Island Sugar Baby

Hello Dolls!

I am bubbling over with joy!  Guess where I'm flying next week?  I'm taking a vacay to the Virgin Islands.  My homegirl just came home from living overseas with her SD and he's treating us to some girl-time in the VI! :)  The sugar world is oooh soo sweet.


Sugar Baby Tip #029

Step outside of your comfort zone...experience a slice of the good life!  This is mainly for the newbies.  Is Olive Garden your favorite restaurant?  Ok I need you to get on google and find some 5 star restaurants with celebrity status dining experiences and suggest your SD or POT take you there.  Never had a spa day?  Ask your SD to send you to get your hair and nails done along with a facial, a massage, and some time in the sauna.  Have fun with this, get creative, get imaginative!  This is your time to shine!


Sugary Updates

I've got 3 POTs who have strong potential for crossing over into Sugar Daddy land.  Hopefully at least 2 of them are man enough to take on the challenger ::grins::.  If they don't work out, oh well, on to the next one.  I'm not investing a great deal of energy into POTs anymore.  A man knows within 30 seconds of meeting me if I'm desireable enough to be kept.  So all this going on multiple dates without an arrangement...not gonna happen.  Show me the money!  I'm excited because I like all three of them fairly well enough to tolerate their company.  I really like my SD and I think our relationship is unique to what people think of SB/SD relationships, so I am greatly pleased with it.  I just need some extra cash for security and mainly savings so I can buy a house in a year or so once I'm done with grad school.


Now I gotta do a little shopping for my VI trip.  Hmmm perhaps I should call a gift daddy.  If you don't have one, get one!  I need island inspired dresses....a wide brimmed floppy straw hat...some new precious stoned sandals...and new bikini wouldn't hurt either.  I'm definitely going to schedule my spa trip I talked about in my last post before I fly out.  I wish the trip was a cruise, but my friend gets terribly seasick.  I won't complain about a resort too much ;-*  If you could take a trip anywhere right now, all expenses paid...where would you go?

♥ Dream SB

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Every Sugar Baby Needs A Spa Day

Hello Dolls!

This has been a hectic week for me so far.  It seems like I have less and less time for sugar.  I guess the difference is that when I started a month ago, I was underemployed and got to sleep in till noon everyday.  Now a POT has given me a full time job, and I have make sure I make time for my sweet sweet SD…while I continue my search for more sugar to fund my mountain wants and needs.  I've never been so ambitious in my life.  It's crazy how determined I am to achieve goals that most people wouldn't even bother dreaming of.  I love it.  If I want to sun bathe on a French beach…I could if I looked for exotic trips in a SD.  My self-worth has definitely increased and become more aware to me since I've been sugaring.  Kinda weird since many people think that the whole concept of sugar dating objectifies women and degrades them.  I don't think so at all.  I feel like I'm on a pedestal, appreciated, and prized.  Why did I ever put up with boyfriends who would yell at me and treat me anything less than a princess?  I've also learned how to consciously express gratitude more.  Not that I never said thank you for nice things, but I really make a point to appreciate the amazing things that are done for me and not to act entitled to it.  For every SD or POT that would do something sugary splendid for me, I know there are at least 50 regular guys who wouldn't.


So me and my SB bestie were talking about our experiences and I think a definite must-have experience in the sugar world is an all expense paid spa day.  By no means am I living the highest of high lives in the sugar world, because there is yet so much for me to experience.  I am pleased with what I have achieved so far in such a short amount of time…money that easy almost feels sinful or dangerous like drug money.  I think I'm going to ask either Mr. Shades or Mr. Eventful…or BOTH…for a spa day.  A good sugar baby needs a day of relaxation…or weekend of it!


My SB bestie found a mega spa near our area.  This place has a full restaurant, nail salon, hair salon, full body massages including hot stone massage, a sauna, ice rooms, jacuzzis, public mineral baths, facials and so much more.  I really want to go to the gym (I need to ask a POT to get me a membership), and then relax for the day at this spa.  The public mineral bath has me a little weirded out because I don't normally let other women see me nude…at least not for free haha j/k!  Its really popular in Asian countries…so we'll see, I guess its a first time for everything lol.


How much do you spend on spa days?  I'm not sure what to ask for, so some ideas would be nice.

♥ Dream SB

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Wanted: SD To Fund Trip To Tokyo!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #027

Create a budget.  Once you get some sugar rolling in steady it is easy to run off spending it all willie nillie on things that you've been wanting for a long time.  Put away the money you want to save first and never touch it.  If you don't have a plan for saving money, you should get one because SD money is never guaranteed even though it feels like there is a strong commitment.  Set goals to get the things that you want and to get bills you want paid.  When you reach your goals it will definitely generate good positive energy rewarding you for the crap you might have had to deal with to get there.


Sugary Updates

One of my flakes resurfaced recently.  The only reason why I think he flaked in the first place is because my SB friend also went out with him and told him that we were friends even though she was supposed to keep that to herself.  He showed some interest so I figured all was not lost with him.  I was terribly bored today and I couldn't spend time with any of my regular fellows.  Mr. Price was jumping on a plane to the Middle East and Mr. Platinum was trapped with his wife.  So I decided to randomly call up the POT that I mentioned flaked.  I never gave him a name, so we can now refer to him as Mr. International since he travels the world quite a bit.


He's young and not bad on the eyes.  Mr. International is really laid back and easy to relate to.  We went out for drinks and had some great conversation about a little bit of everything.  I didn't bring up an arrangement even though I should have.  I guess because he fell off before I just want him to show me he's interested and serious before I exert the energy on it all.


Mr. Platinum, my ex, is going to Japan next month for 30 days.  He's spending two weeks in Tokyo and two weeks in Okinawa.  I really want to spend a week in Tokyo with him.  I seriously need to hurry up and find someone to buy me a plane ticket, then Mr. Platinum can take care of the rest.  The only thing I am afraid of is that our trip will be more than platonic.  I have nothing against his wife and I don't want to be a contributing factor to their break up if it ever comes to that.  But the idea of exploring Tokyo with him makes me all giddy like a lil girl!  There is no one I trust more than anyone else in this world to explore a foreign country with.  While he's at work I can take his car to go out and he can give me some of his meal allowance to get food and go shopping.  Sounds like I got a new sugar goal :)

♥ Dream SB

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The Life of an American Geisha

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #026

If you plan on having sex with an SD, suggest getting a STD check up together at a local clinic.  It may seem inconvenient, but getting burned is even more inconvenient.  Don't assume that just because he has a lot of money or that he's married that he's clean.  Wealthy people have disturbingly nasty habits like any other social group and they can be even more careless when so many women make themselves available to them.  Always practice safe sex using condoms, but still get tested because what if the condom breaks?  You'd be surprised how many people who know they have HIV really don't give a fuck about giving it to anyone else.


Sugary Updates

I've been really sick this week and my POTs have been flakey too.  I cancelled with Mr. Artist several times and I feel bad.  I will go see him today now that I'm feeling better.  Mr. Tokyo cancelled.  Mr. Jet poofed.  Another POT offering $4k a month I call Mr. Pleaser poofed as well.  Mr. Yacht has been irritable with me at work.  Mr. Eventful is the guy that my SB bestie dated briefly and he poofed on her.  Well he didn't poof on me.


We had dinner at a beautiful Tibetan restaurant that Mr. Artist treated me to last month.  Afterwards we explored the area and the other restaurants.  We went into one restaurant jam packed with sugar couples.  There wasn't anywhere to sit down.  So I surveyed the people around me.  To my right was two grey haired white men with two young blondes, one tall, one short.  The tall blonde playfully hugged and kissed her SD.  Their flirting had me transfixed.  I dissected her outfit.  She had on Fendi heels with the F symbol brandished at the toe.  Her dress was designer too…BeBe? Maybe BCBG.  She wasn't very thin, but she was statuesque with long legs and big blue eyes that made her SD who might of otherwise been a powerful man melt into the puppy dog that he was that night.  To my left there was an older black man with a blonde sugar baby.  He had his hand on her thigh as they leaned in close to have their conversation over drinks.  No one looked at me and Mr. Eventful as if we were an odd pair.  I liked this place.  The sugar babies were all classy and enjoying their sugary night.


I like Mr. Eventful.  I didn't find him to be creepy or weird at all.  Our conversation flowed freely and comfortably.  He suspected that my SB bestie put me up to the date, but I pretended not to know who he was talking about.  Either way I contacted him of my own free will anyways.  I didn't have to tell her I was going out with him.  He didn't give me any sugar cash or gifts other than gas in my car.  I won't turn down any black gold.  I question how much he's willing to spoil.  My minimum is $2k/mo plus gifts and occasional travel.  I tastefully asked him about his previous sugars and what their relationships were like. He never threw out any specific figures on how he spoiled them, but I will reiterate my expectations that are clearly posted on my profile.  If he's willing to help me, then I will gladly continue to get closer to him.  If not…then you already know ;-)


I also met up with my ex Mr. Platinum whom I've dated on and off for several years.  This is the only man I've ever loved and I met him when I was only a teenager.  He taught me everything from how to build my own credit to building my own business.  He spoiled me with gifts, money, travel, love, support, and so much more.  To be fair, he's also obnoxious, moody, needy at times, distant, and angsty.  Sometimes he just simply loves to piss me off.  But for whatever reason…perhaps the red string of fate, we always come back to one another in one form or another.  He's married to a foreigner who I suspect doesn't like him very much.  I don't blame her because he's an acquired taste :) but she is much luckier than she probably realizes or appreciates.


Mr. Platinum met me at Baskin Robins for some ice cream only a half mile from his home.  Its the first time I've seen him since he got married 9 months ago.  We talk semi-regularly but I haven't had a particular interest in seeing him until he suggestively invited me over to his place for a bit before his wife got home.  I know he was just joking since he really wouldn't risk his nuts with his tempered pseudo-submissive wife…so I suggested we meet for ice cream instead…harmless and private.  I told him about my sugar exploits and he seemed quite tickled with what I have been doing.  He even offered me some advice.  He looked great.  His eyes are so sexy to me…so I tried not to look at them because it felt sinful.  Our hug that lasted a second longer than it should almost felt like an affair.  God I miss him.  What is wrong with me?  His wife would be home soon…I had a date…we parted quickly and our ice cream affair ended like a dream.  This is what the sugar world is, a fantasy sold and bought into.  This is the life of an American Geisha.


♥ Dream SB

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Be Prepared If You Have A Sweet Tooth! My Sugar Explosion!

Hello Dolls!

I can't believe I haven't blogged in the last couple of days?! Miss me?? :)

Sugary Updates

I had dinner with Mr. Artist at a beautiful ethnic restaurant.  I loooved the food so much!  It was my recommendation, and he always goes along with my suggestions.  We had some time before dinner to walk and talk.  It was nice hearing him talk more than me for once.  Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't talk so much so I don't reveal too much on accident.  I definitely got some more insight into who he is, his personality, and his history.  Surprisingly I felt a closeness to him in a deep friendship sort of way.  He has decided to increase my allowance to $3000 a month.  This time some expectation came with the increase, so I look at it more like a job than anything else.  On top of our 4 dates a month, I will be making myself available for advice, inspiration, and encouragement…simply more conversational centered interactions.  That is cake to me :)  This is perfect since I really need to get on my feet.


I also had breakfast with Mr. Shades too.  He's definitely not my type, but he is certainly more attractive than I thought he was and seems like a complete sweetheart.  He took me to breakfast at a beautiful restaurant that was originally built in the early 1900s as a private restaurant to serve presidents, congressmen, elite businessmen, and celebrities.  Mr. Shades seems a little shy, which in turn made me feel a bit shy.  I guess I feed off of others energy, but I tried my best to overcome it and be as natural and charming as possible.  He agreed that a $2000/mo allowance would be appropriate prior to meeting if we decided to start a sugar relationship.  After breakfast I suggested we walk around the shopping district and get to know each other more.  We drove around looking for parking for a while, and finally he told me he had to go take care of some tenants that just called.  He offered to pay for my parking, but definitely didn't give me any shopping money.  I wonder if the prospect of shopping scared him off?  He didn't respond to my text that I sent afterwards thanking him for the date, so I thought that wasn't interested.  Yeah right, I don't know why I doubt myself.  He shot me a text back the next day raving about how smitten he is with me ;)


I also had the opportunity to see Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow in concert.  Mr. Yacht paid for the tickets and travel arrangements.  He even took care of two of my girlfriends as well.  He bought us all the drinks that we wanted and food too.  I invited my SB bestie and then she brought one of her friends.  Her friend was an utter embarrassment!  She asked Mr. Yacht about his wife around his other lady friends.  She got so drunk and was saying stupid things about penises and kept doing inappropriate things like grabbing my bestie's titties.  I wanted to bury her so far under the ground…lol!  The concert was amazing!  Kid Rock hopped around stage like a grasshopper.  Sheryl was as beautiful and inspiring as ever.


I had a date set up with a guy I met on wealthymen.com.  He lives in the DC area and is a notorious young businessman.  I researched his company and everything.  He's legit.  I will call him Mr. Tokyo because he's half Japanese and extremely sexy.  He promised he'd be in my area for the day on business so we'd be able to go out for sushi.  I guess there was a massive earthquake across the region causing railroad tracks getting crumpled and disabling trains…lots of big problems delaying traffic and disrupting business.  Did any of you all feel it?  Well anyways he canceled because of it, so who knows when I will see him?  It'd be nice to get a millionaire boyfriend :)


Tomorrow I have a date set up with Mr. Jet, who has his own private jet and is offering me $4,000/mo.  His offer is not as innocent as some the offers I have accepted already.  I try not to be sensitive about the whole sex issue.  I don't know why sleeping with someone who gives you money has to have the thorny association with prostitution…so it'd be so much better if I slept with him for free?  Get the fuck out of here!  Men should have been paying every woman for sex since the beginning of time.  I don't know what sexist fuck started the idea that we should give that shit up for empty promises and hollow "I love you's".  Mr. Jet said that if everything goes well, he's prepared to start my allowance next week.  We'll see.  He offered to take me shopping on our first date, so if he buys me some high ticket items then I'll know he's serious.


I started talking to a new POT from SA called Mr. Aussie.  He's handsome and athletic and has the sexiest mixture of a Scottish and Australian accent!  I love it!  He's new to the sugar world.  I've noticed that many of these guys join sugar sites without knowing what to expect because of a "friend's" recommendation.  I would've thought these so called friends would give them an idea of what to offer a girl they were interested and how to approach things.  Apparently not.  My desired allowance is posted articulately on my profile and he brought it up.  I told him we didn't need to negotiate an arrangement just yet and I'd like to meet and see if there was any chemistry first.  I thought that was the right thing to say…I'm not sure now.  After our first conversation he emailed me and said that he could tell by our communication that he couldn't be involved with me on the regular.  So he offered me a non-sexual couples massage and shopping on occasion instead.  WTF??  I mean I love massages and shopping, but if you're not interested…then why even that?  I don't see the benefit other than him trying to let me down nicely.  Oh well its probably just talk cuz he's scared of real sugar.


I've also had a rendezvous with Mr. Price! If you don't know who he is, he's this fine young and wealthy guy I've been casually dating on and off over the last year.  It was late and I had just finished up a date in his area so I decided to give him a call before I started my journey home.  He answered! I wasn't sure because he travels at least 4 days a week.  He sounded sooo sleepy but still offered for me to come over for a little bit to catch up while he was still in town…and catch up we did ;-*! He knows about my sugar exploits, which I describe to him as compensated dating.  I love how he's not immediately repulsed by it and is intrigued.  I coyly joked that what I was about to do would cost anyone else $5k :P  As I was cuddled up with him chatting about different he things, he mentioned how he really liked how I give head.  Usually that's just a cue, but then he described in detail what he liked about it and how it was different than how any other girl has ever given him head.  I love that about him…he pays attention to details and is so appreciative of things that other guys don't really care about.


I teased him with kisses up and down his torso and then preceded to give him some of the head that he liked so much.  I loved how he closed his eyes and looked like a kid in a candy shop.  Then I jokingly stopped, yawned and rolled over.  He pounced on me, flipped me over, lifted my dress and just slid my thong over.  I love how he gets naked in 0.9 seconds and I take forever.  I guess he didn't feel like waiting so he fucked me with all of my clothes still on.  I love his gentle strength and dominance in bed.  I moved and he slipped out on accident.  He just smacked my ass and pulled me back to him telling me to stop fighting it. ::Melts just thinking about it!:: The more I squirm or try to push him away, the more he restrains me and purposely pleasures me more.  Afterwards we showered together and he asked me if I'll be able to go back to dating regular guys once I get what I need.  I looked up at him and sensed a tinge of longing and disappointment in his deep golden brown eyes.  I didn't say anything because I knew the next thing that was going to come out of my mouth was going to be a lie.  The sugar world is addictive…will it be all that easy to give up?

♥ Dream SB

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Sex & No Sugar…WTF?!!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Daddy Tip

Please don't think that your dick is magical or have supernatural powers where women should be desperate to fuck you for nothing of real value in return.  Don't get me wrong Daddies…we love sex just as much as you do…but we have access to unlimited dick from young stallions in our age group.  So if the only way you're looking to spoil a younger woman is with dick…yeah you're not a sugar daddy so go join onlinebootycall.com.


Sugary Updates

So as you can tell I'm in a splendid mood today.  I think I was reading Blissful's blog and saw she had a date from ArrangementSeekers.com.  I hadn't heard of that site, so I got excited and went on there to sign up.  I noticed that they are also a mirror site for EstablishedMen.com … which is bad news.  These wealthy guys sign up on EM.com thinking they are getting into a dating arena for real relationships that lead to love and marriage with young beautiful women.  EM.com and AS.com are the same site, so these loverboys' profiles are being advertised to women who signed up on AS.com looking for Sugar Daddies.  What I found to be even more annoying is that I saw a lot of profiles of men explicitly looking for sex, and flat out saying that they are not looking to give any allowances or expensive gifts. WTF?  Forreal…you want me to come fuck your old fuddy duddy ass with no strings attached…for what…dinner?


For Example - this appeared in a profile:

I would desire full adult consentual physical intimacy, including making love and oral pleasure both giving and receiving, as well as of course kissing too. On my own principles though I will not offer direct monetary payouts, a monthly allowance, or gifting with like expensive jewelry in the traditional sugardaddy sense.

Okay let's rationalize this fellas!  Sex for Dinner Arrangements…are stupid! Quit advertising that shit like its cool.  I think its safe to say that most Sugar Babies can afford to buy themselves dinner (some can't, but that's a whole different level of financial need).  I think it is also safe to say that most men cannot grow a pussy and fuck themselves.  When you join a site for mutually beneficial dating that means you give us something we don't already have and we give you something you all don't already have.  In this example (the quote above) it would be financial support in exchange for pussy.  I just had to go Sesame Street on that ass!  Oh and by the way the idiot that posted full adult physical intimacy in exchange for no allowance on his profile…he posted a picture of his wack ass bird check hahaha!

In other news…I am also a bit PISSED THE FUCK OFF because Captain didn't call me all day, or answer my calls when clearly we were supposed to meet up.  I wanted to go catch the new Final Destination 5 movie at the IMAX theatre and do some shopping.  I even picked out everything I wanted yesterday and put it on hold in the fitting rooms so that I wouldn't tire him from a long shopping trip.  This nigga decides to call me after 7PM…clearly when the stores are closing in 2 hrs and it takes him at least an hour to get to my area.  I didn't even bother answering because I wasn't going to give away my company for nothing in return except for a plate of mediocre food.  I know I sound like an ass right now, but I made it clear to him from the beginning that I was looking for a Sugar Daddy not a boyfriend.  He flies back out of town tomorrow so there won't be a make-up date.  I probably won't call again because there's not much in it for me.  I got plenty of wack ass POTs lining up to be a Gift Daddy.


When I lose one, I bounce back with two!  I got two dates tomorrow.  I'm going to breakfast with a new POT Mr.  Shades.  He sent me this picture of an extreme close up of his fat face almost completely blocked by his massive sunglasses.  Forreal?  He seems pretty cool and he already agreed that $2k/mo was in his budget.  I'm going to see what he's all about, and hopefully he's not perverted.  I'd love to have someone else as a generous friend who'll help me save up some money so I can get a new place.


Then my second date is with my sweetheart Mr. Artist.  He didn't set any plans in stone yet.  I have no idea what time in the evening he's trying to meet up, but hopefully we can have dinner at a lovely place and catch up.  It's strange that I feel sort of a closeness to him despite our obvious differences.  His emotional neediness still rubs me wrong from time to time, but today his text messages made me smile.  I wanted to see him today since Captain clearly failed me on some much needed shopping, but I didn't want to disturb him from his family time.

Well I better get some sleep so I can bring my A-game to my morning date.  My birthday is coming up so I need some of these POTs to buy me things like new iPhone 5 that is supposedly coming out next month and the iPAD 3.

♥ Dream SB

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I Want A SD Who Will Make Everyday Feel Like My Birthday!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip # 025

Not sure how to ask a POT or SD for things?  I practice with regular guys :)  SBs who have been in the game for a while know exactly what to say and how to say it to get the things that they want.  Being new to it all, it can seem awkward because I'm not used to asking people for thousands of dollars or designer shoes…and then they just give it to me :P  I've asked for things…with un-success…a lesson learned, but also possibly a loss on a potentially good SD.  So what I've been doing is asking regular guys to spoil me…just on a smaller scale.  Regular guys in my opinion are young guys that are good looking and are used to getting girls all the time without having to put forth much effort, or have very many valuable assets.  If you can convince a guy like that to splurge and spoil you then chances are he thinks that you're sincere, interested, and sweet about it.  That's how you want to appeal to an SD because many of them are used to gold digging self-entitled and selfish women.  I've noticed that the way you ask for things can either make or break an SD relationship.


Sugary Updates

Mr. Artist is showing me more of an emotional side lately.  He's being a little needy and that naturally just kind of pushes me away because I have a low affinity when it comes to dealing with other people's desperations.  It's almost a primitive instinct in me to distance myself from people who are emotionally needy so that I don't get emotionally drained with them.  It's like self-preservation.  I think he's noticed a change in the frequency of my responses and has become a bit untrusting of me.  I really do like him and I think he's an amazing human being, but some of his low self esteem comments piss me off.  My cynical side thinks he's just fishing for compliments, but then another part of me doesn't know how to comfort him.  ::sighs:: I don't have the road map, so I don't always have the answers.  I'm just going to be patient and show him that I care and I'm not going anywhere (of course I'm not going anywhere lol!).


Mr. Yacht bought me and my friends tickets to a rock concert.  I'd say who I'm going to see but I don't want to disclose too many details.  I'm super excited.  It's my SB bestie's birthday, so I told her to invite her girls and Mr. Yacht will cover it.  I think that is a great birthday present since the day of her concert is actually on her birthday!  Next weekend we're going to an amusement park to continue the birthday celebrations :)  She just got a whole bunch of money from a POT so we went shopping and then out to dinner for drinks.  It was really nice to have a girl's night and to do it with no expense spared :)  Life is good.


I saw a sugar couple in the mall today.  It was a black couple and the SB was soooo beautiful!  She had on a gorgeous lavender and white sun dress and her SD followed behind her like a puppy.  She looked thoroughly pleased and took her time covering every inch of Forever 21.  I saw her check out with a mountain of clothes!  I know that's right cuz Forever 21 clothes are more for your buck!  Perhaps the SDs with the bored looking SBs should take them shopping.  I haven't seen one pitiful SB on a shopping trip yet! ;-)

♥ Dream SB

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One SBs POT Trash Is Another's Jack POT!

Hello Dolls!

Sugary Updates

So my SB bestfriend got flaked on by a POT that she was going out with for a while and trying to get him to be her official SD.  When she pushed for an agreement he went POOF!  Well I found his punk ass on SA.com  I messaged him and he responded >;-P Now I'm no expert in the sugar world, but I do have a way with people.  My SB bestie made some key mistakes with this guy, so maybe learning from those mistakes I can capture his interest and get an allowance and some gifts out of him.  He seems like a nice guy.  I mean he wasn't an asshole to her in the least.  I'm going to try to charm him for the present that he was supposed to give her, and then see if he'll make a good SD.  His allowance budget matches what I've asked for on my profile.  Just because things didn't work out with the two of them doesn't mean he's a bad guy or have sucky SD potential…it just means it didn't work out between the two of them.  Not everyone is for everyone.  I openly discussed my plans with her so there won't be any bruised pride or hard feelings.  If I can get the present that was meant for her, I'll gladly give it to her as a gift.


So things are really getting fun at the office.  Mr. Yacht is really easy going with me and generous…almost as if he's trying to entice me into being his SB subconsciously.  Here are some of the cool things that I'm excited about:


Office Pet
I asked Mr. Yacht if I could get an office pet and he said yes!  I brought in a gorgeous Japanese style fish tank for my desk today.  I want to put saltwater fish in it and Mr. Yacht offered to buy all of the supplies and the fish.  That can be costly!  He even said he'll buy me a stand just for my fish tank.  I want to get a little clownfish like nemo, a starfish, and a yellow and purple dotty back.  The tank is only 5 gallons, but that is all I would want to clean.


Mr. Yacht says that fish don't count as the office pet because you can't pet them.  So he suggested that I go out and get a puppy on him.  I thought long and hard about what kind of puppy I want to get.  The guys at the job would have less appreciation for a teacup pooch than something they can wrestle with.  I think I'm going to get a yellow lab puppy.  What should I name him?


Interior Design
So the office is a bit…rough looking.  The walls have tons of marks on them.  I told Mr. Yacht that I want to paint the office turquoise.  Again, he said yes and even told me that I could hire contractors to come in and do the painting.  What are some other good colors for an office?  I'm the only woman in this company…so pink might not be fair to the boys.  Although Mr. Yacht said I can paint the walls whatever color I please.


Assistant
I was a bit shocked when Mr. Yacht told me that I could hire my own personal assistant if I thought I could use one.  The job really is a lot of work for one person.  My workload is never ending, but I am a manager so I should be able to hire whoever I need to get the job done.  This new sense of power is exciting.  I wonder why the last office manager didn't hire a helping hand…maybe she didn't get the option :)


A POT turned employer isn't a bad deal at all.  I'm looking forward to my paycheck and at least a job has little bit more security.  He actually needs me not just wants me.  Trying to dip out on me now can be costly and a headache.  Besides I'm catching on pretty quick and am a load of fun to be around.

♥ Dream SB

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Nails, Glam, and Vegas??

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #024

Don't treat your SD like an ATM.  If a man treats you well, you should treat him just as well.  The whole sugar baby lifestyle gets a bad rep because there are women who come across sweet and generous SDs…and they treat them like emotionless machines.  I'm not saying you should be falling in love with your SD, but you should humanely express your appreciation.  He'll stick around much longer and be more loyal to you that way :)


Sugary Updates

One of the things I always preach is that sugars should keep themselves maintained!  Pay attention to the details when it comes to taking care of your appearance and health…its not just for him, its mostly for YOU!  I did my nails this week  I try not to spend a whole bunch of money on things that I can do myself.  Check out my neon pink zebra design on natural nails!


My bestfriend and fellow SB painted little pandas on hers!  Sooo cute! Check them out:


I also bought a new wig so my hair can always look freshly done on a moment's notice.  I always go with the natural curly looks and I think it trumps up on my Creole side too.  It's Sensationnel Instant Weave HZ 7061.  This is what it looks like below.  It reminds me of a Spanish curl :)


I'm going to look drop dead gorgeous when Captain comes into town this weekend.  Hair will be perfect, nails will be perfect, and I'm going have some kind of sexy sassy yet classy dress.  I'm itching to go shopping so I think I'm going to take Amelia's advice and drag him down to dinner in a high priced shopping area.  I love his company, but he really needs to make this relationship more mutually beneficial.  I'll accept him as a gift daddy, but I expect some really nice ass gifts!


Sugary & Spiced Discussions 

Topic:  Traveling with SDs and POTs.

I hear about SBs traveling with SDs all the time.  I had a POT invite me to go to Vegas next weekend.  I've only met him once and barely know him.  Should I just pack up my bag and jump on a plane with him?  What about hotel arrangements?  I have no intention of fucking him.  If you were in that situation would you request your own hotel room?  Would you request an allowance, or at least one for the trip?  What are some of your traveling experience and what tips or advice do you have?


I look forward to hearing your comments, thoughts, opinions, and advice!  If you're reading and not subscribed, please subscribe!  I love knowing who's following me in this sugary world :)

♥ Dream SB

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A Phone Snooping POT & A Woman's Scorn

Hello Dolls!

I had such an amusing day :)  So I was woken up by my phone at like 1 AM and had gotten 8 or 9 text messages from my ex boyfriend.  I'm thinking to myself…WTF!  Then I read the messages and this is what it said:

"Malachai is a lying piece of shit…a cheater that plots on bitches online…ladies beware! He lives with a bitch…left his phone in my care and is straight busted…Dates a different POF girl everyday…yall can have his trifflin bitch ass! At least I got free drinks off of his ass.  He has no fuckin game.  Lame ass."


I burst out into laughter because whoever his pissed off date was…she sent that message from his phone to everyone in his contacts…all the women…his aunt…his mama…his boss…even his pastor!  Let me give you some background on this asshole.  I dated him for 4 months…and he is a pathological liar.  Lied about who he lives with…the works.  This dude had nerve to start taking other female "friends" out because I couldn't afford to travel into the city to go on dates with him (and he refused to come see me or give me gas money).   I called his phone and the girl picks up with a real ghetto intonation when she said "Hel-luh".  Apparently he told her that he broke up with me because I'm bulimic and that we just broke up last week….bahahaha that's such a load of bull…(1) I'd like a bigger ass, so I won't be vomiting my meals anytime soon, and (2) We broke up over a month ago.  So I kindly informed her that he lives with his mom…has severe erectile disfunction…doesn't have a car (yet will borrow cars to hide that fact)…and only takes girls out to free events for dates.  That tickled me :)  She kindly informed the rest of his phone book about that too LOL.

Sugar Updates

I had a first date with Mr. Flavor right after work today. Ok…epic fail on my part…a tall white man in a business suit walks through the door and I flash him a greeting smile and wave…yeah…not my date!  I'm so terrible! I really do think all white people look alike! (No offense to my caucasian sugars lol, but I'm half white too so imagine me at family reunions lol) Mr. Flavor arrived a half hour late.  My Sex on the Beach was just ice cubes then.  He's a humorous and delightful man…much more handsome in person.  His pictures seriously don't do him any justice whatsoever…in fact he should delete them.  I lightly brushed over topics like money.  He said once he feels a connection then fulfilling any of my wants and needs wouldn't be an issue for him.  He doesn't want it to feel like a transaction, he wants to feel naturally compelled to take care of me.  That sounds all hunkey dorey and all…


BUT…how long does it take for him to feel this so called connection?  Do you feel it now?  I'm not waiting 3 months.  What does my wants and needs not being an issue mean?  He doesn't even know what they are, so how does he know he can afford them?  I hope not an issue means he'll be depositing $2k-$5k in my bank account on the 1st every month.  Somehow I feel like he's another talker…kinda how Captain promised I'd be well taken care of…and that ended up with past due bills.  So I excused myself to the bathroom and left my phone on the table.  Would you believe that fool was going through it when I snuck back to the table a different way so he couldn't see me coming.  I snatched it from him and sat down with a sinister grin.  He tried to play it off and say he never seen a pink phone before.  Reeeally…mmm hmmm…ok, sure.  I cut the date short and left.


I'm just really glad to at least have some kind of arrangement (not bad for my first) and a job that resulted from sugar dating.  So my sweet tooth is calmed for a bit, I'm not desperate for cravings for the sugar cash like I was when I first jumped into all of this.  A bad date…eh…so what.  No more ego stroking for the unworthy POTs.  They are the ones that are going to have to work a little harder to get me interested.  My boss asked me to be his SB again.  I politely declined.  Perhaps if he offered a more appealing allowance to compensate the occupational hazard of dating him would be…I might have considered it.  Why accept $1500 from him when he definitely is gonna want sex which could complicate things at work and lead to him firing me when things get weird…when Mr. Artist gives me $1600 just for 1 dinner date a week.  In the grand scheme of things $1500 isn't a lot of money, and I'd prefer to get that every week rather than every month.  So I'm going to be choosey…not all money is worth it.


♥ Dream SB

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Can A Sugar Baby Be Too Young?!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #023

Always have someone watching your back.  If you're new to all of this, you're going to be meeting many strangers and probably frequently till you find the right SD for you.  Be careful!  I'm not saying drag a buddy along on a date, but let a trust friend know what's going on.  Your "look out" should know where you are going, what time, and who you are meeting.  Call or shoot your "look out" a text when you leave for a date with a new POT, and have her text or call you in 20-45 minutes to make sure everything is smooth sailing.  Have a plan for when things are uncomfortable or you just need to get out of that situation gracefully.  If you don't have your own ride, make sure your "look out" is available to scoop you up if your sugary situation goes sour.  How about we DON'T end up like the chick that disappeared in Aruba.


Sugary Updates

Right now I have a few new POTs who haven't set much up and communicate so inconsistently, I'm not even sure how to categorize them.

Introducing Mr. Flavor.  I named him that because I love how he likes women of color :)  He called today and I really vibed with him on the phone.  I like him.  He's funny, easy to talk to, down to earth, and easy going.  Hopefully he confirms our date for tomorrow and we can explore a new restaurant together.  He gets bonus points for not being pervy :)  I'll discuss my financial expectations over dinner and see how they align up with his budget.  I'm shooting for at least $2k, so I'm going to use my amazing bartering skills.  Wish me luck!


Captain: He will be back in town this weekend!  I miss him even though he shot down my allowance.  Hopefully we can pack up for a day trip and head out to a beach or amusement park…then of course do some much need shopping!  I need fall clothes and work clothes…not to mention my iPhone 4…but I heard rumors that the iPhone 5 might be released next month.


So I messaged a young POT on SA.com showing interest.  He writes back and says:

"You're hot, but you're too young."

Okay ladies, I've gotten a few of these responses from guys who are in their 60's…this nicca is 32.  No boo…you're a little young for me hahaha.  I have not had any good luck with young POTs, but me being too young?  That's a first.  We're only 7 years apart.  I responded with sarcasm…but he's probably just a waste of my time with excuses like that.  He's probably only saying I'm too young, but he really means that he can't afford the $2k-$5k expected allowance that's in my profile.  Onto the next one!


I have 2 more items I'd like to add to my wishlist!

100% Swarovski crystal case for iPhone 4 - $360.00

Swarovski crystal dog collar for my lil fat pooch - $95.00

I'm trying not to let this who SB thing turn me materialistic…but these are SO PRETTY! :D  Sugar cash is so addicting…its the easiest money I've ever made.  I was only planning on doing the SB thing for a year…but my mind has already begun plotting on how I'm going to get sugar cash to buy a house.  I even toyed with the idea of having an SD even when I'm married.  I mean my husband would know about it, and it shouldn't be a big deal as long as I'm only going on occasional dates that don't involve sexual contact.  It's almost like hostessing in Japan.  That's what men are doing right now…paying for my company and conversation…tax free Benjamins!

♥ Dream SB


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