Introducing: Captain & Mr. Walrus
Hello Dolls!
Sugar Baby Tip #001
Use a pseudo-name. Unless he's trying to co-sign on a lease for a luxury apartment or add you as an authorized user on his platinum card...then your sugar daddy and potentials don't need to know your real name. This keeps relationships gone sour from biting you in the ass. My pseudo-name is sexy, yet sophisticated...and most importantly believable. I'd like to think of it as my alter ego :)
Sugar Baby Lingo
I quickly realized that this whole sugar dating world has it's own language. Here are some terms I picked up that might be useful to newbie sugars.
ONS - One Night Stand
P4P - Pay for Play (Money exchanged for an ongoing sexual arrangement)
LTR - Lead to Relationship
POT - Potential Sugar Daddy
SD - Sugar Daddy
SB - Sugar Baby
That's all I can think of right now. If you know more, definitely leave them in the comments!
Sugary Updates
Ok, I have 2 potential sugar daddies that I've been messaging back and forth. The first one is in his early 40s, tall, and not hard on the eyes. He wants a sugar baby to travel with. So far he has been very respectful, engaging in conversation, and sweet. No creepy sexual predator vibes...yet. I will continue to refer to him as Captain.
The second is in his mid 40s (looks about 10 yrs older though), overweight, and reminds me of a walrus. When he referred to me as "sexy" in his first message it made me cringe. I still decided to engage in message conversation with him to feel him out. I can't expect to be attracted to every potential...but a little attraction helps. Halfway hoping to dissuade him, I told him that I wasn't sure if he could handle what I'm looking for. I informed him that I wasn't looking for P4P, and that I expect help paying my student loans, car loan, and medical debt. Those are big bills...not just get my hair and nails done. He said he liked that idea, so I sent him some more photos via email. I'm still on edge, but we will see about him. I will continue to refer to him as Mr. Walrus. :P
Well that's all I got for you all right now! I swear hunting for a sugar daddy is like a full time job. It takes a lot of energy.
♥ Creole Dream Sugar Baby
