Spoil Me Big Daddy: July 2011

Sugary Reflections: ♥ My SB Friends

Hello Dolls!

When I see another sugar baby in public, I size her up. Not in a competitive bitchy way that I've seen some other women size me up, but more in an anthropological way. What is she wearing v. the type of place she's in? What's her body language like? Is she flirtaceous, cool and sensual, hoodrat-ish, girlish? How does her SD or POT look at her? Does his eyes light up when he sees her? If so, I take mental notes. I also see a lot of unhappy sugar babies on dates. Like would it kill her to smile? Maybe the stuck up thing catches men, but who knows he might be a royal ass. I know I wasn't smiling when a POT started eating off my plate with his fingers in a nice restaurant.

I'd like to thank all those who follow me, and give me advice! So far things have been going well and I'm enjoying the start of my sugar journey. I've gotten a little taste of the sweet life, and can't wait for more! I try to post tips that I pick up along the way, especially things I wish I knew from day 1. By no means am I an expert, or do I define anything in this world. I blog about my personal experience, what sugar dating means to me, my desires, and my needs. I'm not confused about anything, most of this blog is about personal observation in relevance to my goals. Every sugar baby is unique and every sugar daddy is different. What works for me may not work for you, and that's ok. What you may want out of sugar dating may be completely different from what I want, so there's no need to compare apples and oranges.

It's been a tough week with final projects and research papers. This week I should take it easy on the sugar dating, but I'm feeling antsy if I'm not going out on a date. I really need to find a good and reliable SD. He doesn't have to give me the world, I just need someone who can hold me down just long enough for me to find a better job. Then a SD will become a want, not a need...something I'm much more comfortable with. My boss didn't submit my timesheet on time so I didn't get paid on Friday. That decline tone from the credit card machine makes me cringe. Some of my POTs give me money, but I need a stronger commitment so this thing can be official. I think with a combination of sugar from Mr. Baltimore, Mr. Artist, and Captain I should be more than alright...but just in case, I'm meeting two new POTs this week.

I also need to be more direct about what I want, and not afraid to ask for things. This is the nature of the game right? Why tip toe around the issue. I don't know why I do that. I should be making all of my dates fill up my gas tank. Most do on their own accordance, but as much as I go out, my tank should always be full. Then some POTs ask me if I have any special requests for first dates...like is this a trick question? I want an iPhone, that's a good start LOL. My bestfriend asked her POT for a new laptop, and he ordered it. I think that's amazing and bold, but she's always been more bold than me when it comes to asking for things. I'm just used to always getting them (only child syndrome). I mean I don't need a laptop or anything, I do have my macbook pro (my husband)...but I could use a matching wife (iPhone).

Ok well I'm going to sleep. This week I'm going to do my sugar baby perfect thighs and abs blog series. So I'm looking forward to hearing how these exercises work for everyone who wants to try them since these are the moves that I incorporate into my daily work out routine.

♥ Creole Dream SB

Double Booking My Dates!

Hello Dolls!

Sugary Updates

So as you all probably know, I'm talking to like 10 - 15 POTs. I'd say 30% of them will probably convince me to go on a first date and 30% of those will prove to be SD material...if I'm lucky. I swear all of these guys were fighting over my Saturday. Weekends can be a bit crazy, but I try to double book them...have two dates set up in one day. Captain had his bid in for Saturday day...but he's only taken me shopping, while Mr. Baltimore has given me cash. So my daytime date went to Mr. Baltimore. My evening date went to Mr. Artist, which was our first date.

Mr. Baltimore took me to a really upscale sushi restaurant. The food was AMAZING! He was surprised at how much sushi I ordered because I ate very little of my meal on our last date. I am proud to say that I cleaned my plate. I don't play around with sushi :D I got to see his house which is utterly adorable! It reminds me of the houses you see in tropical areas. It was very very nice. He got a little peeved that I wasn't going to spend the whole day with him, but I warned him the day before that I had evening plans. He gifted me $400, but I suppose he would have given me more if I hadn't cut out on him so early. We only spent like 3 hours together. I told him if he gave me a generous monetary gift, I'd call out of work and come spend the whole day with him. My boss conveniently didn't approve my time, so I didn't get paid...oober broke!

As I left from Mr. Baltimore's place, I got stuck in traffic trying to make it over to the theatre that I was meeting Mr. Artist (I changed into my cocktail dress with nosey people watching in traffic lol). I would've been on time if mapquest didn't suck ass. I know I know I should have a GPS, but it got stolen. So out of frustration I parked my car close to where I thought the theatre should've been and started walking. I walked like 5,000 miles and was 15 minutes late. At least they allowed late seating. Mr. Artist was waiting for me outside in the crotchy heat. He is not much to look at. I suppose if he shaved and fixed his hair he wouldn't look half bad...but he didn't. Not to mention he's over twice my age. No matter. I greeted him with a smile, apologized for the wait and enjoyed the play. It was a very lively play and he got front row seats. I knew that each of the tickets were like $250. Afterwards we chatted a bit and he drove me to my car. I noticed that he was struggling to hear me since his hearing is probably bad, but I didn't want to shout. I made it clear that I was looking for a non-sexual arrangement, and cringed at the thought that women my age had slept with him before. Though he didn't come off as pervy at all. Perhaps this may be the perfect arrangement because I sense that he is very generous and is starved for attention.

Sugar Baby Alert!

I scanned the audience at the play and found 3 distinct sugar couples! I don't know why it is an obsession of mine to pick out other sugar couples. None of the ladies were with a daddy as old as mine. I felt people's eyes on me wondering why my young caramel ass was with a grandfatherish white man. Some of the wives gave me scornful looks and I wanted to pluck their eyes right out of their sockets. I just looked at them with my, "Your husband might be calling me next, so mind him, not me," look.

I must note that the other sugar babies looked jubilant and happy to be there...all except the one with the tacky scarlet red lipstick. What are you a geisha doll? Come on, I know we're the wives of the night...but what was she thinking of putting bright red lipstick with her ghostly pale complexion. Out of all the sugars that attended, I had the best seats, so that made me smile :)

♥ Creole Dream SB

When My 2 Worlds Collide

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #011

If you're going to lie...be consistent, keep it simple, and as close to the truth as possible. I hate when SD POTs ask me why I'm busy. Most of them won't be cool with the fact that I go out with a different SD POT almost every damn day. I ain't got time to waste...this is an interview process, an audition. If he doesn't razzle dazzle me then he's going to have to get in line. My time goes to the highest bidder. This is a business of fantasy. Some POTs are ok with competition...others are whiny babies about it. I keep it simple, I'm in school so the reason why I can't come out tonight is I'm working on a group project. Everyone gets the same story. No slip ups, nothing elaborate, nothing much else to talk about.

Sugary Updates

I went out with my occupational hazard again...a normal hot guy. I have a sneaking suspicion that he's more loaded than he comes off, but what good is it if I don't ever get to see it? Sugar dating while trying to regular date is...complicated...sticky...asking for trouble. What is the occupational hazard going to think if he finds out the reason why I'm busy so much is because I'm a sugar baby going out on dates to get that sugar? I have more left overs from high profile restaurants than I can manage to eat in a week. Can I dump this lifestyle to be with him? I like him a lot. But the questions keep coming up...like why do I have two phone numbers? (I slipped up) Why does my email have a name different than what he knows me by? I don't want to lie to him, but I certainly don't want to tell him the truth either.

Then I thought to myself, since when have I put a price on intimacy. The occupational hazard definitely tried to get hot and heavy tonight...but I was reluctant, and pushed him away. Is it because he has not spent one dime on me other than a drink at Starbucks? Can I not turn sugar baby mode off like a flip of a switch? He's so sweet and creative. He took a picture of a place he wanted to take me on a date with a note card that had an invitation scribbled on it, and emailed it to me. That's some Notebook shit if I haven't seen it :) But there is no way I can date him if my car is getting repo-ed and I don't have a dollar to wipe my ass with.

Not to mention that I live at home...so my mom is like wow you go out with Demitrius an awful lot...and he buys you things...takes you to really nice restaurants...comes a long distance to see you...I think he's married. In my mind I'm thinking, I don't care if he's married...if they're married...its not like I'm fucking any of them. I leave my house looking drop dead gorgeous every night...next thing she's going to think is that I'm a hooker. I need to move asap. Hopefully Mr. Baltimore will come through on that note. Then my secret life will go much more unnoticed.

♥ Creole Dream SB

Shopping...The Spoils of Sugar and War!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #010

Get a visa gift card. Especially if you have one of those daddies who doesn't like giving you cash. I don't know why some men rather buy you things than just give you money. With those types, you can tell him to just load up your visa gift card and you can either go shopping or pay some bills. Also great if its a long distance thing or he's traveling a lot because he can do it online. A great alternative to cash (Cash is always best) and way more secure than a personal check!

Sugary Updates

So today I went out on a sugar date with Captain to the mall to go shopping and catch a movie. We only had 20 minutes before the movie started...so of course I hit up my favorite store, Free People. I was a bit irritated that they didn't have a lot of the higher priced items that I was looking for, but no matter...I still got some things that I wanted. When we go to Boston in a couple of weeks, I'll be sure to check out the Free People out there as well.

We still haven't agreed on an arrangement yet, but this trip let me know that he's serious and wants to treat me well. This was our 3rd date so far, so I decided to give him a first kiss afterwards. He's new to the sugar world and doesn't know too much of what to expect so I don't want to scare him off, but also I think he's just genuinely a good guy and I like his company. I won't treat him like a business transaction, but if I show him that I'm not all about just getting my bills paid, I think he'll stick around and pick up my monthly bills - it's really not that much. If he can agree to that...then I'm in the clear to quit my job in two weeks. Then I can get serious and buckle down on finding a better job that's actually in my field...and an SD to knock out my tuition and shoe fetish.

Ok so here are the spoils of sugar and war that I got today:

Ok the dress by the way...makes my booty look AMAZING! And my daily ab routine is paying off. My belly is flat as a board, and its been only 2 weeks! I'll definitely have to blog about my 15 minute ab exercises. I used to be an exotic dance fitness instructor, so it definitely works well for my sugar adventures.

I'll close out with another sugary song!

♥ Creole Dream SB

Should I Be Disturbed or Excited???

Hello Dolls!

Ok, dang I've already blogged quite a bit the past couple of days. But this is like an emergency blog! For once...I don't know what to do.

I just got off of the phone with my new SD POT Mr. Millionaire. I almost didn't want to call him because he said he would not send me his pictures until he spoke to me on the phone. Like how do I know if I want to talk to you on the phone if I can't put a face with the voice?

He hardly let me speak. Very controlling, arrogant, and straight forward. There is no lofty fantasy of romance. He's not looking for an SB to take out on amazing dates. He's looking for someone who is available to him so that he can fuck when he wants to. Everything has to be his way, or no way.

Now I would scoff at such an arrangement, but now he actually has me on the fence. He sounds like the real deal, but I can never be too sure till I see for myself. He said things like, "You seem like a smart girl, so you should understand how this really works." He told me that taking care of all of my expenses was nothing to him, and that he was powerful enough to jump start my career. Pretty much he was telling me if I was smart I'd find guys like him so I could fuck my way to the top. What he said that really pissed me off was, "In your world you don't know people like me." WTF? My world? He doesn't know a thing about me, yet he's trying to tell me who I know and who I don't.

And as huffy and puffy I want to be about it...I feel powerless. Even though he was vague about how he could change my life...part of me believes that he really could. He's in his early 40's...so its not like he's old...but I can't say he's fuckable cute because I still haven't seen what he looks like. My instinct is telling me to block his number...but my curious kitten side wants to play with fire. I'm sick of these SD POTs who act like they got it together, but they aren't serious. Something about this guy was more serious than a heart attack. How should I approach this? Has anyone dealt with someone arrogant like this? I really need this thing sugar thing to work for me...I'm just about out of options...but is this how the really successful sugars do it?

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

Sugar Shopping: Free People Wish List

Hello Dolls!

Ok, so I am planning a shopping trip with Captain. I don't know quite what to expect...but there are two things I know:

(1) I better know what I want

(2) I better be direct and make it a short shopping event

Men hate shopping. So I want this to be as much of a positive experience for me as it is for him...that way he's inclined to do it all of the time :P

So I'll take it easy on him the first go around. I want some Free People clothes. Has anyone ever heard of that designer? Super cute stuff, that is perfect for layering. I like it because I don't see everyone rocking it. I gotta stand out ;-*

Wish List

Love this fringe sweater. I think this will be a great look as we move into fall. I want the floral bandeau underneath...she can keep the shorts...ew. LOL - $99

I want this in two different colors. I think these are so cute. Don't know why they're hard to find. - $28

What else can I say...cuuute! - $168

White looks so beautiful on my skin! I love the 2 skinny belts worn with this. - $148

Beautiful with a bohemian print. Love it! - $98

Ok, I looove this sleek look...especially with those boots! I'd rock the hell out of this. - $78

The lace detail, need I say more? - $58

Hmmm what's on my mp3 player?

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

Chocolate & Vanilla Go Together

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #009

Be a little bit of a challenge. Sugar daddies are plain old simple men...but with money. You'll captivate and hold his interest much longer if you don't act like you're completely hooked from the start. I've noticed the more non-chalant I am with these guys, the more they pursue. I guess it's the thrill of the chase ;-* He needs to know he has to work to impress you.

Sugary Updates

I had my first date with Mr. Baltimore! Ok...his pictures do not do him justice. I could already tell he was hot online...but in person...WHEW! This brotha is foine! Definitely does not look his age at all. I love it. Great sense of fashion too. We had a lovely date. I'll have to admit, I didn't think he was feeling me at first. He was a bit quiet during dinner. He has sort of a stand offish demeanor, but he's a really nice guy. The waitress made some novel mistakes, and though he brought it to her attention, he was pleasant about it. He gave me a generous gift of money that more than covered my gas. I'm glad because now I can go pay my car payment for sure.

After dinner we walked along the harbor. The weather was beautiful, scenery was great, and there was live band playing music. Then the conversation loosened up a bit and then I really started to vibe with him. He's a reeeeally good kisser. I can tell he's a really affectionate and romantic guy. Out of all the potentials that I have met so far, I like him the most. The cash also let me know that he was serious. He owns a bunch of homes, so if he wanted me closer he'd definitely be able to set me up in one. He also drives a really hot car too unlike one of my previous dates who pulled up in a hoopdie lol. What I like about him the most is he's a white guy who LOVES Black women. He mentioned how his ex thought it was gross that he likes Black women. I guess white women don't like us taking their men any more than many of us don't like our men going out with them. I particularly don't care, but I began to wonder if a lot of white women felt that way.

Funny thing was, at the table next to ours during dinner, there was another sugar couple. The guy was an older (60s) fat white guy, extremely well dressed, and puffing on an expensive cigar. His date was a young chocolate sistah, fairly pretty, who didn't seem interested in him AT ALL. She looked so bored. I notice that when I see other sugars, they look bored on their dates. I hope he wasn't paying for that company, because he needs to drop her and spend that on a classier sugar baby...like muah! :)

Hmmm...and not to mention that the other sugar was stank facing me. No need to stick your nose up boo. No one told you to show up on your date tore up from the floor up. Bet you wanted to trade dates...yeah you did. All I gotta say is...Gucci Gucci Louie Louie Fendi Fendi Prada. The basic bitches wear that shit, so I don't even bother...Bitch you ain't no Barbie, I see you work at Arby's. Number 2, super size, hurry up, I'm starving! Gotta love my haters :P

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

Types of Sugar Daddies

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #008

Get a mail forwarding address. Unless his name is cosigned on your apartment...he doesn't need to know where you live. Someone knowing your address means they can show up unannounced anytime that they want. That is an invitation to uninvited guests and drama. So the potential picking you up from your house...a no-no. Now if he wants to do some online shopping and mail you some gifts, a mail forwarding address is great. It's a physical address, and a company sorts your mail and forwards it to your real address, maintaining your anonymity. They are pretty cheap, but a good investment for certain situations.

Sugary Updates

I had my date with Mr. Marine. OMG he's sooo hot for an older guy. He has the sexiest lips. I really enjoyed dinner and our conversation with the cat and mouse banter. He really wanted to try to figure me out, but I guess I'm hard to read. That's good to know. It keeps them interested and chasing. Now on the other hand, I am not terribly interested in him. I know he expects sex at some point, and frankly he couldn't afford it if I were to put it up for sale. I knew that within the first 10 minutes of our date. I inspected his clothes, facial expressions, mannerisms, texture of his hands, and more. Everything passed inspection. He could be a millionaire, but reality is his confidence wavered and key buzz words came out in conversation about his work that clued me into what kind of sugar daddy he feasibly could be.

Mr. Marine is a moderately successful person, doing better than most, but not disgustingly wealthy. When I told him that I'm interested in an allowance he actually took a step back. His idea of being a sugar daddy is paying for all of our dates, taking me shopping, and paying for our travels. He's a gift/travel daddy.

There are different types of sugar daddies. Gift daddies don't want to give you money, they prefer buying you things and paying for things. If a gift daddy does give money its very small amounts, like $100. Travel daddies are the ones who just want a travel companion and are willing to spend a whole bunch of money for you to go on vacation with them, but they too a reluctant to actually give you money. My idea of a sugar daddy is someone who has no qualms about giving you money, nice things, or treating you to luxurious adventures. Sugar daddies take care of their babies needs primarily financially and are more open to different forms of spoiling. Sugar daddies pay the bills ;-* Gift daddies and Travel daddies are nice, but how can I let you blow $500 on shoes for me when my car is about to be repo-ed? What sense does that make?

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

This Week's Line Up: 6 dates...and counting!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #007

Google voice bitches! If you don't know about it, get about it. This should have been my first tip because this is the first thing I did. I have two Google voice numbers. One for my online clothing boutique, and one for strictly sugar dating. Its an alternate phone number that you can give out to people. The beauty of it is, your calls come straight to your phone of choice, you can easily block numbers, set up all of your calls to be forwarded to a personalized voicemail at times convenient for you, and even text from your Google number. So if that sugar daddy ain't so sweet, block him, and keep it moving!

Sugary Updates

I had a date with Captain yesterday to go shopping, and then to the movies - but I had to cancel because I had a 6-8 page paper due last night that I completely was unaware of! Damn you graduate school professors! I had the Free People clothes that I wanted to buy all picked out. That is one of my favorite designers! Their clothes are always so unique and make for great layered looks. For all you sugar babes out there sticking your noses up thinking, "That's all she's getting excited over, I'd drag his ass to the Prada store." Yeah, go somewhere else with that. No one on this blog cares. I like what I like, and I don't need to compete with what someone else has in fantasy la-la land.

Today I have a date with Mr. Marine. We're going to a nice restaurant later on today. So after work I'm going to slip into my new sexy black dress with a chiffon cheetah halter design. He asked me if had any special requests. I was like is this a trick question, because I want an iPhone :P We'll see what he's about. I'm way more confident than I was when I first started, so now its time to up the game ;-*

Tomorrow I have a date with Mr. Baltimore. Still haven't solidified a place yet, so I'll be giving him a call. I really like this one, he's honest, straight forward, laid back, and funny. A great sense of humor will take you a long way.

Later this week I got to squeeze in time for my gift daddy, and Mr. Babbles who is supposed to be paying my car note and car insurance this week.

This weekend I have a very upscale date with Mr. Artist. He's much older and very lonely. I like him because he is very intellectual and a great conversationalist. Somehow I sense he's looking for true love. Truth in the matter is I'm not looking to fall in love with a sugar daddy or just a regular attractive guy. So no, you're not going to meet my parents, or get invited to the family barbecue.

It's going to be a busy week!

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

Secrets Are Best Kept In Solitude

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #006

Never leave the house without looking your best. You never know when you will unknowingly run into a potential out in public. It may be in your grocery store, library, or even at a gas station. You always want to look alluring because you never know where someone might follow the bait. Also pay attention to small details when going on dates. Make sure your nails are done rather than chipping, eyebrows freshly plucked, and perfume is strategically placed on your body. I've been on 2 first dates where the potentials grabbed my hands and inspected my nails. Each time, they were impressed :)

Sugary Updates

I decided to start this journey with a friend who I knew would be interested in the sugar world. I really wanted someone I could confide in, yet maintain the secrecy of my doings. I talked to two other friends about the whole sugar baby thing and they just don't understand or are very disapproving, so isolation is sort of the best route because people will always unfairly judge you. My fellow sugar baby friend was perfect. We could bounce ideas and tips off of each other, borrow clothes, and encourage one another. I wanted everything to be open between us, but to remain between us. How hard is it to keep a secret?

Apparently it's very hard. She's managed to clue her mother in on what she's doing...and me too. How can I go over to her house without feeling weird? Her mother has a pretty big mouth, so I'm sure her dad who is pretty high profile himself (and a great networking person for my career) probably thinks I'm a hooker and a horrible influence on his daughter.

We also discovered that we both had dates planned with the same potential and agreed to keep the fact that we know each other between ourselves. That way he can decide who he likes on his own, keep the drama to a minimum, and hey if he likes us both and has money like that, then its a win-win situation. That would be ideal wouldn't it. Well her date with him was first, and somehow she's managed to tell him that we're friends, and God knows what else. She knows I'm not all butter peaches about it. There's no accidents in opening your mouth. One thing in this sugar world is, its best to be discreet, and part of being discreet is keeping things to yourself. Lesson learned on my part. Now I'm going into this date blind...what does he think? How did he react to the realization that we're friends and we knew we were both going out with him? What micro facial expressions did he make? What else was said that I didn't know about? Will he flake on me? He supposedly made her a crappy offer...is that why the secret was revealed? This isn't a game. This is my money, my livelihood, my time...my dreams at stake. Perhaps this is a journey best set out on my own.

Update: He flaked, and now he never wants to meet. >_< Oh well...on to the next one.

I need to get my mind focused. I have two dates, a test, and two papers to write tomorrow. I can do anything I set my mind to do. In other news, I went on a regular date yesterday. I felt bad because I started talking to this guy right before I made up my mind to do the sugar thing. He's an occupational hazard because I reeaally like him. We rode on his motorcycle up to the upscale shopping district of the city. Grabbed some coffee and ice cream...played a little chess...talked about our adventures in life. He's cute...my age...rocking hot body...wonder if he'd still like me if he knew I was a sugar baby...Some secrets are just best kept to the grave.

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

Married Men & Close Sugar Baby Friends

Hello Dolls!

When I decided that I wanted to be a sugar baby, I never gave much thought to how I'd react to married men. Most of the men that I have been encountering are either divorced or single, but there are few men who have admitted to being married. At first I told them that I didn't mind as long as it didn't cause any drama for me. Now that I have had a week to really think about my feelings on the matter, I think it is in my best interest to steer clear of the married SD. I believe in the concept of karma and someday I'd like to be married to someone successful. I would be crushed if I found out that my husband was spending our money on some other woman and romping around the world with her when he should be with his family. I wonder how some of my fellow sugar babies feel about the subject.

I had my first conversation with Mr. Baltimore. I really like him! I'm excited to meet him. Some of these other guys are nice, but I feel like I'd just be tolerating their company. He seems like a really fun and down to earth individual. Not to mention there is so much I can learn from him. He might be someone I might fall for, so I better watch out...however he's open to progressing to something more serious if it went down that route. We have a date set up next week, so definitely look out for the juicy details about that.

One of my close friends is a new SB too...but now we're talking to one of the same potentials. I'm sort of nervous that this could cause drama in our friendship. Ideally I would like to think that it wouldn't, and we could both approach it as business. I've just never had good experiences when dating and friends mix, especially if the two of us like the same guy. This also has the potential to be a funny experience catching a SD on his crap and games. I think this guy is genuinely a nice and fun guy who can afford the both of us, so I'm going to look on the bright side and take it as a mutually beneficial experience for two SBs. Does anyone else have good friends who are SBs?

Today I did some shopping for to add to my sugar wardrobe. I don't want to splurge on designer clothes just yet because I've got my tuition to pay, but I needed some new cute items for my 4 upcoming dates.

Until Next Time!
♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

Progress Report & My Wish List

Hello Dolls!

Ok here's my progress report. I have officially been in the sugar business for 1 week. I have 16 potential SD's that I've been maintaining good contact with. I have met 3 so far, and will be meeting 3 more before the end of the week. I have not been able to introduce them all, but I have divided them up into categories.

Made Arrangement Offers

* Mr. Scotland has made a gracious offer for 1 weekend/mo & is online shopping and mailing me things off of my wish list. We'll see if he follows through when he arrives in the States.

* Mr. Billy-Bob has made an even more gracious offer for 1-2 days/wk & travel. However I have not met him yet, and he's been M.I.A. for a couple of days.

High Priority Potentials Close To Making Offers

* Captain - a handsome and successful man new to the sugar daddy world.

* Mr. Dress Up - a handsome VP of a company with a fetish for dressing women up.

* Mr. Seafood - a bit tacky with a hint of creepy, experienced SD who is very interested in me and has already invited me on vacation.

* Mr. Artist - ancient, but great conversationalist, closet perv, sentimental, and seems ready to work out an arrangement.

Bit The Dust - Waste of Time

* Mr. Kicks - only wants to talk/email, great convo but not making any progress.

* Mr. Babbles - made me the worst offer ever and has gone M.I.A. probably looking for his balls.

* Mr. Walrus - only wants me to keep sending him pictures, never calls, never tries to meet.

* Mr. Tigger - married, young, and only wants to be a gift daddy. I can get a boyfriend for that.

Grey Zone - Need To Be Felt Out More & Met In Person

* Mr. Marine - we've been playing phone tag.

* Mr. Yacht - flaked on our first date and has been M.I.A., but I don't want to write him off just yet.

* Mr. Lunch Break - has been really busy, I don't know if he has enough availability to be an SD for me.

Fresh Meat - Just Started Connecting in Last 24 hrs

* Mr. Soap Opera - older, and seriously handsome like a soap opera heart throb!

* Mr. Baltimore - real estate agent and investor, handsome, likes to get to the point and meet up quickly.

* Mr. Arabic - easy on the eyes, frequent world traveler, young, successful, probably wealthy family, experienced at being an SD, and didn't go running for the hills when I told him I wanted at least $3000/mo.

Ok now time for my Wish List

I want a really cute Attic Apartment. Very stylish, bright white spaces, dashes of color...yet not doing too much.