Wanted: SD To Fund Trip To Tokyo!

Wanted: SD To Fund Trip To Tokyo!

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #027

Create a budget.  Once you get some sugar rolling in steady it is easy to run off spending it all willie nillie on things that you've been wanting for a long time.  Put away the money you want to save first and never touch it.  If you don't have a plan for saving money, you should get one because SD money is never guaranteed even though it feels like there is a strong commitment.  Set goals to get the things that you want and to get bills you want paid.  When you reach your goals it will definitely generate good positive energy rewarding you for the crap you might have had to deal with to get there.

Sugary Updates

One of my flakes resurfaced recently.  The only reason why I think he flaked in the first place is because my SB friend also went out with him and told him that we were friends even though she was supposed to keep that to herself.  He showed some interest so I figured all was not lost with him.  I was terribly bored today and I couldn't spend time with any of my regular fellows.  Mr. Price was jumping on a plane to the Middle East and Mr. Platinum was trapped with his wife.  So I decided to randomly call up the POT that I mentioned flaked.  I never gave him a name, so we can now refer to him as Mr. International since he travels the world quite a bit.

He's young and not bad on the eyes.  Mr. International is really laid back and easy to relate to.  We went out for drinks and had some great conversation about a little bit of everything.  I didn't bring up an arrangement even though I should have.  I guess because he fell off before I just want him to show me he's interested and serious before I exert the energy on it all.

Mr. Platinum, my ex, is going to Japan next month for 30 days.  He's spending two weeks in Tokyo and two weeks in Okinawa.  I really want to spend a week in Tokyo with him.  I seriously need to hurry up and find someone to buy me a plane ticket, then Mr. Platinum can take care of the rest.  The only thing I am afraid of is that our trip will be more than platonic.  I have nothing against his wife and I don't want to be a contributing factor to their break up if it ever comes to that.  But the idea of exploring Tokyo with him makes me all giddy like a lil girl!  There is no one I trust more than anyone else in this world to explore a foreign country with.  While he's at work I can take his car to go out and he can give me some of his meal allowance to get food and go shopping.  Sounds like I got a new sugar goal :)

♥ Dream SB

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The Life of an American Geisha

The Life of an American Geisha

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #026

If you plan on having sex with an SD, suggest getting a STD check up together at a local clinic.  It may seem inconvenient, but getting burned is even more inconvenient.  Don't assume that just because he has a lot of money or that he's married that he's clean.  Wealthy people have disturbingly nasty habits like any other social group and they can be even more careless when so many women make themselves available to them.  Always practice safe sex using condoms, but still get tested because what if the condom breaks?  You'd be surprised how many people who know they have HIV really don't give a fuck about giving it to anyone else.

Sugary Updates

I've been really sick this week and my POTs have been flakey too.  I cancelled with Mr. Artist several times and I feel bad.  I will go see him today now that I'm feeling better.  Mr. Tokyo cancelled.  Mr. Jet poofed.  Another POT offering $4k a month I call Mr. Pleaser poofed as well.  Mr. Yacht has been irritable with me at work.  Mr. Eventful is the guy that my SB bestie dated briefly and he poofed on her.  Well he didn't poof on me.

We had dinner at a beautiful Tibetan restaurant that Mr. Artist treated me to last month.  Afterwards we explored the area and the other restaurants.  We went into one restaurant jam packed with sugar couples.  There wasn't anywhere to sit down.  So I surveyed the people around me.  To my right was two grey haired white men with two young blondes, one tall, one short.  The tall blonde playfully hugged and kissed her SD.  Their flirting had me transfixed.  I dissected her outfit.  She had on Fendi heels with the F symbol brandished at the toe.  Her dress was designer too…BeBe? Maybe BCBG.  She wasn't very thin, but she was statuesque with long legs and big blue eyes that made her SD who might of otherwise been a powerful man melt into the puppy dog that he was that night.  To my left there was an older black man with a blonde sugar baby.  He had his hand on her thigh as they leaned in close to have their conversation over drinks.  No one looked at me and Mr. Eventful as if we were an odd pair.  I liked this place.  The sugar babies were all classy and enjoying their sugary night.

I like Mr. Eventful.  I didn't find him to be creepy or weird at all.  Our conversation flowed freely and comfortably.  He suspected that my SB bestie put me up to the date, but I pretended not to know who he was talking about.  Either way I contacted him of my own free will anyways.  I didn't have to tell her I was going out with him.  He didn't give me any sugar cash or gifts other than gas in my car.  I won't turn down any black gold.  I question how much he's willing to spoil.  My minimum is $2k/mo plus gifts and occasional travel.  I tastefully asked him about his previous sugars and what their relationships were like. He never threw out any specific figures on how he spoiled them, but I will reiterate my expectations that are clearly posted on my profile.  If he's willing to help me, then I will gladly continue to get closer to him.  If not…then you already know ;-)

I also met up with my ex Mr. Platinum whom I've dated on and off for several years.  This is the only man I've ever loved and I met him when I was only a teenager.  He taught me everything from how to build my own credit to building my own business.  He spoiled me with gifts, money, travel, love, support, and so much more.  To be fair, he's also obnoxious, moody, needy at times, distant, and angsty.  Sometimes he just simply loves to piss me off.  But for whatever reason…perhaps the red string of fate, we always come back to one another in one form or another.  He's married to a foreigner who I suspect doesn't like him very much.  I don't blame her because he's an acquired taste :) but she is much luckier than she probably realizes or appreciates.

Mr. Platinum met me at Baskin Robins for some ice cream only a half mile from his home.  Its the first time I've seen him since he got married 9 months ago.  We talk semi-regularly but I haven't had a particular interest in seeing him until he suggestively invited me over to his place for a bit before his wife got home.  I know he was just joking since he really wouldn't risk his nuts with his tempered pseudo-submissive wife…so I suggested we meet for ice cream instead…harmless and private.  I told him about my sugar exploits and he seemed quite tickled with what I have been doing.  He even offered me some advice.  He looked great.  His eyes are so sexy to me…so I tried not to look at them because it felt sinful.  Our hug that lasted a second longer than it should almost felt like an affair.  God I miss him.  What is wrong with me?  His wife would be home soon…I had a date…we parted quickly and our ice cream affair ended like a dream.  This is what the sugar world is, a fantasy sold and bought into.  This is the life of an American Geisha.

♥ Dream SB

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A Phone Snooping POT & A Woman's Scorn

A Phone Snooping POT & A Woman's Scorn

Hello Dolls!

I had such an amusing day :)  So I was woken up by my phone at like 1 AM and had gotten 8 or 9 text messages from my ex boyfriend.  I'm thinking to myself…WTF!  Then I read the messages and this is what it said:

"Malachai is a lying piece of shit…a cheater that plots on bitches online…ladies beware! He lives with a bitch…left his phone in my care and is straight busted…Dates a different POF girl everyday…yall can have his trifflin bitch ass! At least I got free drinks off of his ass.  He has no fuckin game.  Lame ass."

I burst out into laughter because whoever his pissed off date was…she sent that message from his phone to everyone in his contacts…all the women…his aunt…his mama…his boss…even his pastor!  Let me give you some background on this asshole.  I dated him for 4 months…and he is a pathological liar.  Lied about who he lives with…the works.  This dude had nerve to start taking other female "friends" out because I couldn't afford to travel into the city to go on dates with him (and he refused to come see me or give me gas money).   I called his phone and the girl picks up with a real ghetto intonation when she said "Hel-luh".  Apparently he told her that he broke up with me because I'm bulimic and that we just broke up last week….bahahaha that's such a load of bull…(1) I'd like a bigger ass, so I won't be vomiting my meals anytime soon, and (2) We broke up over a month ago.  So I kindly informed her that he lives with his mom…has severe erectile disfunction…doesn't have a car (yet will borrow cars to hide that fact)…and only takes girls out to free events for dates.  That tickled me :)  She kindly informed the rest of his phone book about that too LOL.

Sugar Updates

I had a first date with Mr. Flavor right after work today. Ok…epic fail on my part…a tall white man in a business suit walks through the door and I flash him a greeting smile and wave…yeah…not my date!  I'm so terrible! I really do think all white people look alike! (No offense to my caucasian sugars lol, but I'm half white too so imagine me at family reunions lol) Mr. Flavor arrived a half hour late.  My Sex on the Beach was just ice cubes then.  He's a humorous and delightful man…much more handsome in person.  His pictures seriously don't do him any justice whatsoever…in fact he should delete them.  I lightly brushed over topics like money.  He said once he feels a connection then fulfilling any of my wants and needs wouldn't be an issue for him.  He doesn't want it to feel like a transaction, he wants to feel naturally compelled to take care of me.  That sounds all hunkey dorey and all…

BUT…how long does it take for him to feel this so called connection?  Do you feel it now?  I'm not waiting 3 months.  What does my wants and needs not being an issue mean?  He doesn't even know what they are, so how does he know he can afford them?  I hope not an issue means he'll be depositing $2k-$5k in my bank account on the 1st every month.  Somehow I feel like he's another talker…kinda how Captain promised I'd be well taken care of…and that ended up with past due bills.  So I excused myself to the bathroom and left my phone on the table.  Would you believe that fool was going through it when I snuck back to the table a different way so he couldn't see me coming.  I snatched it from him and sat down with a sinister grin.  He tried to play it off and say he never seen a pink phone before.  Reeeally…mmm hmmm…ok, sure.  I cut the date short and left.

I'm just really glad to at least have some kind of arrangement (not bad for my first) and a job that resulted from sugar dating.  So my sweet tooth is calmed for a bit, I'm not desperate for cravings for the sugar cash like I was when I first jumped into all of this.  A bad date…eh…so what.  No more ego stroking for the unworthy POTs.  They are the ones that are going to have to work a little harder to get me interested.  My boss asked me to be his SB again.  I politely declined.  Perhaps if he offered a more appealing allowance to compensate the occupational hazard of dating him would be…I might have considered it.  Why accept $1500 from him when he definitely is gonna want sex which could complicate things at work and lead to him firing me when things get weird…when Mr. Artist gives me $1600 just for 1 dinner date a week.  In the grand scheme of things $1500 isn't a lot of money, and I'd prefer to get that every week rather than every month.  So I'm going to be choosey…not all money is worth it.

♥ Dream SB

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