Out of Town Daddies

Out of Town Daddies

Hello Dolls!

Hopefully everyone is happily sugaring for the holidays :)  I'm doing that dreaded POT search.  I got it good my first go around, but now I see what everyone complains about.  Dud after dud.  Flake after flake.  Or sometimes no bites at all.  Patience and persistence!  I think that's going to be the key for me at this point.

Sugar Baby Tip #31

Try finding an out of state Sugar Daddy.  Preferably one who travels to your area regularly.  I think someone who lives far away can be advantageous because they can't meet with you all the time and there for are limited to a couple meetings or maybe only one a month.  I'm all about maximizing my sugar for my time.  So if you're giving me $1500 a month, I'd rather see you one weekend versus twice a week.  Also I think an out of state Daddy can offer me some much needed funded travel time, so I try to find POTs in areas that I actually want to visit.  Just when you travel to see a POT, make sure your expenses are covered up front, and take safety precautions.

I think I'm going to take my Michael Kors shoes back and just pocket the cash.  They're cute, but I can buy 5 pairs of cuter shoes with that money.  The sugar bowl might be dry for a while, so I better save up.  I told my new roommate about my sugarpades and she told three of her friends who each told all of their friends, and now sugar dating is the most trending topic at their college.  I'm not even exaggerating.  Many of the girls that go to that school are immigrants and a few hundred dollars to a starving college student is a big deal to them.  One girl started sleeping with almost a different POT each day for a couple hundred dollars.  She even invites them over to her house.  I'm sorry, but she's not a sugar baby, she's a cheap hooker.  You have to value yourself more than that, and this girl is GORGEOUS with a banging ass body.  Men would pay thousands of dollars for just a chance to hook up with her.  So I fear that if this is the trend, all the local daddies will just be looking for cheap sex.  Sometimes I should just keep the glories of the sugar world to myself ::sigh::.  That's ok, I want someone further away anyway.  They'll take up less of my time, and be less likely to interfere with my personal life.  So happy hunting!

XOXO
Dream SB

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Messaged A POT Who Turned Out 2 B My Dad!

Messaged A POT Who Turned Out 2 B My Dad!

Hellos Dolls!

So I am now back from my 3 week hiatus.  I have been quite busy in the sugar world, but I had to make necessary adjustments so that I can get into the swing of things with grad school.  So I do apologize for the extended silence, but am pleased with everyone who responded with emails so they can continue to follow me now that the blog is private.

Sugar Baby Tip #30

Pick and choose your battles.  If you're not sleeping with a POT or SD who is spoiling you…but he does things that annoy you such as call too often or talk about his problems too much…you have to really ask yourself is it worth complaining about?  If he's spoiling you and treating you well, then some things are worth putting up with if you're not benefiting him much else.  Same thing goes with the ones who spoil the heck out of you and you give up the goods.  Is it really worth whining about that it lasts 3 minutes?  Just swipe his credit card and smile.  Leave the drama at home.  Don't ruin a good thing over little stuff.

Sugary Updates:

So I messaged a POT on Ashley Mads.  There was nothing that really red flagged his profile so I didn't think anything of it.  Funny thing is my SB bestie and I joked about her dad being on one of those sites since he's a public figure.  I never once imagined that my father would be!  One day while my mom wasn't around my dad walked up to me and called me by my SB name.  My head completely jerked around because why would he even think to say that name…

SIKE!  Wheeew! Yeah that would totally suck if that did happen…can you say awkward?!  I wanna talk to a SB that really has been in that situation lol.  I thought about how my pictures are plastered all over these sites and how easy it would be for a relative to recognize me if they were on there doing their dirt.

Virgin Islands:

The SD of one of my SB friends totally paid for her and I to go on a lil vacay to the Virgin Islands for a week.  Let me tell you, it was amazing!  The water is soooo beautiful and we were lucky to have gorgeous weather the entire time.  We spent three days in St. Thomas and four days in St. Croix.  I went snorkeling, jet skiing, and took a boat tour of the islands.

Banking Sugar:

I haven't been doing half bad.  I've been at my job (which I got hired by one of my POTs) for a month now and made $3k which is a huge upgrade from the chump change $1k/mo I was making before.  Mr. Artist has also made good on his promise and deposited $3k into my account for September's allowance as well.  I have also received some sugar on the side from some POTs that I've been rotating.  Mr. Shades gave me $500 since we agreed on that amount each week.  He's been really busy, so I've only been able to see him once this month so far.  Mr. Eventful gave me $300 before I left for my vacation.  Mr. Flavor is also back in the picture and has given me $200.  The brings my sugar to a grand total of $7000 for this month, most of which is just saved.  Sugar isn't reliable as some might think, so I want to be as frugal as possible and keep my rainy day fund stacked.  I'll go more into details on those dates and what not that you all missed in my entries this week.  There's so much to tell!

Well I'm glad to be back with you all and thanks for reading dolls!

♥ Creole Dream

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Island Sugar Baby

Island Sugar Baby

Hello Dolls!

I am bubbling over with joy!  Guess where I'm flying next week?  I'm taking a vacay to the Virgin Islands.  My homegirl just came home from living overseas with her SD and he's treating us to some girl-time in the VI! :)  The sugar world is oooh soo sweet.

Sugar Baby Tip #029

Step outside of your comfort zone...experience a slice of the good life!  This is mainly for the newbies.  Is Olive Garden your favorite restaurant?  Ok I need you to get on google and find some 5 star restaurants with celebrity status dining experiences and suggest your SD or POT take you there.  Never had a spa day?  Ask your SD to send you to get your hair and nails done along with a facial, a massage, and some time in the sauna.  Have fun with this, get creative, get imaginative!  This is your time to shine!

Sugary Updates

I've got 3 POTs who have strong potential for crossing over into Sugar Daddy land.  Hopefully at least 2 of them are man enough to take on the challenger ::grins::.  If they don't work out, oh well, on to the next one.  I'm not investing a great deal of energy into POTs anymore.  A man knows within 30 seconds of meeting me if I'm desireable enough to be kept.  So all this going on multiple dates without an arrangement...not gonna happen.  Show me the money!  I'm excited because I like all three of them fairly well enough to tolerate their company.  I really like my SD and I think our relationship is unique to what people think of SB/SD relationships, so I am greatly pleased with it.  I just need some extra cash for security and mainly savings so I can buy a house in a year or so once I'm done with grad school.

Now I gotta do a little shopping for my VI trip.  Hmmm perhaps I should call a gift daddy.  If you don't have one, get one!  I need island inspired dresses....a wide brimmed floppy straw hat...some new precious stoned sandals...and new bikini wouldn't hurt either.  I'm definitely going to schedule my spa trip I talked about in my last post before I fly out.  I wish the trip was a cruise, but my friend gets terribly seasick.  I won't complain about a resort too much ;-*  If you could take a trip anywhere right now, all expenses paid...where would you go?

♥ Dream SB

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Every Sugar Baby Needs A Spa Day

Every Sugar Baby Needs A Spa Day

Hello Dolls!

This has been a hectic week for me so far.  It seems like I have less and less time for sugar.  I guess the difference is that when I started a month ago, I was underemployed and got to sleep in till noon everyday.  Now a POT has given me a full time job, and I have make sure I make time for my sweet sweet SD…while I continue my search for more sugar to fund my mountain wants and needs.  I've never been so ambitious in my life.  It's crazy how determined I am to achieve goals that most people wouldn't even bother dreaming of.  I love it.  If I want to sun bathe on a French beach…I could if I looked for exotic trips in a SD.  My self-worth has definitely increased and become more aware to me since I've been sugaring.  Kinda weird since many people think that the whole concept of sugar dating objectifies women and degrades them.  I don't think so at all.  I feel like I'm on a pedestal, appreciated, and prized.  Why did I ever put up with boyfriends who would yell at me and treat me anything less than a princess?  I've also learned how to consciously express gratitude more.  Not that I never said thank you for nice things, but I really make a point to appreciate the amazing things that are done for me and not to act entitled to it.  For every SD or POT that would do something sugary splendid for me, I know there are at least 50 regular guys who wouldn't.

So me and my SB bestie were talking about our experiences and I think a definite must-have experience in the sugar world is an all expense paid spa day.  By no means am I living the highest of high lives in the sugar world, because there is yet so much for me to experience.  I am pleased with what I have achieved so far in such a short amount of time…money that easy almost feels sinful or dangerous like drug money.  I think I'm going to ask either Mr. Shades or Mr. Eventful…or BOTH…for a spa day.  A good sugar baby needs a day of relaxation…or weekend of it!

My SB bestie found a mega spa near our area.  This place has a full restaurant, nail salon, hair salon, full body massages including hot stone massage, a sauna, ice rooms, jacuzzis, public mineral baths, facials and so much more.  I really want to go to the gym (I need to ask a POT to get me a membership), and then relax for the day at this spa.  The public mineral bath has me a little weirded out because I don't normally let other women see me nude…at least not for free haha j/k!  Its really popular in Asian countries…so we'll see, I guess its a first time for everything lol.

How much do you spend on spa days?  I'm not sure what to ask for, so some ideas would be nice.

♥ Dream SB

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The Life of an American Geisha

The Life of an American Geisha

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #026

If you plan on having sex with an SD, suggest getting a STD check up together at a local clinic.  It may seem inconvenient, but getting burned is even more inconvenient.  Don't assume that just because he has a lot of money or that he's married that he's clean.  Wealthy people have disturbingly nasty habits like any other social group and they can be even more careless when so many women make themselves available to them.  Always practice safe sex using condoms, but still get tested because what if the condom breaks?  You'd be surprised how many people who know they have HIV really don't give a fuck about giving it to anyone else.

Sugary Updates

I've been really sick this week and my POTs have been flakey too.  I cancelled with Mr. Artist several times and I feel bad.  I will go see him today now that I'm feeling better.  Mr. Tokyo cancelled.  Mr. Jet poofed.  Another POT offering $4k a month I call Mr. Pleaser poofed as well.  Mr. Yacht has been irritable with me at work.  Mr. Eventful is the guy that my SB bestie dated briefly and he poofed on her.  Well he didn't poof on me.

We had dinner at a beautiful Tibetan restaurant that Mr. Artist treated me to last month.  Afterwards we explored the area and the other restaurants.  We went into one restaurant jam packed with sugar couples.  There wasn't anywhere to sit down.  So I surveyed the people around me.  To my right was two grey haired white men with two young blondes, one tall, one short.  The tall blonde playfully hugged and kissed her SD.  Their flirting had me transfixed.  I dissected her outfit.  She had on Fendi heels with the F symbol brandished at the toe.  Her dress was designer too…BeBe? Maybe BCBG.  She wasn't very thin, but she was statuesque with long legs and big blue eyes that made her SD who might of otherwise been a powerful man melt into the puppy dog that he was that night.  To my left there was an older black man with a blonde sugar baby.  He had his hand on her thigh as they leaned in close to have their conversation over drinks.  No one looked at me and Mr. Eventful as if we were an odd pair.  I liked this place.  The sugar babies were all classy and enjoying their sugary night.

I like Mr. Eventful.  I didn't find him to be creepy or weird at all.  Our conversation flowed freely and comfortably.  He suspected that my SB bestie put me up to the date, but I pretended not to know who he was talking about.  Either way I contacted him of my own free will anyways.  I didn't have to tell her I was going out with him.  He didn't give me any sugar cash or gifts other than gas in my car.  I won't turn down any black gold.  I question how much he's willing to spoil.  My minimum is $2k/mo plus gifts and occasional travel.  I tastefully asked him about his previous sugars and what their relationships were like. He never threw out any specific figures on how he spoiled them, but I will reiterate my expectations that are clearly posted on my profile.  If he's willing to help me, then I will gladly continue to get closer to him.  If not…then you already know ;-)

I also met up with my ex Mr. Platinum whom I've dated on and off for several years.  This is the only man I've ever loved and I met him when I was only a teenager.  He taught me everything from how to build my own credit to building my own business.  He spoiled me with gifts, money, travel, love, support, and so much more.  To be fair, he's also obnoxious, moody, needy at times, distant, and angsty.  Sometimes he just simply loves to piss me off.  But for whatever reason…perhaps the red string of fate, we always come back to one another in one form or another.  He's married to a foreigner who I suspect doesn't like him very much.  I don't blame her because he's an acquired taste :) but she is much luckier than she probably realizes or appreciates.

Mr. Platinum met me at Baskin Robins for some ice cream only a half mile from his home.  Its the first time I've seen him since he got married 9 months ago.  We talk semi-regularly but I haven't had a particular interest in seeing him until he suggestively invited me over to his place for a bit before his wife got home.  I know he was just joking since he really wouldn't risk his nuts with his tempered pseudo-submissive wife…so I suggested we meet for ice cream instead…harmless and private.  I told him about my sugar exploits and he seemed quite tickled with what I have been doing.  He even offered me some advice.  He looked great.  His eyes are so sexy to me…so I tried not to look at them because it felt sinful.  Our hug that lasted a second longer than it should almost felt like an affair.  God I miss him.  What is wrong with me?  His wife would be home soon…I had a date…we parted quickly and our ice cream affair ended like a dream.  This is what the sugar world is, a fantasy sold and bought into.  This is the life of an American Geisha.

♥ Dream SB

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I Want A SD Who Will Make Everyday Feel Like My Birthday!

I Want A SD Who Will Make Everyday Feel Like My Birthday!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip # 025

Not sure how to ask a POT or SD for things?  I practice with regular guys :)  SBs who have been in the game for a while know exactly what to say and how to say it to get the things that they want.  Being new to it all, it can seem awkward because I'm not used to asking people for thousands of dollars or designer shoes…and then they just give it to me :P  I've asked for things…with un-success…a lesson learned, but also possibly a loss on a potentially good SD.  So what I've been doing is asking regular guys to spoil me…just on a smaller scale.  Regular guys in my opinion are young guys that are good looking and are used to getting girls all the time without having to put forth much effort, or have very many valuable assets.  If you can convince a guy like that to splurge and spoil you then chances are he thinks that you're sincere, interested, and sweet about it.  That's how you want to appeal to an SD because many of them are used to gold digging self-entitled and selfish women.  I've noticed that the way you ask for things can either make or break an SD relationship.

Sugary Updates

Mr. Artist is showing me more of an emotional side lately.  He's being a little needy and that naturally just kind of pushes me away because I have a low affinity when it comes to dealing with other people's desperations.  It's almost a primitive instinct in me to distance myself from people who are emotionally needy so that I don't get emotionally drained with them.  It's like self-preservation.  I think he's noticed a change in the frequency of my responses and has become a bit untrusting of me.  I really do like him and I think he's an amazing human being, but some of his low self esteem comments piss me off.  My cynical side thinks he's just fishing for compliments, but then another part of me doesn't know how to comfort him.  ::sighs:: I don't have the road map, so I don't always have the answers.  I'm just going to be patient and show him that I care and I'm not going anywhere (of course I'm not going anywhere lol!).

Mr. Yacht bought me and my friends tickets to a rock concert.  I'd say who I'm going to see but I don't want to disclose too many details.  I'm super excited.  It's my SB bestie's birthday, so I told her to invite her girls and Mr. Yacht will cover it.  I think that is a great birthday present since the day of her concert is actually on her birthday!  Next weekend we're going to an amusement park to continue the birthday celebrations :)  She just got a whole bunch of money from a POT so we went shopping and then out to dinner for drinks.  It was really nice to have a girl's night and to do it with no expense spared :)  Life is good.

I saw a sugar couple in the mall today.  It was a black couple and the SB was soooo beautiful!  She had on a gorgeous lavender and white sun dress and her SD followed behind her like a puppy.  She looked thoroughly pleased and took her time covering every inch of Forever 21.  I saw her check out with a mountain of clothes!  I know that's right cuz Forever 21 clothes are more for your buck!  Perhaps the SDs with the bored looking SBs should take them shopping.  I haven't seen one pitiful SB on a shopping trip yet! ;-)

♥ Dream SB

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One SBs POT Trash Is Another's Jack POT!

One SBs POT Trash Is Another's Jack POT!

Hello Dolls!

Sugary Updates

So my SB bestfriend got flaked on by a POT that she was going out with for a while and trying to get him to be her official SD.  When she pushed for an agreement he went POOF!  Well I found his punk ass on SA.com  I messaged him and he responded >;-P Now I'm no expert in the sugar world, but I do have a way with people.  My SB bestie made some key mistakes with this guy, so maybe learning from those mistakes I can capture his interest and get an allowance and some gifts out of him.  He seems like a nice guy.  I mean he wasn't an asshole to her in the least.  I'm going to try to charm him for the present that he was supposed to give her, and then see if he'll make a good SD.  His allowance budget matches what I've asked for on my profile.  Just because things didn't work out with the two of them doesn't mean he's a bad guy or have sucky SD potential…it just means it didn't work out between the two of them.  Not everyone is for everyone.  I openly discussed my plans with her so there won't be any bruised pride or hard feelings.  If I can get the present that was meant for her, I'll gladly give it to her as a gift.

So things are really getting fun at the office.  Mr. Yacht is really easy going with me and generous…almost as if he's trying to entice me into being his SB subconsciously.  Here are some of the cool things that I'm excited about:

Office Pet
I asked Mr. Yacht if I could get an office pet and he said yes!  I brought in a gorgeous Japanese style fish tank for my desk today.  I want to put saltwater fish in it and Mr. Yacht offered to buy all of the supplies and the fish.  That can be costly!  He even said he'll buy me a stand just for my fish tank.  I want to get a little clownfish like nemo, a starfish, and a yellow and purple dotty back.  The tank is only 5 gallons, but that is all I would want to clean.

Mr. Yacht says that fish don't count as the office pet because you can't pet them.  So he suggested that I go out and get a puppy on him.  I thought long and hard about what kind of puppy I want to get.  The guys at the job would have less appreciation for a teacup pooch than something they can wrestle with.  I think I'm going to get a yellow lab puppy.  What should I name him?

Interior Design
So the office is a bit…rough looking.  The walls have tons of marks on them.  I told Mr. Yacht that I want to paint the office turquoise.  Again, he said yes and even told me that I could hire contractors to come in and do the painting.  What are some other good colors for an office?  I'm the only woman in this company…so pink might not be fair to the boys.  Although Mr. Yacht said I can paint the walls whatever color I please.

Assistant
I was a bit shocked when Mr. Yacht told me that I could hire my own personal assistant if I thought I could use one.  The job really is a lot of work for one person.  My workload is never ending, but I am a manager so I should be able to hire whoever I need to get the job done.  This new sense of power is exciting.  I wonder why the last office manager didn't hire a helping hand…maybe she didn't get the option :)

A POT turned employer isn't a bad deal at all.  I'm looking forward to my paycheck and at least a job has little bit more security.  He actually needs me not just wants me.  Trying to dip out on me now can be costly and a headache.  Besides I'm catching on pretty quick and am a load of fun to be around.

♥ Dream SB

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Job Interview On My Sugar Date ;)

Job Interview On My Sugar Date ;)

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #017

Always smell nice.  This shouldn't be a tip, but some stories I've heard from other POTs makes me wonder.  Where I live it is ungodly hot during the summer and sometimes a last minute date can make it impossible to take a shower before hand.  There are some things I always carry on me…men's deodorant, sweet minty gum, a seductive fragrance, and hemp lotion.  Men's deodorant works AMAZING! I picked this up from another SB friend because my dove and secret deodorants wear out during the day.  I usually choose the most unisex smelling one, and to avoid smelling distinctly like a man I throw on hemp lotion and a fragrance.  The hemp lotion is fruity (sweet to the taste too) and light so it's not greasy.  I keep a cheap Korean fragrance called Eat It Raw which always gets compliments.  The gum is essential for after dinner. Men are sensual creatures so smelling delicious is always appealing.  Those are some of my on the go recommendations!

Sugary Updates

I emailed Mr. Artist my minimum allowance requirements.  I'm learning to be more bold when it comes to asking for money.  He agreed again to wanting to help me out financially, but he's still dancing around the issue of the amount.  So I responded again bringing up figures to clarify his agreement.  We'll see how that goes.  My tuition is due soon, so I don't want to play games.  If he's not going to give me what I need then he just needs to say so.  I don't want to count on something that's not coming.

I had my first date with Mr. Yacht today.  We went to a cutesy tiki place near me.  He flaked on me once before because he found another SB he tried to pursue things with.  Apparently they went on vacation and she didn't shower for 3 days so he dropped her.  Gross!  But good for me.  He made me a unique offer…a job as an office manager for his company…or be his SB.  I told him either, or - or both was fine with me…so he said he would sleep on it and let me know sometime this week.  He seems like he'd be a good SD and he's attractive with the prettiest blue eyes I've ever seen.  The job seems pretty lucrative as well.  I am in desperate need for work and the pay is great.  He's funny, laid back, and from the stories he told me about how he doesn't mind spending a lot of money or buying thousand dollar designer bags and such…sounds like a total package to me.  I'm excited with whatever he decides, so I'm looking forward to see how this transgresses.

Both Mr. Artist and Mr. Yacht want an exclusive sugar relationship.  Mr. Yacht is married…and it always makes me raise an eyebrow when a man clearly committed to someone else wants me to be committed to him 100%.  What's up with that?  I don't mind only having one SD as long as all of my needs are fulfilled.  So I guess we'll see which one steps up to the plate.  Mr. Yacht could very well offer me a job, and Mr. Artist agree to be my benefactor…and I'll be well on my way to SB paradise!

♥ Dream SB

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Pushing For A Solid Arrangement

Pushing For A Solid Arrangement

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #016

Plan your dates in places where people who know you personally won't likely bump into you.  Many sugar babies do not want their friends or families knowing that they date older men for security.  Some don't care, but I think its safe to say that a majority of sugar babies have people in their lives that don't know about that aspect of their life.  So if you don't want to run into an ex, a co worker, or your MOM, its wise to avoid dates in places they frequent.  One of my sugar baby friends was on a date using a fake name…a friend definitely recognized her and ran up to her shouting out her real name.  EMBARRASSING!  I'm always afraid something like that is going to happen to me :P

Sugary Updates


Captain:

We had out date last night.  The moroccan restaurant is a reservation only restaurant and they were all booked up yesterday.  So we went to a classy American restaurant instead.  I got lost and was late…which is never good, but it gives him more incentive to buy me a GPS (mine got stolen).  We had a lovely dinner with great conversation as always.  I couldn't help but be distracted by this other sugar baby's tits who was sitting right across from me…like seriously?! She was a gorgeous latino chick, voluptuous curves…but definitely not fat.  Somehow she felt the need to squeeze her beautiful juicy body into a dress 3 sizes too small so that her breasts were bulging out of the top.  Bulging is not an exaggeration…it looked so ridiculous, trashy, and completely distracting haha!  And this girl had a motor mouth…talk talk talk…I swear I hardly heard her older date say a word.

There was several other sugar couples at this restaurant as well.  Another couple seated further away was a grandfatherish older gentleman with a classy youthful brunette.  She was eloquently dressed and seductively swayed her leg that she had crossed.  I also saw a black sugar couple…it wasn't so obvious at first because the guy did not appear to be much older until I got a closer look when I walked by him.  They seemed happy.  There were no hating or questioning looks from people.  Even the wait staff didn't show any emotion towards the somewhat odd pairing between me and my older date.  It was as if this was the norm and how things should be.  I loved it!

After dinner I gave Captain a few little kisses and coyly whispered in his ear, "So is your baby going to get an allowance?"  I had brought it up once before and he told me that he was ok with an allowance and that I would be well taken care of…but never said how much.  I didn't push the issue.  This time he replied with, "I'll see what I can do, but rest assured you will be well taken care of with me."  Then he preceded to tell me that he was planning on getting me plane tickets to go traveling and that he wanted to take me shopping.  I need a definition on "Well Taken Care Of".  What the fuck does that mean?  Again I didn't push any further.  I know, I need to be bolder, but I have a plan for that ass.

He flies back out on a business trip again tomorrow.  He'll be out of state primarily for most of the year…which is great.  I can fly to some nice locations and see him a few times a month, but otherwise my time is free.  No surprise dates.  No pressure to spend great amounts of time together.  I won't go see him until I have received my allowance.  So I'm picking up a visa gift card and I'm going to suggest that he put a certain amount on my card via online every week.  When you break down a monthly allowance into weekly increments…it sounds less scary, less of a big deal.  We'll see if he agrees to at least $500 a week ($2000-$2500/mo).  I don't think that's unfair to ask.  I like him, so hopefully we can get on the same page…or else my financial situation is going to force me to drop him.

I have a date with Mr. Artist to a tibetan restaurant and the Jill Scott concert tomorrow.  I will be pushing for a solid arrangement with him as well…no more wasting my time or dancing around the issue.  I'm ready for him to either get with the program or get lost ;)

♥ Dream SB

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Jill Scott Concert & Exotic Restaurants

Jill Scott Concert & Exotic Restaurants

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #015

Compile a list of rich men hangouts in your area.  Sometimes you may be able to meet the perfect SD at the bar of a pretentious restaurant, or in a high class lounge during lunch hours.  The online search can be effective, but expanding your search to meeting POTs socially may work in your favor!  I had a POT approach me at a bar of an overpriced Brazilian Steakhouse while I was waiting for date with another POT lmao!

Sugary Updates

I am still glowing like a 100 watt lightbulb after three rounds of erotic wresting with Mr. Price the other day.  My thighs still hurt too ::winces:: LOL!  I'd be under him all weekend too if his brother wasn't going to be in town.  Oh well, back to work haha.

Tonight Captain flies back into town this evening from his business trip to Boston.  I'm excited to see him again.  He's such a sweetheart.  I want him to be my big teddy bear SD.  I made reservations for us to go to a high class Moroccan restaurant tonight.  It's very intimate, serves a 7 course meal, and has belly dancers performing tonight.  This will be the perfect opportunity for us to discuss an official arrangement since he has already told me he'd like me to be his SB.

I reserved this Saturday to be a day for myself.  My summer semester in grad school is ending so I need to get busy on finals.  On Sunday I have a date with Mr. Artist.  Inspired by my best friend who is also a new SB, I decided to ask Mr. Artist to take me to a concert.  My friend went to see Britney Spears, Nikki Minaj, and Taylor Swift in concert…all in one week!  I've never been to a concert before.  Mr. Artist bought tickets to Jill Scott's concert!  I absolutely love her new album…its so jazzy, sexy, and sensual :)  Before the concert we're going to a gorgeous exotic restaurant that has a Tibetan Palace atmosphere.

Introducing New POT and POOFs Back From The Dead


Mr. Planes

He's a middle aged gentleman who owns two private planes.  He's married, which means he won't be taking up all of my evenings and weekends.  He travels quite a bit and has an adventurous streak.  He likes going go kart racing, riding in hot air balloons, and scuba diving.  Sounds like a good time to me!  We should be setting up a date next week, which is perfect because it's my last week of work and my boss already told me she doesn't need me for two days.  I'll have plenty of time for a lunch date.

Mr. Yacht

He is in his late thirties, fairly handsome, and owns a yacht.  We had a lunch date two weeks ago that he flaked on and just when ghost.  He emailed me last night and texted me this morning.  Seems like he's still interested.  He's going to have to really do it big to impress me because he has some making up to do.  I'm going to request he bring a gift to our first date.  I need to know he's serious.  So yeah…buy me an iphone bitch!!!

Mr. Bicycles

He is a bit older, loves girly girls, and not bad on the eyes.  We lost contact for a bit because he went on a business trip to Europe.  Now he is back in town as promised, so we'll set up a lunch date for next week as well.  He already said that my $3000 monthly allowance was in his budget and keeps sending me links to top designer heels he'd like to see me wear.  I'm looking forward to him because he has been consistent, and is experienced at being an SD.  None of that cheapie, or sensitive about giving me cash business.  He knows the deal.

I'm super excited because it looks like my weekend is off to a great start!

♥ Dream SB

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Introducing Mr. Flintstone & SB Movie Night

Introducing Mr. Flintstone & SB Movie Night

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #013

Collect your money up front.  If he's agreed to a certain amount and wants to get naughty, remember no matter how you dress it up, business is business.  Be smart, ensure he fulfills his end of the bargain before you fulfill yours...or else you might get the excuse..."Oh I'll give it to you when I have more cash on me."  Then poof!  SDs with a good track record may be excluded from this tip...but some new sugar on your plate...just be on the safe side ;-*

Sugary Updates

I have a few new POTs.  They all have auditions this week (first dates LOL).  Just as selective as these guys are going to be with SBs, I'm going to be selective as well.  My time is precious, so I want it to go to the best bidder.  Money is not the only thing these POTs are bidding with...company, personality, affection, fun, and other perks like travel, or occupational connections.

Introducing Mr. Flintstone.  I have chosen to name him as such because he insists that I massage his feet on our first date.  All I can think about rubbing someone's hammer toes is Fred Flintstone.  He's handsome, married, new to the sugar world, young, and supposedly a millionaire.  I'll believe the last descriptive when I see the tax forms or Giuseppe Zanotti heels on my feet.  He's quite intelligent and well spoken...I like him so far from our conversations.  He's very lavish with affection.

We have breakfast planned for tomorrow, but he called it off once already.  While messaging he hinted at wanting to do something more erotic than just a foot massage...on the first date!  I frankly told him that I was not interested in sexual favors on a first date, let alone without a formal arrangement.  For someone who claimed to be so dominant he took it quite sensitively.  I told him I wasn't being nasty about it, just clear, open, and honest.  He called off our date and dismissed me.  A bit taken aback by how touchy he was about it, but I was non-chalant.  I wasn't going to beg him to meet me.

Before I know it, Mr. Flintstone was messaging me again talking about how fixated and infatuated he was with me.  The date is back on.  He promised to never force himself on me, and that he'd be comfortable with any arrangement I'd like to set up.  We'll see about that, my price is brandished on my profile, but you'd be surprised how many POTs conveniently didn't notice that it was out of their budget before contacting me.  I might have to raise my allowance if he wants me to be touching his feet all of the time...so gross >_

Sugar Baby Friends

Today I stopped by one of my sugar baby friend's house and we went out to buy ice cream and snacks.  We watched the first 6 episodes of Secret Diaries of a Call Girl together for anthropological research.  Though call girls are distinctly different than sugar babies, they are not worlds apart.  I love my sugar friend because she actually busted out a notebook and started taking notes.  Her POT just took her to see the Brittney Spears and Nicki Minaj concert last night.  I think I might bring it up to Captain and see if he wants to take me to see it in Boston :D  Most of her POTs want a per-meeting allowance, which isn't bad.  I'm really happy for her because she doesn't have an official arrangement yet, but she has been gifted a lap top, a cell phone, and shopping money.  Its so much better telling another SB about your adventures because regular girls tend to get super feminist on you :)

♥ Dream SB

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