delightful man…much more handsome in person.  His pictures seriously don't do him any justice whatsoever…in fact he should delete them.  I lightly brushed over topics like money.  He said once he feels a connection then fulfilling any of my wants and needs wouldn't be an issue for him.  He doesn't want it to feel like a transaction, he wants to feel naturally compelled to take care of me.  That sounds all hunkey dorey and all…


BUT…how long does it take for him to feel this so called connection?  Do you feel it now?  I'm not waiting 3 months.  What does my wants and needs not being an issue mean?  He doesn't even know what they are, so how does he know he can afford them?  I hope not an issue means he'll be depositing $2k-$5k in my bank account on the 1st every month.  Somehow I feel like he's another talker…kinda how Captain promised I'd be well taken care of…and that ended up with past due bills.  So I excused myself to the bathroom and left my phone on the table.  Would you believe that fool was going through it when I snuck back to the table a different way so he couldn't see me coming.  I snatched it from him and sat down with a sinister grin.  He tried to play it off and say he never seen a pink phone before.  Reeeally…mmm hmmm…ok, sure.  I cut the date short and left.


I'm just really glad to at least have some kind of arrangement (not bad for my first) and a job that resulted from sugar dating.  So my sweet tooth is calmed for a bit, I'm not desperate for cravings for the sugar cash like I was when I first jumped into all of this.  A bad date…eh…so what.  No more ego stroking for the unworthy POTs.  They are the ones that are going to have to work a little harder to get me interested.  My boss asked me to be his SB again.  I politely declined.  Perhaps if he offered a more appealing allowance to compensate the occupational hazard of dating him would be…I might have considered it.  Why accept $1500 from him when he definitely is gonna want sex which could complicate things at work and lead to him firing me when things get weird…when Mr. Artist gives me $1600 just for 1 dinner date a week.  In the grand scheme of things $1500 isn't a lot of money, and I'd prefer to get that every week rather than every month.  So I'm going to be choosey…not all money is worth it.


♥ Dream SB

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Can A Sugar Baby Be Too Young?!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #023

Always have someone watching your back.  If you're new to all of this, you're going to be meeting many strangers and probably frequently till you find the right SD for you.  Be careful!  I'm not saying drag a buddy along on a date, but let a trust friend know what's going on.  Your "look out" should know where you are going, what time, and who you are meeting.  Call or shoot your "look out" a text when you leave for a date with a new POT, and have her text or call you in 20-45 minutes to make sure everything is smooth sailing.  Have a plan for when things are uncomfortable or you just need to get out of that situation gracefully.  If you don't have your own ride, make sure your "look out" is available to scoop you up if your sugary situation goes sour.  How about we DON'T end up like the chick that disappeared in Aruba.


Sugary Updates

Right now I have a few new POTs who haven't set much up and communicate so inconsistently, I'm not even sure how to categorize them.

Introducing Mr. Flavor.  I named him that because I love how he likes women of color :)  He called today and I really vibed with him on the phone.  I like him.  He's funny, easy to talk to, down to earth, and easy going.  Hopefully he confirms our date for tomorrow and we can explore a new restaurant together.  He gets bonus points for not being pervy :)  I'll discuss my financial expectations over dinner and see how they align up with his budget.  I'm shooting for at least $2k, so I'm going to use my amazing bartering skills.  Wish me luck!


Captain: He will be back in town this weekend!  I miss him even though he shot down my allowance.  Hopefully we can pack up for a day trip and head out to a beach or amusement park…then of course do some much need shopping!  I need fall clothes and work clothes…not to mention my iPhone 4…but I heard rumors that the iPhone 5 might be released next month.


So I messaged a young POT on SA.com showing interest.  He writes back and says:

"You're hot, but you're too young."

Okay ladies, I've gotten a few of these responses from guys who are in their 60's…this nicca is 32.  No boo…you're a little young for me hahaha.  I have not had any good luck with young POTs, but me being too young?  That's a first.  We're only 7 years apart.  I responded with sarcasm…but he's probably just a waste of my time with excuses like that.  He's probably only saying I'm too young, but he really means that he can't afford the $2k-$5k expected allowance that's in my profile.  Onto the next one!


I have 2 more items I'd like to add to my wishlist!

100% Swarovski crystal case for iPhone 4 - $360.00

Swarovski crystal dog collar for my lil fat pooch - $95.00

I'm trying not to let this who SB thing turn me materialistic…but these are SO PRETTY! :D  Sugar cash is so addicting…its the easiest money I've ever made.  I was only planning on doing the SB thing for a year…but my mind has already begun plotting on how I'm going to get sugar cash to buy a house.  I even toyed with the idea of having an SD even when I'm married.  I mean my husband would know about it, and it shouldn't be a big deal as long as I'm only going on occasional dates that don't involve sexual contact.  It's almost like hostessing in Japan.  That's what men are doing right now…paying for my company and conversation…tax free Benjamins!

♥ Dream SB


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When a POT Wants Nude Photos...

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #021

If you don't have a car, and your SD isn't committed enough to buy you one…ask him to set up a rental car account so you can rent a nice car occasionally or on the regular.  Even if you have you own car, it wouldn't be a bad idea to push a Maserati every now and then!  Besides rental cars keep you from putting miles on your car and depreciating the value.  It is also a lot better option than taking the bus and some companies actually pick you up.


Sugary Updates

Introducing Mr. Butt Cheeks!

Hahaha! I'm still laughing.  This guy…yeah so I emailed him some cute pictures of myself (nothing too sexy).  In return, he sends me nude photos of himself showing off his ass and one in some boxer briefs sporting a hard on.  Then he has nerve to ask me to send pictures like that back.  I kindly responded that I don't send those types of photos unless I am in an official arrangement/relationship.  He didn't write back.  I don't send provocative photos to anyone under any circumstance.  My ex-fiance had nudies of me and sent them to my dad when I broke his stupid little heart.  I won't make that mistake again…and he's lucky to still be sucking air.  Fortunately the next girl bashed his face in with a baseball bat…karma's a bitch! >:)


I have no problem telling a POT that something is off limits to him until he commits to the sugar.  Some of them have responded negatively to it and get their little boxers in a bunch about it, but I don't give a fuck.  If you want me to be all over you like white on rice and do sexy/naughty things, then show me the money asshole or quit wasting my time.  My time is precious and if I wanted to give it away for free I'd go find a hot young sexy muscular Brazilian or Italian guy to lick chocolate off my body…not some old fuddy duddy married man.


I have a fun date planned for today!  I'll reveal who its with and some details afterwards. He doesn't like to do much walking around, so I need to set something else up with another POT so I can go shopping either today or tomorrow.  There is so much more that I want for work attire and then of course clothes for my cruise next month!


Hope everyone's weekend is sugary sweet!

♥ Dream SB

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Demand Respect From Your SD

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #020

Hold your SDs and POTs accountable for their actions.  If a man treats you poorly and you just suck it up and let him keep doing it…don't complain.  You just gave him permission to continue those actions.  Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself.  If a guy that lives far away keeps standing you up, make him come to you, or he doesn't see you at all.  If a guy touches you in a way that disgusts you, tell him to knock it off.  Sugar babies may have to make sacrifices, but your self respect shouldn't be one of them.


Sugary Updates

I have a new POT, Mr. Geek Squad who keeps calling me while I'm at work.  Like forreal? I have a day job lol…you must be married if you can call me in the evening. I'd like to get to know him, but we keep playing phone tag.  I don't know much about him yet or what he looks like.  He's in the computer/IT field and a business owner.  It would be nice to find another SD for an additional income…I know it sounds greedy, but I better strike the iron while its hot!


I went shopping today! :)  It would've been better if I went with my gift daddy, but I went alone.  I need some new work clothes and some comfortable flats to wear too.  Even though I'm an office manager, the attire is very casual.  I can get away with a pair of really nice jeans and a semi-dressy top.  I hit up some of my favorite stores: Forever 21, 5-7-9, Papaya, Charlotte Russe, and H&M.

I bought a bunch of cute stuff.  I'm really feeling animal prints, neon colors, and natural fabrics.  I really love the Big Buddha boat shoes that I bought.  They are so comfy and look fashionable even though they are quite casual.  Perfect for running around in the office!

Here are some other shoes by Big Buddha that I like along with some fashions with neon and/or animal prints:

















♥ Dream SB

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