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Back To The Sugar Bowl!

Hello dolls!

OMG It's been months since I've blogged.  A fast from blogging can be for two reasons: (1) Too busy getting sugar to be writing about it; (2) Too fed up with sugar to care to write about it.  I fall into both of those categories :)  I grossed over $8,000 within 60 days, and made over $14,000 in 90 days of joining the sugar bowl but it wasn't all sweet…


Mr. Artist who graciously gave me $3000/mo for conversation and companionship to nice restaurants and event finally showed his true colors…brown like shit.  After two months he gave me some crack pot story about how he lost his job and was broke…but turns out what really happened was some hooker calling herself a sugar baby started fucking him for $400.  He offered $2000 for a rodeo with me, but I coldly shot him down.  It was a decent amount of money, but a baby has to have her principles.  Why am I valued less because some dumbass desperate broad wants to sell herself for pennies?


Mr. Events was fuddy duddy and pushy.  On our second date to a swanky lounge, I called the night early because I didn't think it was worth it to be seen in public much longer with him without getting anything for it.  He walked me to my car and shoved $300 in my hand.  Just as he did that, he forcefully grabbed my face and kissed me.  I tried to pull away but he held my head so hard it hurt.  That was the most disgusting kiss ever!  It was like kissing a fucking dinosaur.  I think that's the turning point where I snapped and was like fuck the sugar, not all money is good money.  I cried as I drove myself home.


Mr. Yacht was the daddy that hired me and was paying me $3000/mo to be his HR lady.  He was creepy of flirty once I was on official payroll, but I still got caught up in his sugar shit.  After two months of things going swell, one of his disgruntled ex sugar lovers called his wife and ratted him out.  She came to his company and saw my pretty little ass sitting where an old ugly white lady should have been…and fired me on the spot.  Mr. Artist flaked, Mr. Yacht's lil job fell through…looked like I was gonna hit rock bottom on the sugar bowl just ask quickly as I skyrocketed into the sugar heavens.

Mr. Shades gave me $2000 for one month after my birthday.  He was really nice and down to earth.  He joined the sugar bowl because his wife left him.  Would you believe the filthy bitch came back!  And so he said he wanted to focus on his relationship with her and that was the end of that….and just before the holidays too!


Since then I've been chill.  I took down my profiles for a while.  Lived the normal life.  I got a new place, moved to a new city, and took on a new job in my career field.  Still doing the grad school thing, and even tried dating regular guys.  Guys my age are idiots though lol!  I'm in a good place in my life, and I'm happy.  I went out with a regular guy from a regular dating site…and our first date he bought me a $200 pair of Michael Khors heels…then the sugar rush hit me and now I'm craving it even more.  So I'm going to give it another go, starting from scratch again, hunting for my #1 Sugar Daddy!

XOXO
Dream SB

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Be Prepared If You Have A Sweet Tooth! My Sugar Explosion!

Hello Dolls!

I can't believe I haven't blogged in the last couple of days?! Miss me?? :)

Sugary Updates

I had dinner with Mr. Artist at a beautiful ethnic restaurant.  I loooved the food so much!  It was my recommendation, and he always goes along with my suggestions.  We had some time before dinner to walk and talk.  It was nice hearing him talk more than me for once.  Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't talk so much so I don't reveal too much on accident.  I definitely got some more insight into who he is, his personality, and his history.  Surprisingly I felt a closeness to him in a deep friendship sort of way.  He has decided to increase my allowance to $3000 a month.  This time some expectation came with the increase, so I look at it more like a job than anything else.  On top of our 4 dates a month, I will be making myself available for advice, inspiration, and encouragement…simply more conversational centered interactions.  That is cake to me :)  This is perfect since I really need to get on my feet.


I also had breakfast with Mr. Shades too.  He's definitely not my type, but he is certainly more attractive than I thought he was and seems like a complete sweetheart.  He took me to breakfast at a beautiful restaurant that was originally built in the early 1900s as a private restaurant to serve presidents, congressmen, elite businessmen, and celebrities.  Mr. Shades seems a little shy, which in turn made me feel a bit shy.  I guess I feed off of others energy, but I tried my best to overcome it and be as natural and charming as possible.  He agreed that a $2000/mo allowance would be appropriate prior to meeting if we decided to start a sugar relationship.  After breakfast I suggested we walk around the shopping district and get to know each other more.  We drove around looking for parking for a while, and finally he told me he had to go take care of some tenants that just called.  He offered to pay for my parking, but definitely didn't give me any shopping money.  I wonder if the prospect of shopping scared him off?  He didn't respond to my text that I sent afterwards thanking him for the date, so I thought that wasn't interested.  Yeah right, I don't know why I doubt myself.  He shot me a text back the next day raving about how smitten he is with me ;)


I also had the opportunity to see Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow in concert.  Mr. Yacht paid for the tickets and travel arrangements.  He even took care of two of my girlfriends as well.  He bought us all the drinks that we wanted and food too.  I invited my SB bestie and then she brought one of her friends.  Her friend was an utter embarrassment!  She asked Mr. Yacht about his wife around his other lady friends.  She got so drunk and was saying stupid things about penises and kept doing inappropriate things like grabbing my bestie's titties.  I wanted to bury her so far under the ground…lol!  The concert was amazing!  Kid Rock hopped around stage like a grasshopper.  Sheryl was as beautiful and inspiring as ever.


I had a date set up with a guy I met on wealthymen.com.  He lives in the DC area and is a notorious young businessman.  I researched his company and everything.  He's legit.  I will call him Mr. Tokyo because he's half Japanese and extremely sexy.  He promised he'd be in my area for the day on business so we'd be able to go out for sushi.  I guess there was a massive earthquake across the region causing railroad tracks getting crumpled and disabling trains…lots of big problems delaying traffic and disrupting business.  Did any of you all feel it?  Well anyways he canceled because of it, so who knows when I will see him?  It'd be nice to get a millionaire boyfriend :)


Tomorrow I have a date set up with Mr. Jet, who has his own private jet and is offering me $4,000/mo.  His offer is not as innocent as some the offers I have accepted already.  I try not to be sensitive about the whole sex issue.  I don't know why sleeping with someone who gives you money has to have the thorny association with prostitution…so it'd be so much better if I slept with him for free?  Get the fuck out of here!  Men should have been paying every woman for sex since the beginning of time.  I don't know what sexist fuck started the idea that we should give that shit up for empty promises and hollow "I love you's".  Mr. Jet said that if everything goes well, he's prepared to start my allowance next week.  We'll see.  He offered to take me shopping on our first date, so if he buys me some high ticket items then I'll know he's serious.


I started talking to a new POT from SA called Mr. Aussie.  He's handsome and athletic and has the sexiest mixture of a Scottish and Australian accent!  I love it!  He's new to the sugar world.  I've noticed that many of these guys join sugar sites without knowing what to expect because of a "friend's" recommendation.  I would've thought these so called friends would give them an idea of what to offer a girl they were interested and how to approach things.  Apparently not.  My desired allowance is posted articulately on my profile and he brought it up.  I told him we didn't need to negotiate an arrangement just yet and I'd like to meet and see if there was any chemistry first.  I thought that was the right thing to say…I'm not sure now.  After our first conversation he emailed me and said that he could tell by our communication that he couldn't be involved with me on the regular.  So he offered me a non-sexual couples massage and shopping on occasion instead.  WTF??  I mean I love massages and shopping, but if you're not interested…then why even that?  I don't see the benefit other than him trying to let me down nicely.  Oh well its probably just talk cuz he's scared of real sugar.


I've also had a rendezvous with Mr. Price! If you don't know who he is, he's this fine young and wealthy guy I've been casually dating on and off over the last year.  It was late and I had just finished up a date in his area so I decided to give him a call before I started my journey home.  He answered! I wasn't sure because he travels at least 4 days a week.  He sounded sooo sleepy but still offered for me to come over for a little bit to catch up while he was still in town…and catch up we did ;-*! He knows about my sugar exploits, which I describe to him as compensated dating.  I love how he's not immediately repulsed by it and is intrigued.  I coyly joked that what I was about to do would cost anyone else $5k :P  As I was cuddled up with him chatting about different he things, he mentioned how he really liked how I give head.  Usually that's just a cue, but then he described in detail what he liked about it and how it was different than how any other girl has ever given him head.  I love that about him…he pays attention to details and is so appreciative of things that other guys don't really care about.


I teased him with kisses up and down his torso and then preceded to give him some of the head that he liked so much.  I loved how he closed his eyes and looked like a kid in a candy shop.  Then I jokingly stopped, yawned and rolled over.  He pounced on me, flipped me over, lifted my dress and just slid my thong over.  I love how he gets naked in 0.9 seconds and I take forever.  I guess he didn't feel like waiting so he fucked me with all of my clothes still on.  I love his gentle strength and dominance in bed.  I moved and he slipped out on accident.  He just smacked my ass and pulled me back to him telling me to stop fighting it. ::Melts just thinking about it!:: The more I squirm or try to push him away, the more he restrains me and purposely pleasures me more.  Afterwards we showered together and he asked me if I'll be able to go back to dating regular guys once I get what I need.  I looked up at him and sensed a tinge of longing and disappointment in his deep golden brown eyes.  I didn't say anything because I knew the next thing that was going to come out of my mouth was going to be a lie.  The sugar world is addictive…will it be all that easy to give up?

♥ Dream SB

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A Phone Snooping POT & A Woman's Scorn

Hello Dolls!

I had such an amusing day :)  So I was woken up by my phone at like 1 AM and had gotten 8 or 9 text messages from my ex boyfriend.  I'm thinking to myself…WTF!  Then I read the messages and this is what it said:

"Malachai is a lying piece of shit…a cheater that plots on bitches online…ladies beware! He lives with a bitch…left his phone in my care and is straight busted…Dates a different POF girl everyday…yall can have his trifflin bitch ass! At least I got free drinks off of his ass.  He has no fuckin game.  Lame ass."


I burst out into laughter because whoever his pissed off date was…she sent that message from his phone to everyone in his contacts…all the women…his aunt…his mama…his boss…even his pastor!  Let me give you some background on this asshole.  I dated him for 4 months…and he is a pathological liar.  Lied about who he lives with…the works.  This dude had nerve to start taking other female "friends" out because I couldn't afford to travel into the city to go on dates with him (and he refused to come see me or give me gas money).   I called his phone and the girl picks up with a real ghetto intonation when she said "Hel-luh".  Apparently he told her that he broke up with me because I'm bulimic and that we just broke up last week….bahahaha that's such a load of bull…(1) I'd like a bigger ass, so I won't be vomiting my meals anytime soon, and (2) We broke up over a month ago.  So I kindly informed her that he lives with his mom…has severe erectile disfunction…doesn't have a car (yet will borrow cars to hide that fact)…and only takes girls out to free events for dates.  That tickled me :)  She kindly informed the rest of his phone book about that too LOL.

Sugar Updates

I had a first date with Mr. Flavor right after work today. Ok…epic fail on my part…a tall white man in a business suit walks through the door and I flash him a greeting smile and wave…yeah…not my date!  I'm so terrible! I really do think all white people look alike! (No offense to my caucasian sugars lol, but I'm half white too so imagine me at family reunions lol) Mr. Flavor arrived a half hour late.  My Sex on the Beach was just ice cubes then.  He's a humorous and delightful man…much more handsome in person.  His pictures seriously don't do him any justice whatsoever…in fact he should delete them.  I lightly brushed over topics like money.  He said once he feels a connection then fulfilling any of my wants and needs wouldn't be an issue for him.  He doesn't want it to feel like a transaction, he wants to feel naturally compelled to take care of me.  That sounds all hunkey dorey and all…


BUT…how long does it take for him to feel this so called connection?  Do you feel it now?  I'm not waiting 3 months.  What does my wants and needs not being an issue mean?  He doesn't even know what they are, so how does he know he can afford them?  I hope not an issue means he'll be depositing $2k-$5k in my bank account on the 1st every month.  Somehow I feel like he's another talker…kinda how Captain promised I'd be well taken care of…and that ended up with past due bills.  So I excused myself to the bathroom and left my phone on the table.  Would you believe that fool was going through it when I snuck back to the table a different way so he couldn't see me coming.  I snatched it from him and sat down with a sinister grin.  He tried to play it off and say he never seen a pink phone before.  Reeeally…mmm hmmm…ok, sure.  I cut the date short and left.


I'm just really glad to at least have some kind of arrangement (not bad for my first) and a job that resulted from sugar dating.  So my sweet tooth is calmed for a bit, I'm not desperate for cravings for the sugar cash like I was when I first jumped into all of this.  A bad date…eh…so what.  No more ego stroking for the unworthy POTs.  They are the ones that are going to have to work a little harder to get me interested.  My boss asked me to be his SB again.  I politely declined.  Perhaps if he offered a more appealing allowance to compensate the occupational hazard of dating him would be…I might have considered it.  Why accept $1500 from him when he definitely is gonna want sex which could complicate things at work and lead to him firing me when things get weird…when Mr. Artist gives me $1600 just for 1 dinner date a week.  In the grand scheme of things $1500 isn't a lot of money, and I'd prefer to get that every week rather than every month.  So I'm going to be choosey…not all money is worth it.


♥ Dream SB

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Girls Just Wanna Have Funds!

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Sugary Updates

So I finally got my first official sugar!  I mean I've had POTs give me money before, but it was only a few hundred dollars here and there.  Mr. Artist gave me my first month's allowance: $1600.  I can't even really call it an allowance because he doesn't expect anything in return and its for my tuition and college expenses.  He's such a sweetheart!  We explored some beautiful gardens and chatted about different things.  Then we went and had dinner at a gorgeous latino restaurant.  The food was amazing and our server was on point.


The reality that I am completely taken care of hasn't even set in yet.  I won't be behind on bills anymore.  I won't have to fuss and fret over how I'm going to pay for school.  I can actually focus on MY life…not my SB life.  I can get the maintenance done on my car, concentrate on school, and spend time with family.  The hustling phase is over for me…for now.  I still want just one more SD for security and safe keepings.  I'd definitely like to reach my goal of saving $2500 a month.


Somehow I feel Mr. Artist wants more than what he's letting on.  He seems despaired about our age difference and I don't want him to feel like his wishful thinking is simply just that.  I really do like him and wouldn't mind being a bit warmer and more affectionate.  I just want to take my time with it and really enjoy the few hours we spend together once a week.  I will never fill the void in his life that his wife made when she left, but perhaps I can ease some of the loneliness with some good fun spirited company :)


I did try to get me some dick tonight to celebrate my good fortune >:P  Mr. Price was being a lame-o.  He whined about having a headache, so I let him slide.  There wasn't anyone else I'd want to call for the job lol.  He's the only person I've been sleeping with for the last year…yet we're only friends.  I guess I should be taking applications haha, but I know Mr. Biker Boy will be coming back into town in October and I'd love to ride him.  He's definitely marriage material ::sighs:: He has the sexiest big beefy muscles, perfect height, perfect job…yum I can't wait to blog about Mr. Biker Boy.  We had a steamy romance last year.


Ok, I'm being silly now.  Let me get some sleep!  Can't wait to read about what you ladies did this weekend!

♥ Dream SB

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Job Interview On My Sugar Date ;)

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #017

Always smell nice.  This shouldn't be a tip, but some stories I've heard from other POTs makes me wonder.  Where I live it is ungodly hot during the summer and sometimes a last minute date can make it impossible to take a shower before hand.  There are some things I always carry on me…men's deodorant, sweet minty gum, a seductive fragrance, and hemp lotion.  Men's deodorant works AMAZING! I picked this up from another SB friend because my dove and secret deodorants wear out during the day.  I usually choose the most unisex smelling one, and to avoid smelling distinctly like a man I throw on hemp lotion and a fragrance.  The hemp lotion is fruity (sweet to the taste too) and light so it's not greasy.  I keep a cheap Korean fragrance called Eat It Raw which always gets compliments.  The gum is essential for after dinner. Men are sensual creatures so smelling delicious is always appealing.  Those are some of my on the go recommendations!


Sugary Updates

I emailed Mr. Artist my minimum allowance requirements.  I'm learning to be more bold when it comes to asking for money.  He agreed again to wanting to help me out financially, but he's still dancing around the issue of the amount.  So I responded again bringing up figures to clarify his agreement.  We'll see how that goes.  My tuition is due soon, so I don't want to play games.  If he's not going to give me what I need then he just needs to say so.  I don't want to count on something that's not coming.


I had my first date with Mr. Yacht today.  We went to a cutesy tiki place near me.  He flaked on me once before because he found another SB he tried to pursue things with.  Apparently they went on vacation and she didn't shower for 3 days so he dropped her.  Gross!  But good for me.  He made me a unique offer…a job as an office manager for his company…or be his SB.  I told him either, or - or both was fine with me…so he said he would sleep on it and let me know sometime this week.  He seems like he'd be a good SD and he's attractive with the prettiest blue eyes I've ever seen.  The job seems pretty lucrative as well.  I am in desperate need for work and the pay is great.  He's funny, laid back, and from the stories he told me about how he doesn't mind spending a lot of money or buying thousand dollar designer bags and such…sounds like a total package to me.  I'm excited with whatever he decides, so I'm looking forward to see how this transgresses.


Both Mr. Artist and Mr. Yacht want an exclusive sugar relationship.  Mr. Yacht is married…and it always makes me raise an eyebrow when a man clearly committed to someone else wants me to be committed to him 100%.  What's up with that?  I don't mind only having one SD as long as all of my needs are fulfilled.  So I guess we'll see which one steps up to the plate.  Mr. Yacht could very well offer me a job, and Mr. Artist agree to be my benefactor…and I'll be well on my way to SB paradise!


♥ Dream SB

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Total Disappointment & New Hope

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Sugary Updates

I was kinda bummed out today.  Captain called me this afternoon to politely inform me that he changed his mind (flaked!) about giving me an allowance.  He rambled on about how he thought about it and just wasn't comfortable doing it, and didn't want to.  Then why are you on a sugar daddy website?  Seriously.  I took my time with him so we could at least establish a level of trust.  It wasn't a complete waste since he did spoil me with shopping and high end experiences.  I'm just really disappointed because I genuinely liked his company and to have him help me stay in school would've have been the total perfect package.  I was still really nice about it because he's a good man.  He deserves a good woman who is his age and will cuddle with him at night and have spa days with his daughter.  Me on the other hand…I've got to go figure out what I'm going to do about this tuition.


On a more upbeat note! I just got back from the Jill Scott & Anthony Hamilton concert.  It was amazing!  I had a blast dancing and singing along.  I wonder if people thought Mr. Artist was my grandfather.  When we were walking up to the venue, some black guys started shouting, "Hey, hey! You see that girl? That girl right there is PAID! GET YO MONEY BABY!"  We do look like an odd pair.  I think he felt quite out of place in a crowd of 10,000 hyped and soulful partying black people.  He got us great seats right in front of the stage.  The restaurant that he took me to was gorgeous.  It was lavishly decorated like a tibetan palace and the food was pricey yet delicious.  I enjoyed our conversation over two glasses of moscotto.  I really like him, he's nice, thoughtful, and pleasant.


So I brought up the allowance thing with Mr. Artist (This is date 2) and he rambled on about how he thought the concept spurred deceit and exploitation.  How can someone be exploited if they agreed to the terms of the relationship?  That's absurd.  So I stated that he wasn't comfortable giving me an allowance, but he differed with me and said that he was.  I told him I wanted $2500-$3000/mo.  He didn't comment on it, but I think we'll talk about it more tomorrow. I think he will come through for me, but I have a feeling that it might not last long or that he'd easily flake and change his mind.  I need someone who is stable and comfortable with this sort of thing…funny that's hard to find on a sugar daddy website!


Well I have a date lined up with Mr. Yacht and Mr. Bicycles for this week.  Next week I'll be flying to Michigan to meet a new POT, and also trying to set up a date with another new POT who has already agreed that $500/week was comfortable for him.  So I'm not missing a beat.  I will find the SD who is just right for me…or right for right now ;)

♥ Dream SB

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Pushing For A Solid Arrangement

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #016

Plan your dates in places where people who know you personally won't likely bump into you.  Many sugar babies do not want their friends or families knowing that they date older men for security.  Some don't care, but I think its safe to say that a majority of sugar babies have people in their lives that don't know about that aspect of their life.  So if you don't want to run into an ex, a co worker, or your MOM, its wise to avoid dates in places they frequent.  One of my sugar baby friends was on a date using a fake name…a friend definitely recognized her and ran up to her shouting out her real name.  EMBARRASSING!  I'm always afraid something like that is going to happen to me :P


Sugary Updates


Captain:


We had out date last night.  The moroccan restaurant is a reservation only restaurant and they were all booked up yesterday.  So we went to a classy American restaurant instead.  I got lost and was late…which is never good, but it gives him more incentive to buy me a GPS (mine got stolen).  We had a lovely dinner with great conversation as always.  I couldn't help but be distracted by this other sugar baby's tits who was sitting right across from me…like seriously?! She was a gorgeous latino chick, voluptuous curves…but definitely not fat.  Somehow she felt the need to squeeze her beautiful juicy body into a dress 3 sizes too small so that her breasts were bulging out of the top.  Bulging is not an exaggeration…it looked so ridiculous, trashy, and completely distracting haha!  And this girl had a motor mouth…talk talk talk…I swear I hardly heard her older date say a word.


There was several other sugar couples at this restaurant as well.  Another couple seated further away was a grandfatherish older gentleman with a classy youthful brunette.  She was eloquently dressed and seductively swayed her leg that she had crossed.  I also saw a black sugar couple…it wasn't so obvious at first because the guy did not appear to be much older until I got a closer look when I walked by him.  They seemed happy.  There were no hating or questioning looks from people.  Even the wait staff didn't show any emotion towards the somewhat odd pairing between me and my older date.  It was as if this was the norm and how things should be.  I loved it!


After dinner I gave Captain a few little kisses and coyly whispered in his ear, "So is your baby going to get an allowance?"  I had brought it up once before and he told me that he was ok with an allowance and that I would be well taken care of…but never said how much.  I didn't push the issue.  This time he replied with, "I'll see what I can do, but rest assured you will be well taken care of with me."  Then he preceded to tell me that he was planning on getting me plane tickets to go traveling and that he wanted to take me shopping.  I need a definition on "Well Taken Care Of".  What the fuck does that mean?  Again I didn't push any further.  I know, I need to be bolder, but I have a plan for that ass.


He flies back out on a business trip again tomorrow.  He'll be out of state primarily for most of the year…which is great.  I can fly to some nice locations and see him a few times a month, but otherwise my time is free.  No surprise dates.  No pressure to spend great amounts of time together.  I won't go see him until I have received my allowance.  So I'm picking up a visa gift card and I'm going to suggest that he put a certain amount on my card via online every week.  When you break down a monthly allowance into weekly increments…it sounds less scary, less of a big deal.  We'll see if he agrees to at least $500 a week ($2000-$2500/mo).  I don't think that's unfair to ask.  I like him, so hopefully we can get on the same page…or else my financial situation is going to force me to drop him.


I have a date with Mr. Artist to a tibetan restaurant and the Jill Scott concert tomorrow.  I will be pushing for a solid arrangement with him as well…no more wasting my time or dancing around the issue.  I'm ready for him to either get with the program or get lost ;)

♥ Dream SB

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Jill Scott Concert & Exotic Restaurants

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #015

Compile a list of rich men hangouts in your area.  Sometimes you may be able to meet the perfect SD at the bar of a pretentious restaurant, or in a high class lounge during lunch hours.  The online search can be effective, but expanding your search to meeting POTs socially may work in your favor!  I had a POT approach me at a bar of an overpriced Brazilian Steakhouse while I was waiting for date with another POT lmao!


Sugary Updates

I am still glowing like a 100 watt lightbulb after three rounds of erotic wresting with Mr. Price the other day.  My thighs still hurt too ::winces:: LOL!  I'd be under him all weekend too if his brother wasn't going to be in town.  Oh well, back to work haha.


Tonight Captain flies back into town this evening from his business trip to Boston.  I'm excited to see him again.  He's such a sweetheart.  I want him to be my big teddy bear SD.  I made reservations for us to go to a high class Moroccan restaurant tonight.  It's very intimate, serves a 7 course meal, and has belly dancers performing tonight.  This will be the perfect opportunity for us to discuss an official arrangement since he has already told me he'd like me to be his SB.


I reserved this Saturday to be a day for myself.  My summer semester in grad school is ending so I need to get busy on finals.  On Sunday I have a date with Mr. Artist.  Inspired by my best friend who is also a new SB, I decided to ask Mr. Artist to take me to a concert.  My friend went to see Britney Spears, Nikki Minaj, and Taylor Swift in concert…all in one week!  I've never been to a concert before.  Mr. Artist bought tickets to Jill Scott's concert!  I absolutely love her new album…its so jazzy, sexy, and sensual :)  Before the concert we're going to a gorgeous exotic restaurant that has a Tibetan Palace atmosphere.


Introducing New POT and POOFs Back From The Dead


Mr. Planes


He's a middle aged gentleman who owns two private planes.  He's married, which means he won't be taking up all of my evenings and weekends.  He travels quite a bit and has an adventurous streak.  He likes going go kart racing, riding in hot air balloons, and scuba diving.  Sounds like a good time to me!  We should be setting up a date next week, which is perfect because it's my last week of work and my boss already told me she doesn't need me for two days.  I'll have plenty of time for a lunch date.

Mr. Yacht


He is in his late thirties, fairly handsome, and owns a yacht.  We had a lunch date two weeks ago that he flaked on and just when ghost.  He emailed me last night and texted me this morning.  Seems like he's still interested.  He's going to have to really do it big to impress me because he has some making up to do.  I'm going to request he bring a gift to our first date.  I need to know he's serious.  So yeah…buy me an iphone bitch!!!

Mr. Bicycles


He is a bit older, loves girly girls, and not bad on the eyes.  We lost contact for a bit because he went on a business trip to Europe.  Now he is back in town as promised, so we'll set up a lunch date for next week as well.  He already said that my $3000 monthly allowance was in his budget and keeps sending me links to top designer heels he'd like to see me wear.  I'm looking forward to him because he has been consistent, and is experienced at being an SD.  None of that cheapie, or sensitive about giving me cash business.  He knows the deal.

I'm super excited because it looks like my weekend is off to a great start!

♥ Dream SB

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Getting Bolder & Sugar Baby Online Reviews

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Sugary Updates

I had my breakfast date with Mr. Flintstone this morning.  It was very different than any other first date with a POT that I've met so far.


He was not bad on the eyes.  Though he seemed much older than his mid thirties...his hair was thinning and he had patches of grey sneaking in.  So if you missed any previous blogs, Mr. Flintstone is the one who wants me to massage his feet.  I have no idea where he thought I was going to be rubbing on his hammertoes because I certainly wasn't doing it in public...and I didn't want to be alone with him either.  He even requested that I wear a black dress and bring massage oils....yeah right, that didn't happen.


He is very poetic and passionate...in a way that I am not used to.  I thought he was going to bust a nut from just caressing my hand.  He told me that he wanted to get as close to falling in love, without actually falling in love...what does that mean?  Sounds like he is being delusional to think that he could experience such an emotional high without actually becoming trapped by those emotions.


I believe that he has the means to pay for a luxury condo and give me $3-5k/mo on top of that.  The problem is he wants to keep going out for a bit before we make a formal arrangement.  I need an arrangement ASAP...my time is valuable, and he is way too touchy feely to not be spoiling me generously.  I asked him to put gas in my car after letting him fondle my hand and arm for an hour...this dude looked at me like I spoke Chinese.  I've been working on being more forward, so I didn't back down...I spelled it out for him.  He can either hand me cash or follow me to the gas station and fill my baby up..duh.  He filled my car up.


I'm going to just turn the pressure up on Captain and Mr. Artist this week and see if they'll commit to an arrangement, or I just need to move on.  Mr. Baltimore...I don't have any desire to talk to him right now since he caught a funky attitude because I didn't spend my whole day with him.  I don't have the patience for someone who is temperamental.  Perhaps I should work on my ego-stroking and kiss-ass skills...but yeah not today LOL.

Sugary Work Outs

I figure my exotic dance skills are going to be marketable so I've been trying to work on some new moves for the hell of it.  I rarely mention this ability to POTs because I don't want them expecting or asking for strip teases all of the time.  Check out this video...I nearly busted my face trying to perfect the couple of floor moves this girl does...but I think it's so hot!


QUESTION???


Are there forums where SDs review SBs that they've been out with...like posting pictures and talk about what she's like, or what she does?  I swear if I see my face plastered all over the internet I'm going to have an aneurism.

♥ Dream SB

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Double Booking My Dates!

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Sugary Updates

So as you all probably know, I'm talking to like 10 - 15 POTs.  I'd say 30% of them will probably convince me to go on a first date and 30% of those will prove to be SD material...if I'm lucky.  I swear all of these guys were fighting over my Saturday.  Weekends can be a bit crazy, but I try to double book them...have two dates set up in one day.  Captain had his bid in for Saturday day...but he's only taken me shopping, while Mr. Baltimore has given me cash.  So my daytime date went to Mr. Baltimore.  My evening date went to Mr. Artist, which was our first date.


Mr. Baltimore took me to a really upscale sushi restaurant.  The food was AMAZING!  He was surprised at how much sushi I ordered because I ate very little of my meal on our last date.  I am proud to say that I cleaned my plate.  I don't play around with sushi :D  I got to see his house which is utterly adorable!  It reminds me of the houses you see in tropical areas.  It was very very nice.  He got a little peeved that I wasn't going to spend the whole day with him, but I warned him the day before that I had evening plans.  He gifted me $400, but I suppose he would have given me more if I hadn't cut out on him so early.  We only spent like 3 hours together.  I told him if he gave me a generous monetary gift, I'd call out of work and come spend the whole day with him.  My boss conveniently didn't approve my time, so I didn't get paid...oober broke!


As I left from Mr. Baltimore's place, I got stuck in traffic trying to make it over to the theatre that I was meeting Mr. Artist (I changed into my cocktail dress with nosey people watching in traffic lol).  I would've been on time if mapquest didn't suck ass.   I know I know I should have a GPS, but it got stolen.  So out of frustration I parked my car close to where I thought the theatre should've been and started walking.  I walked like 5,000 miles and was 15 minutes late.  At least they allowed late seating.  Mr. Artist was waiting for me outside in the crotchy heat.  He is not much to look at.  I suppose if he shaved and fixed his hair he wouldn't look half bad...but he didn't.  Not to mention he's over twice my age.  No matter.  I greeted him with a smile, apologized for the wait and enjoyed the play.  It was a very lively play and he got front row seats.  I knew that each of the tickets were like $250.  Afterwards we chatted a bit and he drove me to my car.  I noticed that he was struggling to hear me since his hearing is probably bad, but I didn't want to shout.  I made it clear that I was looking for a non-sexual arrangement, and cringed at the thought that women my age had slept with him before.  Though he didn't come off as pervy at all.  Perhaps this may be the perfect arrangement because I sense that he is very generous and is starved for attention.

Sugar Baby Alert!

I scanned the audience at the play and found 3 distinct sugar couples!  I don't know why it is an obsession of mine to pick out other sugar couples.  None of the ladies were with a daddy as old as mine. I felt people's eyes on me wondering why my young caramel ass was with a grandfatherish white man.  Some of the wives gave me scornful looks and I wanted to pluck their eyes right out of their sockets.  I just looked at them with my, "Your husband might be calling me next, so mind him, not me," look.


I must note that the other sugar babies looked jubilant and happy to be there...all except the one with the tacky scarlet red lipstick.  What are you a geisha doll? Come on, I know we're the wives of the night...but what was she thinking of putting bright red lipstick with her ghostly pale complexion.  Out of all the sugars that attended, I had the best seats, so that made me smile :)

♥ Creole Dream SB

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When My 2 Worlds Collide

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Sugar Baby Tip #011

If you're going to lie...be consistent, keep it simple, and as close to the truth as possible.  I hate when SD POTs ask me why I'm busy.  Most of them won't be cool with the fact that I go out with a different SD POT almost every damn day.  I ain't got time to waste...this is an interview process, an audition.  If he doesn't razzle dazzle me then he's going to have to get in line.  My time goes to the highest bidder.  This is a business of fantasy.  Some POTs are ok with competition...others are whiny babies about it.  I keep it simple, I'm in school so the reason why I can't come out tonight is I'm working on a group project.  Everyone gets the same story.  No slip ups, nothing elaborate, nothing much else to talk about.


Sugary Updates

I went out with my occupational hazard again...a normal hot guy.  I have a sneaking suspicion that he's more loaded than he comes off, but what good is it if I don't ever get to see it?  Sugar dating while trying to regular date is...complicated...sticky...asking for trouble.  What is the occupational hazard going to think if he finds out the reason why I'm busy so much is because I'm a sugar baby going out on dates to get that sugar?  I have more left overs from high profile restaurants than I can manage to eat in a week.  Can I dump this lifestyle to be with him?  I like him a lot.  But the questions keep coming up...like why do I have two phone numbers? (I slipped up) Why does my email have a name different than what he knows me by?  I don't want to lie to him, but I certainly don't want to tell him the truth either.


Then I thought to myself, since when have I put a price on intimacy.  The occupational hazard definitely tried to get hot and heavy tonight...but I was reluctant, and pushed him away.  Is it because he has not spent one dime on me other than a drink at Starbucks?  Can I not turn sugar baby mode off like a flip of a switch?  He's so sweet and creative.  He took a picture of a place he wanted to take me on a date with a note card that had an invitation scribbled on it, and emailed it to me.  That's some Notebook shit if I haven't seen it :)  But there is no way I can date him if my car is getting repo-ed and I don't have a dollar to wipe my ass with.


Not to mention that I live at home...so my mom is like wow you go out with Demitrius an awful lot...and he buys you things...takes you to really nice restaurants...comes a long distance to see you...I think he's married.  In my mind I'm thinking, I don't care if he's married...if they're married...its not like I'm fucking any of them.  I leave my house looking drop dead gorgeous every night...next thing she's going to think is that I'm a hooker.  I need to move asap.  Hopefully Mr. Baltimore will come through on that note.  Then my secret life will go much more unnoticed.

♥ Creole Dream SB

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Shopping...The Spoils of Sugar and War!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #010

Get a visa gift card.  Especially if you have one of those daddies who doesn't like giving you cash.  I don't know why some men rather buy you things than just give you money.  With those types, you can tell him to just load up your visa gift card and you can either go shopping or pay some bills.  Also great if its a long distance thing or he's traveling a lot because he can do it online.  A great alternative to cash (Cash is always best) and way more secure than a personal check!


Sugary Updates

So today I went out on a sugar date with Captain to the mall to go shopping and catch a movie.  We only had 20 minutes before the movie started...so of course I hit up my favorite store, Free People.  I was a bit irritated that they didn't have a lot of the higher priced items that I was looking for, but no matter...I still got some things that I wanted.  When we go to Boston in a couple of weeks, I'll be sure to check out the Free People out there as well.


We still haven't agreed on an arrangement yet, but this trip let me know that he's serious and wants to treat me well.  This was our 3rd date so far, so I decided to give him a first kiss afterwards.  He's new to the sugar world and doesn't know too much of what to expect so I don't want to scare him off, but also I think he's just genuinely a good guy and I like his company.  I won't treat him like a business transaction, but if I show him that I'm not all about just getting my bills paid, I think he'll stick around and pick up my monthly bills - it's really not that much.  If he can agree to that...then I'm in the clear to quit my job in two weeks.  Then I can get serious and buckle down on finding a better job that's actually in my field...and an SD to knock out my tuition and shoe fetish.

Ok so here are the spoils of sugar and war that I got today:




Ok the dress by the way...makes my booty look AMAZING! And my daily ab routine is paying off.  My belly is flat as a board, and its been only 2 weeks!  I'll definitely have to blog about my 15 minute ab exercises.  I used to be an exotic dance fitness instructor, so it definitely works well for my sugar adventures.


I'll close out with another sugary song!


♥ Creole Dream SB

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