Pushing For A Solid Arrangement
Hello Dolls!
Sugar Baby Tip #016
Plan your dates in places where people who know you personally won't likely bump into you. Many sugar babies do not want their friends or families knowing that they date older men for security. Some don't care, but I think its safe to say that a majority of sugar babies have people in their lives that don't know about that aspect of their life. So if you don't want to run into an ex, a co worker, or your MOM, its wise to avoid dates in places they frequent. One of my sugar baby friends was on a date using a fake name…a friend definitely recognized her and ran up to her shouting out her real name. EMBARRASSING! I'm always afraid something like that is going to happen to me :P
Captain:
We had out date last night. The moroccan restaurant is a reservation only restaurant and they were all booked up yesterday. So we went to a classy American restaurant instead. I got lost and was late…which is never good, but it gives him more incentive to buy me a GPS (mine got stolen). We had a lovely dinner with great conversation as always. I couldn't help but be distracted by this other sugar baby's tits who was sitting right across from me…like seriously?! She was a gorgeous latino chick, voluptuous curves…but definitely not fat. Somehow she felt the need to squeeze her beautiful juicy body into a dress 3 sizes too small so that her breasts were bulging out of the top. Bulging is not an exaggeration…it looked so ridiculous, trashy, and completely distracting haha! And this girl had a motor mouth…talk talk talk…I swear I hardly heard her older date say a word.
There was several other sugar couples at this restaurant as well. Another couple seated further away was a grandfatherish older gentleman with a classy youthful brunette. She was eloquently dressed and seductively swayed her leg that she had crossed. I also saw a black sugar couple…it wasn't so obvious at first because the guy did not appear to be much older until I got a closer look when I walked by him. They seemed happy. There were no hating or questioning looks from people. Even the wait staff didn't show any emotion towards the somewhat odd pairing between me and my older date. It was as if this was the norm and how things should be. I loved it!
After dinner I gave Captain a few little kisses and coyly whispered in his ear, "So is your baby going to get an allowance?" I had brought it up once before and he told me that he was ok with an allowance and that I would be well taken care of…but never said how much. I didn't push the issue. This time he replied with, "I'll see what I can do, but rest assured you will be well taken care of with me." Then he preceded to tell me that he was planning on getting me plane tickets to go traveling and that he wanted to take me shopping. I need a definition on "Well Taken Care Of". What the fuck does that mean? Again I didn't push any further. I know, I need to be bolder, but I have a plan for that ass.
He flies back out on a business trip again tomorrow. He'll be out of state primarily for most of the year…which is great. I can fly to some nice locations and see him a few times a month, but otherwise my time is free. No surprise dates. No pressure to spend great amounts of time together. I won't go see him until I have received my allowance. So I'm picking up a visa gift card and I'm going to suggest that he put a certain amount on my card via online every week. When you break down a monthly allowance into weekly increments…it sounds less scary, less of a big deal. We'll see if he agrees to at least $500 a week ($2000-$2500/mo). I don't think that's unfair to ask. I like him, so hopefully we can get on the same page…or else my financial situation is going to force me to drop him.
I have a date with Mr. Artist to a tibetan restaurant and the Jill Scott concert tomorrow. I will be pushing for a solid arrangement with him as well…no more wasting my time or dancing around the issue. I'm ready for him to either get with the program or get lost ;)
♥ Dream SB
