Back To The Sugar Bowl!

Back To The Sugar Bowl!

Hello dolls!

OMG It's been months since I've blogged.  A fast from blogging can be for two reasons: (1) Too busy getting sugar to be writing about it; (2) Too fed up with sugar to care to write about it.  I fall into both of those categories :)  I grossed over $8,000 within 60 days, and made over $14,000 in 90 days of joining the sugar bowl but it wasn't all sweet…

Mr. Artist who graciously gave me $3000/mo for conversation and companionship to nice restaurants and event finally showed his true colors…brown like shit.  After two months he gave me some crack pot story about how he lost his job and was broke…but turns out what really happened was some hooker calling herself a sugar baby started fucking him for $400.  He offered $2000 for a rodeo with me, but I coldly shot him down.  It was a decent amount of money, but a baby has to have her principles.  Why am I valued less because some dumbass desperate broad wants to sell herself for pennies?


Mr. Events was fuddy duddy and pushy.  On our second date to a swanky lounge, I called the night early because I didn't think it was worth it to be seen in public much longer with him without getting anything for it.  He walked me to my car and shoved $300 in my hand.  Just as he did that, he forcefully grabbed my face and kissed me.  I tried to pull away but he held my head so hard it hurt.  That was the most disgusting kiss ever!  It was like kissing a fucking dinosaur.  I think that's the turning point where I snapped and was like fuck the sugar, not all money is good money.  I cried as I drove myself home.

Mr. Yacht was the daddy that hired me and was paying me $3000/mo to be his HR lady.  He was creepy of flirty once I was on official payroll, but I still got caught up in his sugar shit.  After two months of things going swell, one of his disgruntled ex sugar lovers called his wife and ratted him out.  She came to his company and saw my pretty little ass sitting where an old ugly white lady should have been…and fired me on the spot.  Mr. Artist flaked, Mr. Yacht's lil job fell through…looked like I was gonna hit rock bottom on the sugar bowl just ask quickly as I skyrocketed into the sugar heavens.

Mr. Shades gave me $2000 for one month after my birthday.  He was really nice and down to earth.  He joined the sugar bowl because his wife left him.  Would you believe the filthy bitch came back!  And so he said he wanted to focus on his relationship with her and that was the end of that….and just before the holidays too!

Since then I've been chill.  I took down my profiles for a while.  Lived the normal life.  I got a new place, moved to a new city, and took on a new job in my career field.  Still doing the grad school thing, and even tried dating regular guys.  Guys my age are idiots though lol!  I'm in a good place in my life, and I'm happy.  I went out with a regular guy from a regular dating site…and our first date he bought me a $200 pair of Michael Khors heels…then the sugar rush hit me and now I'm craving it even more.  So I'm going to give it another go, starting from scratch again, hunting for my #1 Sugar Daddy!

XOXO
Dream SB

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Messaged A POT Who Turned Out 2 B My Dad!

Messaged A POT Who Turned Out 2 B My Dad!

Hellos Dolls!

So I am now back from my 3 week hiatus.  I have been quite busy in the sugar world, but I had to make necessary adjustments so that I can get into the swing of things with grad school.  So I do apologize for the extended silence, but am pleased with everyone who responded with emails so they can continue to follow me now that the blog is private.

Sugar Baby Tip #30

Pick and choose your battles.  If you're not sleeping with a POT or SD who is spoiling you…but he does things that annoy you such as call too often or talk about his problems too much…you have to really ask yourself is it worth complaining about?  If he's spoiling you and treating you well, then some things are worth putting up with if you're not benefiting him much else.  Same thing goes with the ones who spoil the heck out of you and you give up the goods.  Is it really worth whining about that it lasts 3 minutes?  Just swipe his credit card and smile.  Leave the drama at home.  Don't ruin a good thing over little stuff.

Sugary Updates:

So I messaged a POT on Ashley Mads.  There was nothing that really red flagged his profile so I didn't think anything of it.  Funny thing is my SB bestie and I joked about her dad being on one of those sites since he's a public figure.  I never once imagined that my father would be!  One day while my mom wasn't around my dad walked up to me and called me by my SB name.  My head completely jerked around because why would he even think to say that name…

SIKE!  Wheeew! Yeah that would totally suck if that did happen…can you say awkward?!  I wanna talk to a SB that really has been in that situation lol.  I thought about how my pictures are plastered all over these sites and how easy it would be for a relative to recognize me if they were on there doing their dirt.

Virgin Islands:

The SD of one of my SB friends totally paid for her and I to go on a lil vacay to the Virgin Islands for a week.  Let me tell you, it was amazing!  The water is soooo beautiful and we were lucky to have gorgeous weather the entire time.  We spent three days in St. Thomas and four days in St. Croix.  I went snorkeling, jet skiing, and took a boat tour of the islands.

Banking Sugar:

I haven't been doing half bad.  I've been at my job (which I got hired by one of my POTs) for a month now and made $3k which is a huge upgrade from the chump change $1k/mo I was making before.  Mr. Artist has also made good on his promise and deposited $3k into my account for September's allowance as well.  I have also received some sugar on the side from some POTs that I've been rotating.  Mr. Shades gave me $500 since we agreed on that amount each week.  He's been really busy, so I've only been able to see him once this month so far.  Mr. Eventful gave me $300 before I left for my vacation.  Mr. Flavor is also back in the picture and has given me $200.  The brings my sugar to a grand total of $7000 for this month, most of which is just saved.  Sugar isn't reliable as some might think, so I want to be as frugal as possible and keep my rainy day fund stacked.  I'll go more into details on those dates and what not that you all missed in my entries this week.  There's so much to tell!

Well I'm glad to be back with you all and thanks for reading dolls!

♥ Creole Dream

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Island Sugar Baby

Island Sugar Baby

Hello Dolls!

I am bubbling over with joy!  Guess where I'm flying next week?  I'm taking a vacay to the Virgin Islands.  My homegirl just came home from living overseas with her SD and he's treating us to some girl-time in the VI! :)  The sugar world is oooh soo sweet.

Sugar Baby Tip #029

Step outside of your comfort zone...experience a slice of the good life!  This is mainly for the newbies.  Is Olive Garden your favorite restaurant?  Ok I need you to get on google and find some 5 star restaurants with celebrity status dining experiences and suggest your SD or POT take you there.  Never had a spa day?  Ask your SD to send you to get your hair and nails done along with a facial, a massage, and some time in the sauna.  Have fun with this, get creative, get imaginative!  This is your time to shine!

Sugary Updates

I've got 3 POTs who have strong potential for crossing over into Sugar Daddy land.  Hopefully at least 2 of them are man enough to take on the challenger ::grins::.  If they don't work out, oh well, on to the next one.  I'm not investing a great deal of energy into POTs anymore.  A man knows within 30 seconds of meeting me if I'm desireable enough to be kept.  So all this going on multiple dates without an arrangement...not gonna happen.  Show me the money!  I'm excited because I like all three of them fairly well enough to tolerate their company.  I really like my SD and I think our relationship is unique to what people think of SB/SD relationships, so I am greatly pleased with it.  I just need some extra cash for security and mainly savings so I can buy a house in a year or so once I'm done with grad school.

Now I gotta do a little shopping for my VI trip.  Hmmm perhaps I should call a gift daddy.  If you don't have one, get one!  I need island inspired dresses....a wide brimmed floppy straw hat...some new precious stoned sandals...and new bikini wouldn't hurt either.  I'm definitely going to schedule my spa trip I talked about in my last post before I fly out.  I wish the trip was a cruise, but my friend gets terribly seasick.  I won't complain about a resort too much ;-*  If you could take a trip anywhere right now, all expenses paid...where would you go?

♥ Dream SB

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Every Sugar Baby Needs A Spa Day

Every Sugar Baby Needs A Spa Day

Hello Dolls!

This has been a hectic week for me so far.  It seems like I have less and less time for sugar.  I guess the difference is that when I started a month ago, I was underemployed and got to sleep in till noon everyday.  Now a POT has given me a full time job, and I have make sure I make time for my sweet sweet SD…while I continue my search for more sugar to fund my mountain wants and needs.  I've never been so ambitious in my life.  It's crazy how determined I am to achieve goals that most people wouldn't even bother dreaming of.  I love it.  If I want to sun bathe on a French beach…I could if I looked for exotic trips in a SD.  My self-worth has definitely increased and become more aware to me since I've been sugaring.  Kinda weird since many people think that the whole concept of sugar dating objectifies women and degrades them.  I don't think so at all.  I feel like I'm on a pedestal, appreciated, and prized.  Why did I ever put up with boyfriends who would yell at me and treat me anything less than a princess?  I've also learned how to consciously express gratitude more.  Not that I never said thank you for nice things, but I really make a point to appreciate the amazing things that are done for me and not to act entitled to it.  For every SD or POT that would do something sugary splendid for me, I know there are at least 50 regular guys who wouldn't.

So me and my SB bestie were talking about our experiences and I think a definite must-have experience in the sugar world is an all expense paid spa day.  By no means am I living the highest of high lives in the sugar world, because there is yet so much for me to experience.  I am pleased with what I have achieved so far in such a short amount of time…money that easy almost feels sinful or dangerous like drug money.  I think I'm going to ask either Mr. Shades or Mr. Eventful…or BOTH…for a spa day.  A good sugar baby needs a day of relaxation…or weekend of it!

My SB bestie found a mega spa near our area.  This place has a full restaurant, nail salon, hair salon, full body massages including hot stone massage, a sauna, ice rooms, jacuzzis, public mineral baths, facials and so much more.  I really want to go to the gym (I need to ask a POT to get me a membership), and then relax for the day at this spa.  The public mineral bath has me a little weirded out because I don't normally let other women see me nude…at least not for free haha j/k!  Its really popular in Asian countries…so we'll see, I guess its a first time for everything lol.

How much do you spend on spa days?  I'm not sure what to ask for, so some ideas would be nice.

♥ Dream SB

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I Want A SD Who Will Make Everyday Feel Like My Birthday!

I Want A SD Who Will Make Everyday Feel Like My Birthday!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip # 025

Not sure how to ask a POT or SD for things?  I practice with regular guys :)  SBs who have been in the game for a while know exactly what to say and how to say it to get the things that they want.  Being new to it all, it can seem awkward because I'm not used to asking people for thousands of dollars or designer shoes…and then they just give it to me :P  I've asked for things…with un-success…a lesson learned, but also possibly a loss on a potentially good SD.  So what I've been doing is asking regular guys to spoil me…just on a smaller scale.  Regular guys in my opinion are young guys that are good looking and are used to getting girls all the time without having to put forth much effort, or have very many valuable assets.  If you can convince a guy like that to splurge and spoil you then chances are he thinks that you're sincere, interested, and sweet about it.  That's how you want to appeal to an SD because many of them are used to gold digging self-entitled and selfish women.  I've noticed that the way you ask for things can either make or break an SD relationship.

Sugary Updates

Mr. Artist is showing me more of an emotional side lately.  He's being a little needy and that naturally just kind of pushes me away because I have a low affinity when it comes to dealing with other people's desperations.  It's almost a primitive instinct in me to distance myself from people who are emotionally needy so that I don't get emotionally drained with them.  It's like self-preservation.  I think he's noticed a change in the frequency of my responses and has become a bit untrusting of me.  I really do like him and I think he's an amazing human being, but some of his low self esteem comments piss me off.  My cynical side thinks he's just fishing for compliments, but then another part of me doesn't know how to comfort him.  ::sighs:: I don't have the road map, so I don't always have the answers.  I'm just going to be patient and show him that I care and I'm not going anywhere (of course I'm not going anywhere lol!).

Mr. Yacht bought me and my friends tickets to a rock concert.  I'd say who I'm going to see but I don't want to disclose too many details.  I'm super excited.  It's my SB bestie's birthday, so I told her to invite her girls and Mr. Yacht will cover it.  I think that is a great birthday present since the day of her concert is actually on her birthday!  Next weekend we're going to an amusement park to continue the birthday celebrations :)  She just got a whole bunch of money from a POT so we went shopping and then out to dinner for drinks.  It was really nice to have a girl's night and to do it with no expense spared :)  Life is good.

I saw a sugar couple in the mall today.  It was a black couple and the SB was soooo beautiful!  She had on a gorgeous lavender and white sun dress and her SD followed behind her like a puppy.  She looked thoroughly pleased and took her time covering every inch of Forever 21.  I saw her check out with a mountain of clothes!  I know that's right cuz Forever 21 clothes are more for your buck!  Perhaps the SDs with the bored looking SBs should take them shopping.  I haven't seen one pitiful SB on a shopping trip yet! ;-)

♥ Dream SB

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One SBs POT Trash Is Another's Jack POT!

One SBs POT Trash Is Another's Jack POT!

Hello Dolls!

Sugary Updates

So my SB bestfriend got flaked on by a POT that she was going out with for a while and trying to get him to be her official SD.  When she pushed for an agreement he went POOF!  Well I found his punk ass on SA.com  I messaged him and he responded >;-P Now I'm no expert in the sugar world, but I do have a way with people.  My SB bestie made some key mistakes with this guy, so maybe learning from those mistakes I can capture his interest and get an allowance and some gifts out of him.  He seems like a nice guy.  I mean he wasn't an asshole to her in the least.  I'm going to try to charm him for the present that he was supposed to give her, and then see if he'll make a good SD.  His allowance budget matches what I've asked for on my profile.  Just because things didn't work out with the two of them doesn't mean he's a bad guy or have sucky SD potential…it just means it didn't work out between the two of them.  Not everyone is for everyone.  I openly discussed my plans with her so there won't be any bruised pride or hard feelings.  If I can get the present that was meant for her, I'll gladly give it to her as a gift.

So things are really getting fun at the office.  Mr. Yacht is really easy going with me and generous…almost as if he's trying to entice me into being his SB subconsciously.  Here are some of the cool things that I'm excited about:

Office Pet
I asked Mr. Yacht if I could get an office pet and he said yes!  I brought in a gorgeous Japanese style fish tank for my desk today.  I want to put saltwater fish in it and Mr. Yacht offered to buy all of the supplies and the fish.  That can be costly!  He even said he'll buy me a stand just for my fish tank.  I want to get a little clownfish like nemo, a starfish, and a yellow and purple dotty back.  The tank is only 5 gallons, but that is all I would want to clean.

Mr. Yacht says that fish don't count as the office pet because you can't pet them.  So he suggested that I go out and get a puppy on him.  I thought long and hard about what kind of puppy I want to get.  The guys at the job would have less appreciation for a teacup pooch than something they can wrestle with.  I think I'm going to get a yellow lab puppy.  What should I name him?

Interior Design
So the office is a bit…rough looking.  The walls have tons of marks on them.  I told Mr. Yacht that I want to paint the office turquoise.  Again, he said yes and even told me that I could hire contractors to come in and do the painting.  What are some other good colors for an office?  I'm the only woman in this company…so pink might not be fair to the boys.  Although Mr. Yacht said I can paint the walls whatever color I please.

Assistant
I was a bit shocked when Mr. Yacht told me that I could hire my own personal assistant if I thought I could use one.  The job really is a lot of work for one person.  My workload is never ending, but I am a manager so I should be able to hire whoever I need to get the job done.  This new sense of power is exciting.  I wonder why the last office manager didn't hire a helping hand…maybe she didn't get the option :)

A POT turned employer isn't a bad deal at all.  I'm looking forward to my paycheck and at least a job has little bit more security.  He actually needs me not just wants me.  Trying to dip out on me now can be costly and a headache.  Besides I'm catching on pretty quick and am a load of fun to be around.

♥ Dream SB

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I Got The Sugar w/o Selling The Cane ;)

I Got The Sugar w/o Selling The Cane ;)

Sugary Updates

::dances around::  I have like one of the best set ups ever!  I'm so excited and giddy I can barely breathe :D

(1) Mr. Yacht hired me as his office manager!  Last night he text me and gave me a choice between being his SB and being his office manager.  I couldn't have both, so I made him make me an offer on each so I could weigh the pros and cons.  As his SB, he offered me $1500/mo (obviously expecting sex) and wanted to meet 5 days a week for two months, then when his wife comes back in town we'd meet only once a week for the fall and winter.  As his office manager, he offered me $2750/mo.  I'd work mon-fri 8am - 5pm.  Obviously I'd make more money as his office manager…and wouldn't be expected to fuck and suck his dick.  I interviewed for the job this morning and his current office manager offered me the job :) I start tomorrow, which is perfect because this is my last week at my current job.

(2) Mr. Artist shot down my request for $500/wk.  Instead he counter-offered to give me monthly increments to pay my fall tuition.  I generously calculated my college expenses and he agreed to give me $1600/mo.  Ok…not only did he agree to that amount, but told me that he did NOT expect anything for it.  He told me he did not expect affection, a relationship, or even gratitude.  He will help me with my tuition merely out of the kindness of his heart.  So once again I've found an income where not the least sexual favor is expected of me in exchange for it.

Spoils of Sugar & War:  approx. $3700/mo (after taxes) and no SD per say.  So I'm still free to find an SD to spend time with occasionally during my free evenings, and receive a monthly allowance from that arrangement.  My goal is to find an SD who will give me at least $2000/mo boosting my income to about $5700/mo.  I would still go see Captain twice a month for shopping and enjoyable dates.  If I could just get to that point…then I could pay off my student loans, medical debt, and stay current on my bills over the next year.

♥ Dream SB

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Sugary Reflections: ♥ My SB Friends

Sugary Reflections: ♥ My SB Friends

Hello Dolls!

When I see another sugar baby in public, I size her up.  Not in a competitive bitchy way that I've seen some other women size me up, but more in an anthropological way.  What is she wearing v. the type of place she's in?  What's her body language like?  Is she flirtaceous, cool and sensual, hoodrat-ish, girlish? How does her SD or POT look at her?  Does his eyes light up when he sees her?  If so, I take mental notes.  I also see a lot of unhappy sugar babies on dates.  Like would it kill her to smile?  Maybe the stuck up thing catches men, but who knows he might be a royal ass.  I know I wasn't smiling when a POT started eating off my plate with his fingers in a nice restaurant.

I'd like to thank all those who follow me, and give me advice!  So far things have been going well and I'm enjoying the start of my sugar journey.  I've gotten a little taste of the sweet life, and can't wait for more!  I try to post tips that I pick up along the way, especially things I wish I knew from day 1.  By no means am I an expert, or do I define anything in this world.  I blog about my personal experience, what sugar dating means to me, my desires, and my needs.  I'm not confused about anything, most of this blog is about personal observation in relevance to my goals.  Every sugar baby is unique and every sugar daddy is different.  What works for me may not work for you, and that's ok.  What you may want out of sugar dating may be completely different from what I want, so there's no need to compare apples and oranges.

It's been a tough week with final projects and research papers.  This week I should take it easy on the sugar dating, but I'm feeling antsy if I'm not going out on a date.  I really need to find a good and reliable SD.  He doesn't have to give me the world, I just need someone who can hold me down just long enough for me to find a better job.  Then a SD will become a want, not a need...something I'm much more comfortable with.  My boss didn't submit my timesheet on time so I didn't get paid on Friday.  That decline tone from the credit card machine makes me cringe.  Some of my POTs give me money, but I need a stronger commitment so this thing can be official.  I think with a combination of sugar from Mr. Baltimore, Mr. Artist, and Captain I should be more than alright...but just in case, I'm meeting two new POTs this week.

I  also need to be more direct about what I want, and not afraid to ask for things.  This is the nature of the game right?  Why tip toe around the issue.  I don't know why I do that.  I should be making all of my dates fill up my gas tank.  Most do on their own accordance, but as much as I go out, my tank should always be full.  Then some POTs ask me if I have any special requests for first dates...like is this a trick question? I want an iPhone, that's a good start LOL. My bestfriend asked her POT for a new laptop, and he ordered it.  I think that's amazing and bold, but she's always been more bold than me when it comes to asking for things.  I'm just used to always getting them (only child syndrome).  I mean I don't need a laptop or anything, I do have my macbook pro (my husband)...but I could use a matching wife (iPhone).

Ok well I'm going to sleep.  This week I'm going to do my sugar baby perfect thighs and abs blog series.  So I'm looking forward to hearing how these exercises work for everyone who wants to try them since these are the moves that I incorporate into my daily work out routine.

♥ Creole Dream SB

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Shopping...The Spoils of Sugar and War!

Shopping...The Spoils of Sugar and War!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #010

Get a visa gift card.  Especially if you have one of those daddies who doesn't like giving you cash.  I don't know why some men rather buy you things than just give you money.  With those types, you can tell him to just load up your visa gift card and you can either go shopping or pay some bills.  Also great if its a long distance thing or he's traveling a lot because he can do it online.  A great alternative to cash (Cash is always best) and way more secure than a personal check!

Sugary Updates

So today I went out on a sugar date with Captain to the mall to go shopping and catch a movie.  We only had 20 minutes before the movie started...so of course I hit up my favorite store, Free People.  I was a bit irritated that they didn't have a lot of the higher priced items that I was looking for, but no matter...I still got some things that I wanted.  When we go to Boston in a couple of weeks, I'll be sure to check out the Free People out there as well.

We still haven't agreed on an arrangement yet, but this trip let me know that he's serious and wants to treat me well.  This was our 3rd date so far, so I decided to give him a first kiss afterwards.  He's new to the sugar world and doesn't know too much of what to expect so I don't want to scare him off, but also I think he's just genuinely a good guy and I like his company.  I won't treat him like a business transaction, but if I show him that I'm not all about just getting my bills paid, I think he'll stick around and pick up my monthly bills - it's really not that much.  If he can agree to that...then I'm in the clear to quit my job in two weeks.  Then I can get serious and buckle down on finding a better job that's actually in my field...and an SD to knock out my tuition and shoe fetish.

Ok so here are the spoils of sugar and war that I got today:

Ok the dress by the way...makes my booty look AMAZING! And my daily ab routine is paying off.  My belly is flat as a board, and its been only 2 weeks!  I'll definitely have to blog about my 15 minute ab exercises.  I used to be an exotic dance fitness instructor, so it definitely works well for my sugar adventures.

I'll close out with another sugary song!

♥ Creole Dream SB

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