Back To The Sugar Bowl!

Back To The Sugar Bowl!

Hello dolls!

OMG It's been months since I've blogged.  A fast from blogging can be for two reasons: (1) Too busy getting sugar to be writing about it; (2) Too fed up with sugar to care to write about it.  I fall into both of those categories :)  I grossed over $8,000 within 60 days, and made over $14,000 in 90 days of joining the sugar bowl but it wasn't all sweet…

Mr. Artist who graciously gave me $3000/mo for conversation and companionship to nice restaurants and event finally showed his true colors…brown like shit.  After two months he gave me some crack pot story about how he lost his job and was broke…but turns out what really happened was some hooker calling herself a sugar baby started fucking him for $400.  He offered $2000 for a rodeo with me, but I coldly shot him down.  It was a decent amount of money, but a baby has to have her principles.  Why am I valued less because some dumbass desperate broad wants to sell herself for pennies?


Mr. Events was fuddy duddy and pushy.  On our second date to a swanky lounge, I called the night early because I didn't think it was worth it to be seen in public much longer with him without getting anything for it.  He walked me to my car and shoved $300 in my hand.  Just as he did that, he forcefully grabbed my face and kissed me.  I tried to pull away but he held my head so hard it hurt.  That was the most disgusting kiss ever!  It was like kissing a fucking dinosaur.  I think that's the turning point where I snapped and was like fuck the sugar, not all money is good money.  I cried as I drove myself home.

Mr. Yacht was the daddy that hired me and was paying me $3000/mo to be his HR lady.  He was creepy of flirty once I was on official payroll, but I still got caught up in his sugar shit.  After two months of things going swell, one of his disgruntled ex sugar lovers called his wife and ratted him out.  She came to his company and saw my pretty little ass sitting where an old ugly white lady should have been…and fired me on the spot.  Mr. Artist flaked, Mr. Yacht's lil job fell through…looked like I was gonna hit rock bottom on the sugar bowl just ask quickly as I skyrocketed into the sugar heavens.

Mr. Shades gave me $2000 for one month after my birthday.  He was really nice and down to earth.  He joined the sugar bowl because his wife left him.  Would you believe the filthy bitch came back!  And so he said he wanted to focus on his relationship with her and that was the end of that….and just before the holidays too!

Since then I've been chill.  I took down my profiles for a while.  Lived the normal life.  I got a new place, moved to a new city, and took on a new job in my career field.  Still doing the grad school thing, and even tried dating regular guys.  Guys my age are idiots though lol!  I'm in a good place in my life, and I'm happy.  I went out with a regular guy from a regular dating site…and our first date he bought me a $200 pair of Michael Khors heels…then the sugar rush hit me and now I'm craving it even more.  So I'm going to give it another go, starting from scratch again, hunting for my #1 Sugar Daddy!

XOXO
Dream SB

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Sex & No Sugar…WTF?!!

Sex & No Sugar…WTF?!!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Daddy Tip

Please don't think that your dick is magical or have supernatural powers where women should be desperate to fuck you for nothing of real value in return.  Don't get me wrong Daddies…we love sex just as much as you do…but we have access to unlimited dick from young stallions in our age group.  So if the only way you're looking to spoil a younger woman is with dick…yeah you're not a sugar daddy so go join onlinebootycall.com.

Sugary Updates

So as you can tell I'm in a splendid mood today.  I think I was reading Blissful's blog and saw she had a date from ArrangementSeekers.com.  I hadn't heard of that site, so I got excited and went on there to sign up.  I noticed that they are also a mirror site for EstablishedMen.com … which is bad news.  These wealthy guys sign up on EM.com thinking they are getting into a dating arena for real relationships that lead to love and marriage with young beautiful women.  EM.com and AS.com are the same site, so these loverboys' profiles are being advertised to women who signed up on AS.com looking for Sugar Daddies.  What I found to be even more annoying is that I saw a lot of profiles of men explicitly looking for sex, and flat out saying that they are not looking to give any allowances or expensive gifts. WTF?  Forreal…you want me to come fuck your old fuddy duddy ass with no strings attached…for what…dinner?

For Example - this appeared in a profile:

I would desire full adult consentual physical intimacy, including making love and oral pleasure both giving and receiving, as well as of course kissing too. On my own principles though I will not offer direct monetary payouts, a monthly allowance, or gifting with like expensive jewelry in the traditional sugardaddy sense.

Okay let's rationalize this fellas!  Sex for Dinner Arrangements…are stupid! Quit advertising that shit like its cool.  I think its safe to say that most Sugar Babies can afford to buy themselves dinner (some can't, but that's a whole different level of financial need).  I think it is also safe to say that most men cannot grow a pussy and fuck themselves.  When you join a site for mutually beneficial dating that means you give us something we don't already have and we give you something you all don't already have.  In this example (the quote above) it would be financial support in exchange for pussy.  I just had to go Sesame Street on that ass!  Oh and by the way the idiot that posted full adult physical intimacy in exchange for no allowance on his profile…he posted a picture of his wack ass bird check hahaha!

In other news…I am also a bit PISSED THE FUCK OFF because Captain didn't call me all day, or answer my calls when clearly we were supposed to meet up.  I wanted to go catch the new Final Destination 5 movie at the IMAX theatre and do some shopping.  I even picked out everything I wanted yesterday and put it on hold in the fitting rooms so that I wouldn't tire him from a long shopping trip.  This nigga decides to call me after 7PM…clearly when the stores are closing in 2 hrs and it takes him at least an hour to get to my area.  I didn't even bother answering because I wasn't going to give away my company for nothing in return except for a plate of mediocre food.  I know I sound like an ass right now, but I made it clear to him from the beginning that I was looking for a Sugar Daddy not a boyfriend.  He flies back out of town tomorrow so there won't be a make-up date.  I probably won't call again because there's not much in it for me.  I got plenty of wack ass POTs lining up to be a Gift Daddy.

When I lose one, I bounce back with two!  I got two dates tomorrow.  I'm going to breakfast with a new POT Mr.  Shades.  He sent me this picture of an extreme close up of his fat face almost completely blocked by his massive sunglasses.  Forreal?  He seems pretty cool and he already agreed that $2k/mo was in his budget.  I'm going to see what he's all about, and hopefully he's not perverted.  I'd love to have someone else as a generous friend who'll help me save up some money so I can get a new place.

Then my second date is with my sweetheart Mr. Artist.  He didn't set any plans in stone yet.  I have no idea what time in the evening he's trying to meet up, but hopefully we can have dinner at a lovely place and catch up.  It's strange that I feel sort of a closeness to him despite our obvious differences.  His emotional neediness still rubs me wrong from time to time, but today his text messages made me smile.  I wanted to see him today since Captain clearly failed me on some much needed shopping, but I didn't want to disturb him from his family time.

Well I better get some sleep so I can bring my A-game to my morning date.  My birthday is coming up so I need some of these POTs to buy me things like new iPhone 5 that is supposedly coming out next month and the iPAD 3.

♥ Dream SB

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I Got The Sugar w/o Selling The Cane ;)

I Got The Sugar w/o Selling The Cane ;)

Sugary Updates

::dances around::  I have like one of the best set ups ever!  I'm so excited and giddy I can barely breathe :D

(1) Mr. Yacht hired me as his office manager!  Last night he text me and gave me a choice between being his SB and being his office manager.  I couldn't have both, so I made him make me an offer on each so I could weigh the pros and cons.  As his SB, he offered me $1500/mo (obviously expecting sex) and wanted to meet 5 days a week for two months, then when his wife comes back in town we'd meet only once a week for the fall and winter.  As his office manager, he offered me $2750/mo.  I'd work mon-fri 8am - 5pm.  Obviously I'd make more money as his office manager…and wouldn't be expected to fuck and suck his dick.  I interviewed for the job this morning and his current office manager offered me the job :) I start tomorrow, which is perfect because this is my last week at my current job.

(2) Mr. Artist shot down my request for $500/wk.  Instead he counter-offered to give me monthly increments to pay my fall tuition.  I generously calculated my college expenses and he agreed to give me $1600/mo.  Ok…not only did he agree to that amount, but told me that he did NOT expect anything for it.  He told me he did not expect affection, a relationship, or even gratitude.  He will help me with my tuition merely out of the kindness of his heart.  So once again I've found an income where not the least sexual favor is expected of me in exchange for it.

Spoils of Sugar & War:  approx. $3700/mo (after taxes) and no SD per say.  So I'm still free to find an SD to spend time with occasionally during my free evenings, and receive a monthly allowance from that arrangement.  My goal is to find an SD who will give me at least $2000/mo boosting my income to about $5700/mo.  I would still go see Captain twice a month for shopping and enjoyable dates.  If I could just get to that point…then I could pay off my student loans, medical debt, and stay current on my bills over the next year.

♥ Dream SB

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Types of Sugar Daddies

Types of Sugar Daddies

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #008

Get a mail forwarding address.  Unless his name is cosigned on your apartment...he doesn't need to know where you live.  Someone knowing your address means they can show up unannounced anytime that they want.  That is an invitation to uninvited guests and drama.  So the potential picking you up from your house...a no-no.  Now if he wants to do some online shopping and mail you some gifts, a mail forwarding address is great.  It's a physical address, and a company sorts your mail and forwards it to your real address, maintaining your anonymity.  They are pretty cheap, but a good investment for certain situations.

Sugary Updates

I had my date with Mr. Marine.  OMG he's sooo hot for an older guy.  He has the sexiest lips.  I really enjoyed dinner and our conversation with the cat and mouse banter.  He really wanted to try to figure me out, but I guess I'm hard to read.  That's good to know.  It keeps them interested and chasing.  Now on the other hand, I am not terribly interested in him.  I know he expects sex at some point, and frankly he couldn't afford it if I were to put it up for sale.  I knew that within the first 10 minutes of our date.  I inspected his clothes, facial expressions, mannerisms, texture of his hands, and more.  Everything passed inspection.  He could be a millionaire, but reality is his confidence wavered and key buzz words came out in conversation about his work that clued me into what kind of sugar daddy he feasibly could be.

Mr. Marine is a moderately successful person, doing better than most, but not disgustingly wealthy.  When I told him that I'm interested in an allowance he actually took a step back.  His idea of being a sugar daddy is paying for all of our dates, taking me shopping, and paying for our travels.  He's a gift/travel daddy.

There are different types of sugar daddies.  Gift daddies don't want to give you money, they prefer buying you things and paying for things.  If a gift daddy does give money its very small amounts, like $100.  Travel daddies are the ones who just want a travel companion and are willing to spend a whole bunch of money for you to go on vacation with them, but they too a reluctant to actually give you money.  My idea of a sugar daddy is someone who has no qualms about giving you money, nice things, or treating you to luxurious adventures.  Sugar daddies take care of their babies needs primarily financially and are more open to different forms of spoiling.  Sugar daddies pay the bills ;-*  Gift daddies and Travel daddies are nice, but how can I let you blow $500 on shoes for me when my car is about to be repo-ed?  What sense does that make?

♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby

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