Showing posts with label Arrangement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Arrangement. Show all posts

Island Sugar Baby

Hello Dolls!

I am bubbling over with joy!  Guess where I'm flying next week?  I'm taking a vacay to the Virgin Islands.  My homegirl just came home from living overseas with her SD and he's treating us to some girl-time in the VI! :)  The sugar world is oooh soo sweet.


Sugar Baby Tip #029

Step outside of your comfort zone...experience a slice of the good life!  This is mainly for the newbies.  Is Olive Garden your favorite restaurant?  Ok I need you to get on google and find some 5 star restaurants with celebrity status dining experiences and suggest your SD or POT take you there.  Never had a spa day?  Ask your SD to send you to get your hair and nails done along with a facial, a massage, and some time in the sauna.  Have fun with this, get creative, get imaginative!  This is your time to shine!


Sugary Updates

I've got 3 POTs who have strong potential for crossing over into Sugar Daddy land.  Hopefully at least 2 of them are man enough to take on the challenger ::grins::.  If they don't work out, oh well, on to the next one.  I'm not investing a great deal of energy into POTs anymore.  A man knows within 30 seconds of meeting me if I'm desireable enough to be kept.  So all this going on multiple dates without an arrangement...not gonna happen.  Show me the money!  I'm excited because I like all three of them fairly well enough to tolerate their company.  I really like my SD and I think our relationship is unique to what people think of SB/SD relationships, so I am greatly pleased with it.  I just need some extra cash for security and mainly savings so I can buy a house in a year or so once I'm done with grad school.


Now I gotta do a little shopping for my VI trip.  Hmmm perhaps I should call a gift daddy.  If you don't have one, get one!  I need island inspired dresses....a wide brimmed floppy straw hat...some new precious stoned sandals...and new bikini wouldn't hurt either.  I'm definitely going to schedule my spa trip I talked about in my last post before I fly out.  I wish the trip was a cruise, but my friend gets terribly seasick.  I won't complain about a resort too much ;-*  If you could take a trip anywhere right now, all expenses paid...where would you go?

♥ Dream SB

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Be Prepared If You Have A Sweet Tooth! My Sugar Explosion!

Hello Dolls!

I can't believe I haven't blogged in the last couple of days?! Miss me?? :)

Sugary Updates

I had dinner with Mr. Artist at a beautiful ethnic restaurant.  I loooved the food so much!  It was my recommendation, and he always goes along with my suggestions.  We had some time before dinner to walk and talk.  It was nice hearing him talk more than me for once.  Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't talk so much so I don't reveal too much on accident.  I definitely got some more insight into who he is, his personality, and his history.  Surprisingly I felt a closeness to him in a deep friendship sort of way.  He has decided to increase my allowance to $3000 a month.  This time some expectation came with the increase, so I look at it more like a job than anything else.  On top of our 4 dates a month, I will be making myself available for advice, inspiration, and encouragement…simply more conversational centered interactions.  That is cake to me :)  This is perfect since I really need to get on my feet.


I also had breakfast with Mr. Shades too.  He's definitely not my type, but he is certainly more attractive than I thought he was and seems like a complete sweetheart.  He took me to breakfast at a beautiful restaurant that was originally built in the early 1900s as a private restaurant to serve presidents, congressmen, elite businessmen, and celebrities.  Mr. Shades seems a little shy, which in turn made me feel a bit shy.  I guess I feed off of others energy, but I tried my best to overcome it and be as natural and charming as possible.  He agreed that a $2000/mo allowance would be appropriate prior to meeting if we decided to start a sugar relationship.  After breakfast I suggested we walk around the shopping district and get to know each other more.  We drove around looking for parking for a while, and finally he told me he had to go take care of some tenants that just called.  He offered to pay for my parking, but definitely didn't give me any shopping money.  I wonder if the prospect of shopping scared him off?  He didn't respond to my text that I sent afterwards thanking him for the date, so I thought that wasn't interested.  Yeah right, I don't know why I doubt myself.  He shot me a text back the next day raving about how smitten he is with me ;)


I also had the opportunity to see Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow in concert.  Mr. Yacht paid for the tickets and travel arrangements.  He even took care of two of my girlfriends as well.  He bought us all the drinks that we wanted and food too.  I invited my SB bestie and then she brought one of her friends.  Her friend was an utter embarrassment!  She asked Mr. Yacht about his wife around his other lady friends.  She got so drunk and was saying stupid things about penises and kept doing inappropriate things like grabbing my bestie's titties.  I wanted to bury her so far under the ground…lol!  The concert was amazing!  Kid Rock hopped around stage like a grasshopper.  Sheryl was as beautiful and inspiring as ever.


I had a date set up with a guy I met on wealthymen.com.  He lives in the DC area and is a notorious young businessman.  I researched his company and everything.  He's legit.  I will call him Mr. Tokyo because he's half Japanese and extremely sexy.  He promised he'd be in my area for the day on business so we'd be able to go out for sushi.  I guess there was a massive earthquake across the region causing railroad tracks getting crumpled and disabling trains…lots of big problems delaying traffic and disrupting business.  Did any of you all feel it?  Well anyways he canceled because of it, so who knows when I will see him?  It'd be nice to get a millionaire boyfriend :)


Tomorrow I have a date set up with Mr. Jet, who has his own private jet and is offering me $4,000/mo.  His offer is not as innocent as some the offers I have accepted already.  I try not to be sensitive about the whole sex issue.  I don't know why sleeping with someone who gives you money has to have the thorny association with prostitution…so it'd be so much better if I slept with him for free?  Get the fuck out of here!  Men should have been paying every woman for sex since the beginning of time.  I don't know what sexist fuck started the idea that we should give that shit up for empty promises and hollow "I love you's".  Mr. Jet said that if everything goes well, he's prepared to start my allowance next week.  We'll see.  He offered to take me shopping on our first date, so if he buys me some high ticket items then I'll know he's serious.


I started talking to a new POT from SA called Mr. Aussie.  He's handsome and athletic and has the sexiest mixture of a Scottish and Australian accent!  I love it!  He's new to the sugar world.  I've noticed that many of these guys join sugar sites without knowing what to expect because of a "friend's" recommendation.  I would've thought these so called friends would give them an idea of what to offer a girl they were interested and how to approach things.  Apparently not.  My desired allowance is posted articulately on my profile and he brought it up.  I told him we didn't need to negotiate an arrangement just yet and I'd like to meet and see if there was any chemistry first.  I thought that was the right thing to say…I'm not sure now.  After our first conversation he emailed me and said that he could tell by our communication that he couldn't be involved with me on the regular.  So he offered me a non-sexual couples massage and shopping on occasion instead.  WTF??  I mean I love massages and shopping, but if you're not interested…then why even that?  I don't see the benefit other than him trying to let me down nicely.  Oh well its probably just talk cuz he's scared of real sugar.


I've also had a rendezvous with Mr. Price! If you don't know who he is, he's this fine young and wealthy guy I've been casually dating on and off over the last year.  It was late and I had just finished up a date in his area so I decided to give him a call before I started my journey home.  He answered! I wasn't sure because he travels at least 4 days a week.  He sounded sooo sleepy but still offered for me to come over for a little bit to catch up while he was still in town…and catch up we did ;-*! He knows about my sugar exploits, which I describe to him as compensated dating.  I love how he's not immediately repulsed by it and is intrigued.  I coyly joked that what I was about to do would cost anyone else $5k :P  As I was cuddled up with him chatting about different he things, he mentioned how he really liked how I give head.  Usually that's just a cue, but then he described in detail what he liked about it and how it was different than how any other girl has ever given him head.  I love that about him…he pays attention to details and is so appreciative of things that other guys don't really care about.


I teased him with kisses up and down his torso and then preceded to give him some of the head that he liked so much.  I loved how he closed his eyes and looked like a kid in a candy shop.  Then I jokingly stopped, yawned and rolled over.  He pounced on me, flipped me over, lifted my dress and just slid my thong over.  I love how he gets naked in 0.9 seconds and I take forever.  I guess he didn't feel like waiting so he fucked me with all of my clothes still on.  I love his gentle strength and dominance in bed.  I moved and he slipped out on accident.  He just smacked my ass and pulled me back to him telling me to stop fighting it. ::Melts just thinking about it!:: The more I squirm or try to push him away, the more he restrains me and purposely pleasures me more.  Afterwards we showered together and he asked me if I'll be able to go back to dating regular guys once I get what I need.  I looked up at him and sensed a tinge of longing and disappointment in his deep golden brown eyes.  I didn't say anything because I knew the next thing that was going to come out of my mouth was going to be a lie.  The sugar world is addictive…will it be all that easy to give up?

♥ Dream SB

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A Phone Snooping POT & A Woman's Scorn

Hello Dolls!

I had such an amusing day :)  So I was woken up by my phone at like 1 AM and had gotten 8 or 9 text messages from my ex boyfriend.  I'm thinking to myself…WTF!  Then I read the messages and this is what it said:

"Malachai is a lying piece of shit…a cheater that plots on bitches online…ladies beware! He lives with a bitch…left his phone in my care and is straight busted…Dates a different POF girl everyday…yall can have his trifflin bitch ass! At least I got free drinks off of his ass.  He has no fuckin game.  Lame ass."


I burst out into laughter because whoever his pissed off date was…she sent that message from his phone to everyone in his contacts…all the women…his aunt…his mama…his boss…even his pastor!  Let me give you some background on this asshole.  I dated him for 4 months…and he is a pathological liar.  Lied about who he lives with…the works.  This dude had nerve to start taking other female "friends" out because I couldn't afford to travel into the city to go on dates with him (and he refused to come see me or give me gas money).   I called his phone and the girl picks up with a real ghetto intonation when she said "Hel-luh".  Apparently he told her that he broke up with me because I'm bulimic and that we just broke up last week….bahahaha that's such a load of bull…(1) I'd like a bigger ass, so I won't be vomiting my meals anytime soon, and (2) We broke up over a month ago.  So I kindly informed her that he lives with his mom…has severe erectile disfunction…doesn't have a car (yet will borrow cars to hide that fact)…and only takes girls out to free events for dates.  That tickled me :)  She kindly informed the rest of his phone book about that too LOL.

Sugar Updates

I had a first date with Mr. Flavor right after work today. Ok…epic fail on my part…a tall white man in a business suit walks through the door and I flash him a greeting smile and wave…yeah…not my date!  I'm so terrible! I really do think all white people look alike! (No offense to my caucasian sugars lol, but I'm half white too so imagine me at family reunions lol) Mr. Flavor arrived a half hour late.  My Sex on the Beach was just ice cubes then.  He's a humorous and delightful man…much more handsome in person.  His pictures seriously don't do him any justice whatsoever…in fact he should delete them.  I lightly brushed over topics like money.  He said once he feels a connection then fulfilling any of my wants and needs wouldn't be an issue for him.  He doesn't want it to feel like a transaction, he wants to feel naturally compelled to take care of me.  That sounds all hunkey dorey and all…


BUT…how long does it take for him to feel this so called connection?  Do you feel it now?  I'm not waiting 3 months.  What does my wants and needs not being an issue mean?  He doesn't even know what they are, so how does he know he can afford them?  I hope not an issue means he'll be depositing $2k-$5k in my bank account on the 1st every month.  Somehow I feel like he's another talker…kinda how Captain promised I'd be well taken care of…and that ended up with past due bills.  So I excused myself to the bathroom and left my phone on the table.  Would you believe that fool was going through it when I snuck back to the table a different way so he couldn't see me coming.  I snatched it from him and sat down with a sinister grin.  He tried to play it off and say he never seen a pink phone before.  Reeeally…mmm hmmm…ok, sure.  I cut the date short and left.


I'm just really glad to at least have some kind of arrangement (not bad for my first) and a job that resulted from sugar dating.  So my sweet tooth is calmed for a bit, I'm not desperate for cravings for the sugar cash like I was when I first jumped into all of this.  A bad date…eh…so what.  No more ego stroking for the unworthy POTs.  They are the ones that are going to have to work a little harder to get me interested.  My boss asked me to be his SB again.  I politely declined.  Perhaps if he offered a more appealing allowance to compensate the occupational hazard of dating him would be…I might have considered it.  Why accept $1500 from him when he definitely is gonna want sex which could complicate things at work and lead to him firing me when things get weird…when Mr. Artist gives me $1600 just for 1 dinner date a week.  In the grand scheme of things $1500 isn't a lot of money, and I'd prefer to get that every week rather than every month.  So I'm going to be choosey…not all money is worth it.


♥ Dream SB

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Girls Just Wanna Have Funds!

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Sugary Updates

So I finally got my first official sugar!  I mean I've had POTs give me money before, but it was only a few hundred dollars here and there.  Mr. Artist gave me my first month's allowance: $1600.  I can't even really call it an allowance because he doesn't expect anything in return and its for my tuition and college expenses.  He's such a sweetheart!  We explored some beautiful gardens and chatted about different things.  Then we went and had dinner at a gorgeous latino restaurant.  The food was amazing and our server was on point.


The reality that I am completely taken care of hasn't even set in yet.  I won't be behind on bills anymore.  I won't have to fuss and fret over how I'm going to pay for school.  I can actually focus on MY life…not my SB life.  I can get the maintenance done on my car, concentrate on school, and spend time with family.  The hustling phase is over for me…for now.  I still want just one more SD for security and safe keepings.  I'd definitely like to reach my goal of saving $2500 a month.


Somehow I feel Mr. Artist wants more than what he's letting on.  He seems despaired about our age difference and I don't want him to feel like his wishful thinking is simply just that.  I really do like him and wouldn't mind being a bit warmer and more affectionate.  I just want to take my time with it and really enjoy the few hours we spend together once a week.  I will never fill the void in his life that his wife made when she left, but perhaps I can ease some of the loneliness with some good fun spirited company :)


I did try to get me some dick tonight to celebrate my good fortune >:P  Mr. Price was being a lame-o.  He whined about having a headache, so I let him slide.  There wasn't anyone else I'd want to call for the job lol.  He's the only person I've been sleeping with for the last year…yet we're only friends.  I guess I should be taking applications haha, but I know Mr. Biker Boy will be coming back into town in October and I'd love to ride him.  He's definitely marriage material ::sighs:: He has the sexiest big beefy muscles, perfect height, perfect job…yum I can't wait to blog about Mr. Biker Boy.  We had a steamy romance last year.


Ok, I'm being silly now.  Let me get some sleep!  Can't wait to read about what you ladies did this weekend!

♥ Dream SB

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My Black is Beautiful ♥

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #019

Get a Pay Pal account.  This was a recommendation from Sugar Daddy who checked out my blog.  It helps keep account information discreet and confidential for both parties.  I like this idea and have considered it, except I keep assuming that the old guys I talk to don't know nothing about Pay Pal LOL! Well I guess if they can handle making an online profile, they can handle Pay Pal :)


Sugary Updates

Ok now I am super paranoid about how many of MY Pots read my blog and recognize its me.  I hate censoring myself and my thoughts, but this is a business and I gotta put those interests first.  I may change the settings to make my blog invite only.  I see a lot of sugars have gone that route.  In three weeks I've had almost 3000 views yet I only have 20 followers…hmm.  Then another part of me doesn't care.  This is how I really feel.  If I talk trash about something disgusting or disrespectful a POT did…yeah catch a hint asshole, that's why I didn't call you back haha!  I'm always going to be cordial in person.  I'm zero drama (for the most part lol).  I don't like drawing a whole lot of attention to myself if I can help it.


Hmmm. Mr. Artist wants to be complicated and send the money directly to my college to pay my tuition.  Sounds like he doesn't trust me.  I hate it when people want to do something nice for you, but they fuss over what you do with the gesture.  Give me the tuition money, obviously I'm the one who wants to stay in school…if I spend it on something else that's my dumb ass fault.  He can send it directly to them, I don't care.  It's just a bit irritating because I'd rather touch it and pay it myself so I KNOW it got paid on time.  Maybe the problem is that I don't trust HIM.  I don't want him saying he put it in the mail on time and then forgot and by the time I realize it, then I'm late and getting dropped from my courses.


I had kind of an off day today.  I had a doctor's appointment.  The nurse demolished my veins because she couldn't get my IV in right.  My arms are so sore.  Then when they injected me with a dye for a body scan…it was excruciatingly painful…probably because the nurse jacked up my veins from sticking me too many times.  I cried and went into full blown panic attack mode.  Its so rare that I have emotional breakdowns but I was so traumatized.  Once they start the injection, they can't stop it till its done because a machine does it.  I had two doses.  So after experiencing how bloody awful the first one was, I panicked the whole time anticipating the pain for the second one.  This other patient (gorgeous dark skinned girl with a sexy ass figure, perfect skin, and the cutest zebra print heels) complimented me on my hair before I got called back.  When the test was over I took off running with wig in hand and that girl was sitting right outside the door.  I was so embarrassed and eyes bloodshot from crying.


I've been still hunting for new POTs.  I'm not getting very many bites on the sites.  I've been messaging White men, but a lot of them aren't writing back.  I can't help but wonder if its because they're not attracted to black women.  One guy had on his profile that he didn't want any black women messaging him.  That kind of struck a nerve.  How about you describe what kind of women you like rather than describe a racial category that you don't like.  Black women come in all shades, sizes, attitudes, and flavors…so how can someone say oh I don't find any black women attractive?  Black women in my family have blonde hair and blue/green eyes…not that they are more beautiful, but they are not the stereotype.  I think people who think like that stereotype and are ignorant. If you like fair skin, light colored eyes…then you can find that in middle eastern women, european women, latino women, and even black women.  I understand everyone has their preferences, but if your preferences come from some Jim Crow bullshit, you need to get a life.  I love men who find beauty in women despite superficial things like race.  Race isn't even biologically or genetically based, its a social construct used to stratify classes of people.  Ok, as a multiracial woman, I'm going to get down off of my soap box now :)


♥ Dream SB

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I Got The Sugar w/o Selling The Cane ;)

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::dances around::  I have like one of the best set ups ever!  I'm so excited and giddy I can barely breathe :D

(1) Mr. Yacht hired me as his office manager!  Last night he text me and gave me a choice between being his SB and being his office manager.  I couldn't have both, so I made him make me an offer on each so I could weigh the pros and cons.  As his SB, he offered me $1500/mo (obviously expecting sex) and wanted to meet 5 days a week for two months, then when his wife comes back in town we'd meet only once a week for the fall and winter.  As his office manager, he offered me $2750/mo.  I'd work mon-fri 8am - 5pm.  Obviously I'd make more money as his office manager…and wouldn't be expected to fuck and suck his dick.  I interviewed for the job this morning and his current office manager offered me the job :) I start tomorrow, which is perfect because this is my last week at my current job.


(2) Mr. Artist shot down my request for $500/wk.  Instead he counter-offered to give me monthly increments to pay my fall tuition.  I generously calculated my college expenses and he agreed to give me $1600/mo.  Ok…not only did he agree to that amount, but told me that he did NOT expect anything for it.  He told me he did not expect affection, a relationship, or even gratitude.  He will help me with my tuition merely out of the kindness of his heart.  So once again I've found an income where not the least sexual favor is expected of me in exchange for it.


Spoils of Sugar & War:  approx. $3700/mo (after taxes) and no SD per say.  So I'm still free to find an SD to spend time with occasionally during my free evenings, and receive a monthly allowance from that arrangement.  My goal is to find an SD who will give me at least $2000/mo boosting my income to about $5700/mo.  I would still go see Captain twice a month for shopping and enjoyable dates.  If I could just get to that point…then I could pay off my student loans, medical debt, and stay current on my bills over the next year.

♥ Dream SB

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Job Interview On My Sugar Date ;)

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Sugar Baby Tip #017

Always smell nice.  This shouldn't be a tip, but some stories I've heard from other POTs makes me wonder.  Where I live it is ungodly hot during the summer and sometimes a last minute date can make it impossible to take a shower before hand.  There are some things I always carry on me…men's deodorant, sweet minty gum, a seductive fragrance, and hemp lotion.  Men's deodorant works AMAZING! I picked this up from another SB friend because my dove and secret deodorants wear out during the day.  I usually choose the most unisex smelling one, and to avoid smelling distinctly like a man I throw on hemp lotion and a fragrance.  The hemp lotion is fruity (sweet to the taste too) and light so it's not greasy.  I keep a cheap Korean fragrance called Eat It Raw which always gets compliments.  The gum is essential for after dinner. Men are sensual creatures so smelling delicious is always appealing.  Those are some of my on the go recommendations!


Sugary Updates

I emailed Mr. Artist my minimum allowance requirements.  I'm learning to be more bold when it comes to asking for money.  He agreed again to wanting to help me out financially, but he's still dancing around the issue of the amount.  So I responded again bringing up figures to clarify his agreement.  We'll see how that goes.  My tuition is due soon, so I don't want to play games.  If he's not going to give me what I need then he just needs to say so.  I don't want to count on something that's not coming.


I had my first date with Mr. Yacht today.  We went to a cutesy tiki place near me.  He flaked on me once before because he found another SB he tried to pursue things with.  Apparently they went on vacation and she didn't shower for 3 days so he dropped her.  Gross!  But good for me.  He made me a unique offer…a job as an office manager for his company…or be his SB.  I told him either, or - or both was fine with me…so he said he would sleep on it and let me know sometime this week.  He seems like he'd be a good SD and he's attractive with the prettiest blue eyes I've ever seen.  The job seems pretty lucrative as well.  I am in desperate need for work and the pay is great.  He's funny, laid back, and from the stories he told me about how he doesn't mind spending a lot of money or buying thousand dollar designer bags and such…sounds like a total package to me.  I'm excited with whatever he decides, so I'm looking forward to see how this transgresses.


Both Mr. Artist and Mr. Yacht want an exclusive sugar relationship.  Mr. Yacht is married…and it always makes me raise an eyebrow when a man clearly committed to someone else wants me to be committed to him 100%.  What's up with that?  I don't mind only having one SD as long as all of my needs are fulfilled.  So I guess we'll see which one steps up to the plate.  Mr. Yacht could very well offer me a job, and Mr. Artist agree to be my benefactor…and I'll be well on my way to SB paradise!


♥ Dream SB

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Total Disappointment & New Hope

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Sugary Updates

I was kinda bummed out today.  Captain called me this afternoon to politely inform me that he changed his mind (flaked!) about giving me an allowance.  He rambled on about how he thought about it and just wasn't comfortable doing it, and didn't want to.  Then why are you on a sugar daddy website?  Seriously.  I took my time with him so we could at least establish a level of trust.  It wasn't a complete waste since he did spoil me with shopping and high end experiences.  I'm just really disappointed because I genuinely liked his company and to have him help me stay in school would've have been the total perfect package.  I was still really nice about it because he's a good man.  He deserves a good woman who is his age and will cuddle with him at night and have spa days with his daughter.  Me on the other hand…I've got to go figure out what I'm going to do about this tuition.


On a more upbeat note! I just got back from the Jill Scott & Anthony Hamilton concert.  It was amazing!  I had a blast dancing and singing along.  I wonder if people thought Mr. Artist was my grandfather.  When we were walking up to the venue, some black guys started shouting, "Hey, hey! You see that girl? That girl right there is PAID! GET YO MONEY BABY!"  We do look like an odd pair.  I think he felt quite out of place in a crowd of 10,000 hyped and soulful partying black people.  He got us great seats right in front of the stage.  The restaurant that he took me to was gorgeous.  It was lavishly decorated like a tibetan palace and the food was pricey yet delicious.  I enjoyed our conversation over two glasses of moscotto.  I really like him, he's nice, thoughtful, and pleasant.


So I brought up the allowance thing with Mr. Artist (This is date 2) and he rambled on about how he thought the concept spurred deceit and exploitation.  How can someone be exploited if they agreed to the terms of the relationship?  That's absurd.  So I stated that he wasn't comfortable giving me an allowance, but he differed with me and said that he was.  I told him I wanted $2500-$3000/mo.  He didn't comment on it, but I think we'll talk about it more tomorrow. I think he will come through for me, but I have a feeling that it might not last long or that he'd easily flake and change his mind.  I need someone who is stable and comfortable with this sort of thing…funny that's hard to find on a sugar daddy website!


Well I have a date lined up with Mr. Yacht and Mr. Bicycles for this week.  Next week I'll be flying to Michigan to meet a new POT, and also trying to set up a date with another new POT who has already agreed that $500/week was comfortable for him.  So I'm not missing a beat.  I will find the SD who is just right for me…or right for right now ;)

♥ Dream SB

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Pushing For A Solid Arrangement

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #016

Plan your dates in places where people who know you personally won't likely bump into you.  Many sugar babies do not want their friends or families knowing that they date older men for security.  Some don't care, but I think its safe to say that a majority of sugar babies have people in their lives that don't know about that aspect of their life.  So if you don't want to run into an ex, a co worker, or your MOM, its wise to avoid dates in places they frequent.  One of my sugar baby friends was on a date using a fake name…a friend definitely recognized her and ran up to her shouting out her real name.  EMBARRASSING!  I'm always afraid something like that is going to happen to me :P


Sugary Updates


Captain:


We had out date last night.  The moroccan restaurant is a reservation only restaurant and they were all booked up yesterday.  So we went to a classy American restaurant instead.  I got lost and was late…which is never good, but it gives him more incentive to buy me a GPS (mine got stolen).  We had a lovely dinner with great conversation as always.  I couldn't help but be distracted by this other sugar baby's tits who was sitting right across from me…like seriously?! She was a gorgeous latino chick, voluptuous curves…but definitely not fat.  Somehow she felt the need to squeeze her beautiful juicy body into a dress 3 sizes too small so that her breasts were bulging out of the top.  Bulging is not an exaggeration…it looked so ridiculous, trashy, and completely distracting haha!  And this girl had a motor mouth…talk talk talk…I swear I hardly heard her older date say a word.


There was several other sugar couples at this restaurant as well.  Another couple seated further away was a grandfatherish older gentleman with a classy youthful brunette.  She was eloquently dressed and seductively swayed her leg that she had crossed.  I also saw a black sugar couple…it wasn't so obvious at first because the guy did not appear to be much older until I got a closer look when I walked by him.  They seemed happy.  There were no hating or questioning looks from people.  Even the wait staff didn't show any emotion towards the somewhat odd pairing between me and my older date.  It was as if this was the norm and how things should be.  I loved it!


After dinner I gave Captain a few little kisses and coyly whispered in his ear, "So is your baby going to get an allowance?"  I had brought it up once before and he told me that he was ok with an allowance and that I would be well taken care of…but never said how much.  I didn't push the issue.  This time he replied with, "I'll see what I can do, but rest assured you will be well taken care of with me."  Then he preceded to tell me that he was planning on getting me plane tickets to go traveling and that he wanted to take me shopping.  I need a definition on "Well Taken Care Of".  What the fuck does that mean?  Again I didn't push any further.  I know, I need to be bolder, but I have a plan for that ass.


He flies back out on a business trip again tomorrow.  He'll be out of state primarily for most of the year…which is great.  I can fly to some nice locations and see him a few times a month, but otherwise my time is free.  No surprise dates.  No pressure to spend great amounts of time together.  I won't go see him until I have received my allowance.  So I'm picking up a visa gift card and I'm going to suggest that he put a certain amount on my card via online every week.  When you break down a monthly allowance into weekly increments…it sounds less scary, less of a big deal.  We'll see if he agrees to at least $500 a week ($2000-$2500/mo).  I don't think that's unfair to ask.  I like him, so hopefully we can get on the same page…or else my financial situation is going to force me to drop him.


I have a date with Mr. Artist to a tibetan restaurant and the Jill Scott concert tomorrow.  I will be pushing for a solid arrangement with him as well…no more wasting my time or dancing around the issue.  I'm ready for him to either get with the program or get lost ;)

♥ Dream SB

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Jill Scott Concert & Exotic Restaurants

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Sugar Baby Tip #015

Compile a list of rich men hangouts in your area.  Sometimes you may be able to meet the perfect SD at the bar of a pretentious restaurant, or in a high class lounge during lunch hours.  The online search can be effective, but expanding your search to meeting POTs socially may work in your favor!  I had a POT approach me at a bar of an overpriced Brazilian Steakhouse while I was waiting for date with another POT lmao!


Sugary Updates

I am still glowing like a 100 watt lightbulb after three rounds of erotic wresting with Mr. Price the other day.  My thighs still hurt too ::winces:: LOL!  I'd be under him all weekend too if his brother wasn't going to be in town.  Oh well, back to work haha.


Tonight Captain flies back into town this evening from his business trip to Boston.  I'm excited to see him again.  He's such a sweetheart.  I want him to be my big teddy bear SD.  I made reservations for us to go to a high class Moroccan restaurant tonight.  It's very intimate, serves a 7 course meal, and has belly dancers performing tonight.  This will be the perfect opportunity for us to discuss an official arrangement since he has already told me he'd like me to be his SB.


I reserved this Saturday to be a day for myself.  My summer semester in grad school is ending so I need to get busy on finals.  On Sunday I have a date with Mr. Artist.  Inspired by my best friend who is also a new SB, I decided to ask Mr. Artist to take me to a concert.  My friend went to see Britney Spears, Nikki Minaj, and Taylor Swift in concert…all in one week!  I've never been to a concert before.  Mr. Artist bought tickets to Jill Scott's concert!  I absolutely love her new album…its so jazzy, sexy, and sensual :)  Before the concert we're going to a gorgeous exotic restaurant that has a Tibetan Palace atmosphere.


Introducing New POT and POOFs Back From The Dead


Mr. Planes


He's a middle aged gentleman who owns two private planes.  He's married, which means he won't be taking up all of my evenings and weekends.  He travels quite a bit and has an adventurous streak.  He likes going go kart racing, riding in hot air balloons, and scuba diving.  Sounds like a good time to me!  We should be setting up a date next week, which is perfect because it's my last week of work and my boss already told me she doesn't need me for two days.  I'll have plenty of time for a lunch date.

Mr. Yacht


He is in his late thirties, fairly handsome, and owns a yacht.  We had a lunch date two weeks ago that he flaked on and just when ghost.  He emailed me last night and texted me this morning.  Seems like he's still interested.  He's going to have to really do it big to impress me because he has some making up to do.  I'm going to request he bring a gift to our first date.  I need to know he's serious.  So yeah…buy me an iphone bitch!!!

Mr. Bicycles


He is a bit older, loves girly girls, and not bad on the eyes.  We lost contact for a bit because he went on a business trip to Europe.  Now he is back in town as promised, so we'll set up a lunch date for next week as well.  He already said that my $3000 monthly allowance was in his budget and keeps sending me links to top designer heels he'd like to see me wear.  I'm looking forward to him because he has been consistent, and is experienced at being an SD.  None of that cheapie, or sensitive about giving me cash business.  He knows the deal.

I'm super excited because it looks like my weekend is off to a great start!

♥ Dream SB

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Introducing Mr. Flintstone & SB Movie Night

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #013

Collect your money up front.  If he's agreed to a certain amount and wants to get naughty, remember no matter how you dress it up, business is business.  Be smart, ensure he fulfills his end of the bargain before you fulfill yours...or else you might get the excuse..."Oh I'll give it to you when I have more cash on me."  Then poof!  SDs with a good track record may be excluded from this tip...but some new sugar on your plate...just be on the safe side ;-*


Sugary Updates

I have a few new POTs.  They all have auditions this week (first dates LOL).  Just as selective as these guys are going to be with SBs, I'm going to be selective as well.  My time is precious, so I want it to go to the best bidder.  Money is not the only thing these POTs are bidding with...company, personality, affection, fun, and other perks like travel, or occupational connections.


Introducing Mr. Flintstone.  I have chosen to name him as such because he insists that I massage his feet on our first date.  All I can think about rubbing someone's hammer toes is Fred Flintstone.  He's handsome, married, new to the sugar world, young, and supposedly a millionaire.  I'll believe the last descriptive when I see the tax forms or Giuseppe Zanotti heels on my feet.  He's quite intelligent and well spoken...I like him so far from our conversations.  He's very lavish with affection.


We have breakfast planned for tomorrow, but he called it off once already.  While messaging he hinted at wanting to do something more erotic than just a foot massage...on the first date!  I frankly told him that I was not interested in sexual favors on a first date, let alone without a formal arrangement.  For someone who claimed to be so dominant he took it quite sensitively.  I told him I wasn't being nasty about it, just clear, open, and honest.  He called off our date and dismissed me.  A bit taken aback by how touchy he was about it, but I was non-chalant.  I wasn't going to beg him to meet me.


Before I know it, Mr. Flintstone was messaging me again talking about how fixated and infatuated he was with me.  The date is back on.  He promised to never force himself on me, and that he'd be comfortable with any arrangement I'd like to set up.  We'll see about that, my price is brandished on my profile, but you'd be surprised how many POTs conveniently didn't notice that it was out of their budget before contacting me.  I might have to raise my allowance if he wants me to be touching his feet all of the time...so gross >_

Sugar Baby Friends

Today I stopped by one of my sugar baby friend's house and we went out to buy ice cream and snacks.  We watched the first 6 episodes of Secret Diaries of a Call Girl together for anthropological research.  Though call girls are distinctly different than sugar babies, they are not worlds apart.  I love my sugar friend because she actually busted out a notebook and started taking notes.  Her POT just took her to see the Brittney Spears and Nicki Minaj concert last night.  I think I might bring it up to Captain and see if he wants to take me to see it in Boston :D  Most of her POTs want a per-meeting allowance, which isn't bad.  I'm really happy for her because she doesn't have an official arrangement yet, but she has been gifted a lap top, a cell phone, and shopping money.  Its so much better telling another SB about your adventures because regular girls tend to get super feminist on you :)


♥ Dream SB

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