Messaged A POT Who Turned Out 2 B My Dad!

Messaged A POT Who Turned Out 2 B My Dad!

Hellos Dolls!

So I am now back from my 3 week hiatus.  I have been quite busy in the sugar world, but I had to make necessary adjustments so that I can get into the swing of things with grad school.  So I do apologize for the extended silence, but am pleased with everyone who responded with emails so they can continue to follow me now that the blog is private.

Sugar Baby Tip #30

Pick and choose your battles.  If you're not sleeping with a POT or SD who is spoiling you…but he does things that annoy you such as call too often or talk about his problems too much…you have to really ask yourself is it worth complaining about?  If he's spoiling you and treating you well, then some things are worth putting up with if you're not benefiting him much else.  Same thing goes with the ones who spoil the heck out of you and you give up the goods.  Is it really worth whining about that it lasts 3 minutes?  Just swipe his credit card and smile.  Leave the drama at home.  Don't ruin a good thing over little stuff.

Sugary Updates:

So I messaged a POT on Ashley Mads.  There was nothing that really red flagged his profile so I didn't think anything of it.  Funny thing is my SB bestie and I joked about her dad being on one of those sites since he's a public figure.  I never once imagined that my father would be!  One day while my mom wasn't around my dad walked up to me and called me by my SB name.  My head completely jerked around because why would he even think to say that name…

SIKE!  Wheeew! Yeah that would totally suck if that did happen…can you say awkward?!  I wanna talk to a SB that really has been in that situation lol.  I thought about how my pictures are plastered all over these sites and how easy it would be for a relative to recognize me if they were on there doing their dirt.

Virgin Islands:

The SD of one of my SB friends totally paid for her and I to go on a lil vacay to the Virgin Islands for a week.  Let me tell you, it was amazing!  The water is soooo beautiful and we were lucky to have gorgeous weather the entire time.  We spent three days in St. Thomas and four days in St. Croix.  I went snorkeling, jet skiing, and took a boat tour of the islands.

Banking Sugar:

I haven't been doing half bad.  I've been at my job (which I got hired by one of my POTs) for a month now and made $3k which is a huge upgrade from the chump change $1k/mo I was making before.  Mr. Artist has also made good on his promise and deposited $3k into my account for September's allowance as well.  I have also received some sugar on the side from some POTs that I've been rotating.  Mr. Shades gave me $500 since we agreed on that amount each week.  He's been really busy, so I've only been able to see him once this month so far.  Mr. Eventful gave me $300 before I left for my vacation.  Mr. Flavor is also back in the picture and has given me $200.  The brings my sugar to a grand total of $7000 for this month, most of which is just saved.  Sugar isn't reliable as some might think, so I want to be as frugal as possible and keep my rainy day fund stacked.  I'll go more into details on those dates and what not that you all missed in my entries this week.  There's so much to tell!

Well I'm glad to be back with you all and thanks for reading dolls!

♥ Creole Dream

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Going Private & The Angry Wife

Going Private & The Angry Wife

Hello Dolls!

First off I just want to say that I love all of my followers and those who comment on my blog.  I expected cattiness and drama in the sugar world…but I have been greeted with comradery and enthusiasm.  I have come to the decision to make my blog private.  I want to control who can read about my sugary experiences and who cannot.  I believe this will allow me to continue to be open, honest, and realistic in my blog about my experiences…which is of value to the people who follow me.  So if you are a candid reader and HAVE NOT subscribed…hmmm I'm not inclined to invite you, but if you really want to continue reading then please send me an email.  If you are a subscribed follower, but you do not have your email listed in your public profile…either leave it in a comment, or send me an email so that I can invite you as well.

To request to be invited, please send me an email at: anotheralabi02@hotmail.com

Sugary Updates

Mr. Shades cancelled our date today, but treated me to a day at the nail salon. I got a pedicure, and acrylic nails.  This is my first time wearing fake nails so it was quite an experience!  The pedicure was heaven, but the nails were torture for me.  I didn't know the grind your real nails!

I was reading another SB blog about married SDs…and it made me remember something I wanted to share with you all.  Mr. Jet who has now officially POOFED on me…our last conversation was very late at night.  He called me, but my phone lost reception…or so I thought…and the call dropped.  I waited a few minutes for him to call back, but nothing.  So I dialed him back and didn't think much of it since he was supposed to be on a business trip.  Some angry woman answered the phone…whom I assume to be his wife.  I was shocked…and I didn't say a word.  I listened to her yell for a few seconds…then I hung up.  She called back immediately.  I didn't want her to here my female voice on my voicemail so I picked up and hung up right away.  She wouldn't stop calling.  So finally I picked up the phone and answered it pleasantly yet in a tired voice.  She very irritatedly asked why I had called and hung up.  I apologized and told her that I did not call her, but that I caught my children playing with my phone.  They must have dialed her on accident and just hung up the phone.  I apologized again and bid her a goodnight.  I didn't get anymore calls from her or him.

At first I was embarrassed at having been confronted by his wife.  No matter what way you look at it…in that situation I was scum…the other woman…the slut…even if my affair with Mr. Jet has only been in conversation, and I have never laid eyes on him.  Then I went from being embarrassed to extremely pissed off.  How dare he be so careless?  And what did I get from all of that mini drama?  Not a damn thing except empty promises.  Why do all married men write about sugar babies being discreet in their profiles?  No motherfucker you be discreet…I'm not the one fucking married, so cover up your own damn tracks.  To go out with a married man, I'd require a huge allowance to compensate me for the sheer inconvenience of such a relationship.  Mr. Jet did offer me $4,000/mo be honestly if you got a fucking private jet then you can at least give me $6,000/mo…and afford a phone with lock features.  So I avoid married men for the most part…unless they claim to be separated, or have the means to truly afford a quality affair.

Still on the topic of married men…my ex, Mr. Platinum giddily called me all day.  He had a golf tournament that he did for charity.  I talked about going to Tokyo with him and the costs for the flight and what not.  He definitely changed his tune on me.  He threw me a whole bunch of excuses about what if his wife called and heard me in the background.  #1 I'm not fucking or sucking you so there is no need to feel un-necessarily guilty for not cluing her in that I'm going.  #2 Why the hell would you answer your phone with me around…step out the room dumbass or hush me and tell me to zip my lips.  Then he wanted to be like, "What am I getting out of this?"  You're not trying to cheat on her right?  We're just friends right?  Then what the fuck are you getting at?  The he wanted to say I was trying to use him…but in reality the 5 star hotel room is paid for by the government…and I'm paying for my own flight…so really he gets the bonuses of my company in a foreign country for fucking free.  I'm so irritated with him, so I'm not going to Tokyo…with him. While he's in Tokyo his wife is going to be on somebody else's dick….how the hell did he think he met her?

The other married guy in my life would be a coworker.  When I first set eyes on him I was instantaneously attracted to him.  He's young, tall, handsome, with this laid back attitude, and sexy ass accent.  Then I found out he's married…go fucking figure!  We chilled a little bit after work and got to know each other better.  He seems so unhappy with his wife…but not in the way a dog of a man gets tired of his wife.  I really feel for the both of them and its a tough situation.  He's such a great guy, it blows my mind how she can treat him so distastefully.  Its not him just hyping it up…I've met the woman and she is no ray of sunshine to be around.  I definitely want to befriend him…but my attraction to him is asking for trouble.  I better just focus on sugar right now.  If I'm getting into any drama….its gonna be the kind that fattens my bank account!

♥ Dream SB

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