Spoil Me Big Daddy: Career

First Day of Work & B-Day Wish List

Hello Dolls!

Sugar Baby Tip #018

4 Things you should learn about a SD POT. Ok this tip is a request from another SB! She wanted to know somethings that she should talk to a SD POT about when getting to know him that will be advantageous information for her evaluating him. Here are some things that I ask POTs and why:

(1) What kind of work does he do? Does he own a company, have an executive position, or is he a worker bee? How intensive is his work schedule? Does it involve business trips? - I ask these questions because many SDs claim to make a lot of money…but "a lot" is relative. I want to assess whether he can afford the type of arrangement I'm looking for. I also want to know if he's going to be available to see me several times a month, or only once or twice.

(2) Is he married? - I simply want to know because married men typically can't spend a great deal of time in the evenings or on weekends because they have their wives and families to attend to. That can be great because he won't be smothering me. (That's just my take on it)

(3) Has he had a SB before? - This gives me an idea of whether he is used to these types of relationships and the spoiling process. Newbies may not quite know how to go about it, but could be great SDs with coaching :)

(4) What type of arrangement is he looking for and what is his budget for spoiling? - I learned quickly that this NEEDS to be brought up early on. Is this guy going to be on the same page as you? What did he have in mind in the first place before you put your expectations out there. If he wants a hot young girl to fuck in exchange for $300/mo…no need in wasting my time when I want 10x that amount just to be seen with him :P

Those are just some of the key things I ask…I could care less if he likes horror films and chinese food lol. What are some of the key things you all ask early on when getting to know a POT that help you determine whether or not he's got SD potential?

Sugary Updates

I had my first day at work as Mr. Yacht's office manager. The job is actually way more intensive than he made it sound. There is so much for me to learn and keep track of. I had no idea that on top of payroll, managing client files, taking customer service calls, assigning contractor's work, and processing invoices…I have to make sure the company's bills get paid on time, manage the company's lines of credits and bank accounts, and make sure the taxes get paid on time. I guess once I get the hang of it, it won't be a big deal…but yeah if I have trouble making sure I pay my 4 bills on time each month…what makes him think I can make sure the 50 some odd bills his company has will get paid on time LOL. He better set up automatic debit!

Otherwise, my first day was good. I only work half a day because I'm still finishing my last week at my other job. Mr. Yacht was kind enough to buy me lunch :) My other boss wasn't so kind. Guess she caught wind of my new job via facebook (I originally quit without having anything lined up) and pretty much told me not to come back after today LOL. Whatever hater :P

Wish List

So primarily I'm going to be saving my money: goal is to save $2000-$2500/mo. But my birthday is coming up and I do have a gift daddy, so I better put in my requests! I think for this fall I want to experiment my style :)